u/Brilliant-Bug-9549

I’m looking for some advice on overcoming social anxiety in a specific scenario. I’m perfectly comfortable talking to my female friends/girls when they are alone or with one other girl. However, if I see them sitting or talking with 1–2 other guys, I completely freeze up and find it difficult to approach feels like might he her bf that can get things complicated.

​I don't want to seem like I'm interrupting or feel like I'm competing for attention, but I also don't want to ignore my friends just because they aren't alone. How do you guys handle the "group dynamic" without it feeling awkward?

Hey everyone,

I’m a vegetarian college student currently trying to cut fat and get lean while staying active (walking/cricket/gym comeback soon). One thing I realized is that I genuinely don’t enjoy oats or muesli much, even though they’re considered “fitness foods.”

So I wanted to ask:

What are some good vegetarian alternatives to oats/muesli that are:

\- high protein

\- filling

\- easy to make in a flat/hostel

\- sustainable for cutting

Also curious — do you guys genuinely enjoy oats/muesli or just eat it for convenience/macros? 😭

Would appreciate honest opinions and meal ideas.

A girl who had blocked me earlier unblocked and we talked normally for a while. Nothing intense, just casual convo.

I didn’t chase or spam — actually gave space after that. She was still watching my stories, then randomly blocked me again.

Is this just lack of interest or something else like confusion/mood swings?

She was the one i liked her so much(onesided kinda)

I (18M) have liked this girl for years. She had me blocked for a long time but recently unblocked me and followed me back. She’s currently healing from a bad breakup.

​She knows I’ve been interested in her for a while, so her guard is way up. When I try to be playful, she shuts me down hard—calling me "Bhai," telling me to "stay in my limits," and accusing me of being a "player." She’s very stubborn and hard on chat

​I genuinely like her and don't want to mess this up.

​Is she just testing me because of her past trauma?

​Should I go silent for a week or two to prove I’m not a "player" chasing her?

​How do I break this wall without looking desperate?

Talking to a girl who isn’t ignoring me, but also not really engaging. Replies come, but low effort. Plans to meet never convert.

Feels like I’m stuck in a loop.

Better to cut it off silently or ask for clarity once and move on?

“f a girl said she sees me as a friend earlier but still talks daily, shares personal stuff, and is comfortable—how do I know if attraction can still be built or if I’m locked in friendzone?

Given this situation—good chat comfort but no real-life meet yet—what exact move should I make next?

Girl I’ve been talking to (same college) is very responsive on chat, jokes around, shares personal stuff—but when it comes to actually meeting 1–1, plans never really happen.

She’s not ignoring me, but also not making it happen.

Is this just friendly comfort zone behavior, or should I still try to push for a meet?