u/BumblebeeLive8617

This has been happening for a long time and it use to annoy me due to just coming home, eat sleep repeat. Lately I feel he is lying about starting early as ive seen on find my that he doesnt even leave the yard (bin man) til after his official start time.

Ive previously had conversations with him where i tell him he should be going into work at an appropriate time, because he is always exhausted when he comes home after working a 6am-3pm that turns into a 5am-3pm. He wakes up at 4:30ish and gets into work no later than 5am. He even brushes his teeth at work? The aim of this is to start their round earlier so he gets home earlier. So when he goes into 2pm he is working overtime and not getting paid for it which is every day. He tells me that the 2 others on his round also get in earlier- which is up for debate if hes telling the truth.

He is a bin man so he sort of finishes whenever they finish their round. He has said to me he gets in early as they start their work load early. However upon the recent few times i have been awake- i see on find my iphone that he hasnt even been leaving the yard til gone 6. So hes getting there an hour before doing god knows what and then refusing to get to work at a reasonable time. He usually mentions when they are out late and hasnt said anything once. Due to this i suspect he is lying about starting early.

He comes home every day exhausted. Goes on his playstation plays games watched youtube, eats & falls asleep. He does no house work, he does our food shopping. All i ask of him is to keep his side of our bedroom tidy. Which he cant do without my help.

To clarify this mainly annoys me due to not participating in his chores at home, falling asleep 2 hours after being home & also starting to rise suspicion as idk if i fully believe his reasons for getting into work an hour early.

upon asking if he can get to work at a reasonable time he says theres no issue in this and thinks im getting involved in something that doesnt affect me? So AIO for being annoyed &/or suspicious of him when i ask him to get into work for an appropriate time and he says no? It makes me feel dismissed but i cant tell if im just overreacting and its not as big of a deal as i think it is.

I have 3 warts in seperate areas around my pubic hair area. Mons pubic, inner thigh & inner ass cheek. These have appeared during pregnancy for me.

To specify i know they are different strains!! Which is why i have chosen to not call it a genital wart. Just a wart in an awkward area & to add on these warts look nothing like anything i can find on the internet, they looks so different to all skin tags & warts, it does also have the aspect of a skin tag but my doctor has said its a wart.

Ive only ever been with my partner & he says he has only ever been with me. He has had finger warts most of our relationship. I researched & found it is rare but possible that you can get a wart around your genitals from a finger wart. I havent really accused him of cheating because i felt he would have been honest by now & ive never seen warts around his genitals either. Yes im aware it can be dormant for years!

I posted in a pregnancy subreddit as i was feeling abit lost and everyone jumped on the bandwagon of hes cheated. I know i havent ever been remotely close to anyone asides from him & he claims the same. We have only ever gone as far to kiss other people before our relationship

Now the bandwagon is starting to confuse me and im not so sure if im just being taken for a mug

So, how likely is it that it could be from a finger wart ?

So ive only ever been with my partner, and my partner claims to have only ever been with me.

Recently i noticed some funny looking skin growths so i went doctors to get them checked and she confirmed theyre warts.

Im a germaphobe so ive always been very clean when it comes to skin contact and i dont like being near other people like i want my own bubble my own space.

ive never had any types of warts before let alone genital warts but low and behold im 5 months pregnant & i have 3 genital warts. i went home and spoke to my partner, i was very upset as warts & skin tags have always grossed me out and i was hoping they were just weird looking skin tags.

My partner has been physically distant since i told him on friday- at first he tried accusing me of cheating and even i didnt go in accusing because i know he had finger warts... upon research this is a more common transmition than ever mentioned before:( he has been making me feel super gross like im infected & riddled- i have only 3!! which i would have gotten from him...

Just want to know if anyone else is experinecing this or has experienced this or anything similar, feeling alone in this as i cant talk to anyone about it