u/Both-Economics-3544

Let me be ..

February 8, 2026 7:27 AM

Tags: #mother_wound

أمي

ألم أقل لكِ يا أمي؟ إنني سطح قاتم مظلم لا يعكس شيئا لأنك لا تشعين ضوئا بل صهريج يحرقتي ويحولني لكومة رماد. لا أشبهك في شيء، ولن أشبهك. ما ترينه هو كل ما كرهته في نفسك، ووضعته فيّ قسرا، وذرعتِ بذور الكره بداخلي...

شكلي، جسدي، كينونتي، هويتي، شخصيتي...

أنتِ ترين ما تريدين أن ترينه، ولا دخل لي بهذا. خوضي رحلتكِ دون أن تحاولي إصلاحي، لأن ولا مرة أردتِ إصلاحي كانت نابعة من حب، بل كانت نابعة من خوف أن أكون شيئًا قد تكرهينه؛ أن أكون صورة منكِ تكرهينها حتى وإن لم أكرهها أنا.

تكرهين ألا يكون لديّ ما لدى غيري من أقراني. تكرهين عدم قدرتكِ على التباهي بي، الآن وقد صار لدى الجميع ما يتشدقون به أمام الناس، وأنتِ ليس لديكِ.

أنتِ تحبين الضوء. تحبين اللمعان حتى لو كان سرابا والاهتمام حتى لو كان كاذبا. لا تقدرين الكلمات المكتوبة ولا الأشياء المعنوية المحسوسة. لا تفهمين معنى أن يتحلى المرء بخلق حسن فقط لأنه لا يدر مالا.

تعبت.

تعبت.

تعبت.

ألا ترحمينني؟

أتدرين... أدركت الآن أنني حتى أظلمكِ. ليس لأنني افتراءً اتهمتكِ بما ذكرتُ أعلاه، كلا. كل ما قلته أفعال صدرت منكِ بالفعل. لكنني ظلمتكِ لأنني لم أركِ كأمي. بل رأيتك تجسيدا لكل عين قد نظرت لي يوما ووجدت عيبا لتتحدث عنه في وجهي دون خجل.

كل شخص أقحم تصوراته الظالمة عني بداخل رأسي.

كل من طرحني أرضا وصرخ في أذني بأنني لا أكفي ولن أكفي أبدا.

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u/Both-Economics-3544 — 2 days ago

I was feeling kind of insecure and bad about myself, and because he’s genuinely the best person ever I can tell him things like that comfortably without feeling judged.

I’m so grateful to receive his love and affection. I can honestly say I’m one of the luckiest women on earth when it comes to love because I have him

u/Both-Economics-3544 — 6 days ago
▲ 5 r/BPD

She has BPD. I learned so much about it to make our friendship and sisterhood as easy as possible.

I avoided everything that could potentially trigger her and I just loved her. I loved her so much that I thought we were in this for life. I told her that if I had nothing good in life, then I still had all the goodness life could offer represented in her.

I had severe depression and really bad PTSD flare ups that would sometimes leave me unable to function. I would text late. I would apologize over and over for not replying quickly. I explained why I didn’t have the energy to go out or talk. I was withdrawing from everything like a wounded animal. God, I’m crying.

I apologized every time because I really meant it. I didn’t want her to feel ghosted or unwanted. Sometimes she would say she understood and other times she would bottle it up. But I never meant to hurt her.

I think she was fed up and when I finally started feeling better, fell in love for the first time, and got engaged, she became very jealous (not because I was engaged, she’s engaged herself. I think it was because she felt like I was being taken from her, which I tried to reassure her would never happen).

After my engagement, she texted me that she would seduce my fiancé and make him dump me. She said other hurtful things and that she never wanted to see me again, and ended our friendship for the first time.

A week passed and I reconnected. I apologized if I had hurt her in any way and I told her I felt hurt by what she said. She told me she meant to hurt me! that it was on purpose!

Because I loved her so much, I told her we could try again and work it out.

8 months have passed. She doesn’t respond, doesn’t want to go out with me and doesn’t want to talk about anything. Unless I text her first, she doesn’t reach out. She told me this isn’t working and that she’s not comfortable having me in her life.

I don’t usually have a problem cutting ties with people, I really don’t. But I genuinely love her. I never imagined a world without her. My ego is already bruised from all the rejection, and I just… is there any way I could fix this? I really don’t know how. I don’t think I did anything intentionally wrong, but I don’t mind apologizing again. I just genuinely don’t know what to do.

She invited me to her wedding, which is next month. Her birthday is a day after her wedding. I’m thinking about buying her a cake and a present as a goodbye gift and closing this door for life if there’s nothing else I can do. I just want to leave on good terms.

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u/Both-Economics-3544 — 11 days ago

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اليوزر نيم بتاعه إسمه safexox

الشخص الحقيقي الاجنبي ده اسمه DaveMcNamee

أول مرة ظهر قدامي على صب egyoutfit

وبعدها مسح البوست بسرعة اسكرين شوت تحت في الكومنتز.

وتاني مرة لقيته هنا على الصب ومنزل كل صور الراجل ده على أساس أنها صوره، وصور تمارينه. مسح البوست وبعدها بلكني. والسكرين شوتز في الكومنتز برضو.

فبلاش تصدقوا أي حد ينزل صوره، ومش فاهمة ليه حد ينتحل شخصية حد تاني وياخد كريدت على تعبه في الجيم بجد! ده غير إن البوستز بتاعته كلها كانت مقززه!.

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u/Both-Economics-3544 — 12 days ago