I’ve been in a relationship involving psychological and physical violence for 10 years. I have children, friends, and parents who have witnessed it. I have police reports and recordings of a man threatening to kill me and ruin my life.
The marriage was insane and I’ve done a lot in that marriage I’m not proud of. But I’ve never abused him!
Now we have split up. In the beginning, he was devastated. Devastated that he had behaved that way. He claimed he could see everything from 'the other side' and wanted to change.
Then, he started stalking me.
I have tried to keep my distance, and now he is publicly sharing stories about how he lived in a relationship with a narcissist. He is literally sitting there explaining how to spot one - describing exactly what he did - but rewriting it to make it sound like it was me.
And I feel like I’m going crazy! It feels like the only way to get out, isn’t alive.