u/Born_Cartoonist_7247

Ask me anything <3

I’m a 29 year old female, kinda virgin (only the tip has been in for a few seconds and I told him to stop which he did) and only recently started exploring my sexuality in the last few months.

I was with this guy for 3 hours naked and we did pretty much everything but I found maybe 1 minute was pleasurable and that was me grinding on his leg.

Everything else hurt, felt uncomfortable, rough or literally nothing. He was pretty all over the place.

Is he just bad in bed or am I just not aroused enough? What can I do to feel pleasure?

He put the tip in for a few seconds and I said stop and he stopped. Am I still a virgin?

For a few seconds

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29F (half) virgin. Dm me to chat <3

Very niche life story but I’m a 29 year old virgin, grew up very religious, waiting until marriage and all that until I turned 28 and decided I didn’t wana do that anymore. I have explored my sexuality a few times with different guys but the most intense was with this guy I met off a dating app.

We were both naked I was giving oral and he was fingering me however when it came to eating me out he said no. I asked why and he said he didn’t want to take the hair out of his mouth.

I literally used hair removal cream that day, there wasn’t that much hair but he still said no. I obviously respected this but I did him multiple times. He has also ghosted me which sucks. I’m still deeply inexperienced and have never had a boyfriend but is this a normal thing to refuse?

Very niche life story but I’m a 29 year old virgin, grew up very religious, waiting until marriage and all that until I turned 28 and decided I didn’t wana do that anymore. I have explored my sexuality a few times with different guys but the most intense was with this guy I met off a dating app.

We were both naked I was giving oral and he was fingering me however when it came to eating me out he said no. I asked why and he said he didn’t want to take the hairs out of his mouth.

I literally used hair removal cream that day, there wasn’t that much hair but he still said no. I obviously respected this but I’m surprised cause I did him multiple times. He has also ghosted me which sucks. I’m still deeply inexperienced and have never had a boyfriend but is this a normal thing to refuse because of hair ?

I had a couple of experiences doing oral with this guy and he’s ghosted me. It hurts so bad because for him sex isn’t a big deal, he’s done it, he’s had a girlfriend, for me, I finally felt ready to explore my sexuality and now it’s being taken away from me again. I’m so defeated and sick of never feeling seen by men.