u/BusyInspector95

My sister bought me and LO matching shirt and onesie saying our first mother's day. She gave it to us a few days before. Partner thought it very cute and sent photos to his mother (without us in it).

On mother's day MIL video called us. (She lives in another country) Low and behold she has on the EXACT same shirt as the one my sister got me. (Sister bought it from Temu. So it was very easy for MIL to get the same shirt and they deliver really quickly in her country. Before anyone tells me it's sweat shops and and and. This isn't about that right now)

I was flabbergasted. Partner was surprised too but laughed and said the shirt didn't fit her at all.

She asked him, because I left the room but I could still hear her. To send her a photo of just him in the onesie so she can 'AI it so that it looks like they are together and that they are matching'. Partner said he'll ask me cause his phone cracked. They even called on my phone. Partner asked me. I said I'm not doing that and he just said ok. He thought it was weird. Asked him why he didn't tell his mother that. Said he didn't want to cause trouble on mother's day.

The day went by without anything much. Monday aswell didn't hear anything. But yesterday MIL messaged me. Saying how disappointed she was in. Me that I didn't sent her a photo of him. She wanted to do a special MD photo with him and I robbed her of it. I just told her its my first mother's day with him she can't just steal everything. She sent a ton more messages but after that I blocked her. Partner said he's not even going to go get his phone fixed.( He does have a business phone he uses until he can get to the shop to fix his personal but Mil doesn't have that number) Because he knows he'll have 100 messages complaining about something stupid.

My sister(28f) is my (30f) baby's godmother. She doesn't have any kids of her own. This was my first mother's day with baby. So my mom's first as a grandmother and my sister's first as a godmother.

I obviously got my mother something. My husband got me something too. And then I was surprised to receive 2 gifts from my sister and one from my mother. I wasn't expecting that.

My mother then asked where my sisters gift is because she's his godmother and this is her first mother's day as such. I was like omw I didn't know I should buy her something because in my mind she's not a mother and I'm not her child nor her partner.

My mother then said but she got you something and I said while I appreciate it she bought it out of her own free will and I didn't ask her to get me anything.

My mother said I'm an asshole for speaking Bout my sister that way and to make up for what I said I should buy her a gift

I just.... Don't want too. Her birthday is also next month and I have a big surprise for her the. Which is already a huge chunk of money for me. And now I have to get her something because she's godmother too???!!!!

I suddenly hate my husband even going in for a hug. It's the most frustrating and sad feeling I've ever felt. I hate when he cuddles me in bed or when we do smexy time. I hate him holding my hand or even breathing close to me. I absolutely hate having him in my personal space these days. Even when I play with baby and he's there I hate it

I hate feeling trapped by his arms in a hug or a cuddle. I would much rather sit with my baby screaming in my ears than being lovenly touched by my husband.

I'm curious to know. I've been EP from the beginning (so four months). The longest I've pumped was 45 Min but that was when the milk just didn't stop flowing. So now I just pump between 15 to 30 Min. Depending on my time.

I'm a just enough-er so the milk kinda just stoops at 25 Min anyway