u/Bella_baxter123

Oi, to pensando em comprar um cachorro Blue Heeler, já li muito e vi vários videos mas gostaria de saber de pessoas com expereincias reais.

90 minutos de brincadeira por dia é o suficiente? Digamos que sejam 40 min de manhã, 20 min à tarde e 30 min à noite.

Eu sei que ele precisa de exercício mental e que 'brincar' não significa apenas dar uma voltinha. 90 min por dia é o bastante para deixá-lo muito feliz no geral?

Li neste sub que é bom treinar esse cachorro para relaxar rs. Isso está correto? Desde filhote, ensiná-lo que é legal ficar em casa sem precisar 'pastorear'.

Aliás, eu adoro exercícios, corro maratonas, moro em uma casa com um quintal legal e não sou preguiçoso, mas li tanto sobre como esse cachorro é o diabo que estou um pouco preocupado de perder minha vida social kkk.

É possível que esse cachorro fique de boa comigo no sofá ou deitado às vezes no quintal? Não quero excesso de afeto, mas de vez em quando eu gostaria de um abraço haha.

Obrigado.

Boa noite, não sei se é o sub correto mas não achei outro mais apropriado. Espero que seja tudo bem postar isso aqui, se não, me avisem que deleto.

É o seguinte,

A casa do meu pai tem aproximadamente 200m2 área construída e 150m2 de terreno. Ele num bairro muito bom em São Paulo.

Ele ta pintando toda a área externa da casa dele, mas eu suspeito que o empreiteiro ta super faturando algumas coisas, como por exemplo, a pintura.

O orçamento final é 128 mil reais. Area de 3000m2.

Como uma casa desse tamanho iria ter 3 mil m2 pra pintar ? É possivel que seja isso ? Eu sou totalmente leigo no assunto. Por favor, nos ajudem.

Seriam R$43 mil reais de material. O problema é que segundo o chatGPT, nesse orçamento tem tinta o suficiente pra pintar 8000m2.

Coloquei no chatGPT e o chat falou que esse orçamento está extremamente super faturado. Que o normal em São Paulo seria uns R$25 mil, e se quiser fazer com tinta de alto padrão, seria cerca de R$40 mil reais.

Enfim, quanto custaria pra pintar uma casa de 200m2, com tintas e serviços de alto padrão numa cidade cara como São Paulo ?

A casa do meu pai tem aproximadamente 200m2 área construída e 150m2 de terreno. Ele num bairro muito bom em São Paulo.

Ele ta pintando toda a área externa da casa dele, mas eu suspeito que o empreiteiro ta super faturando algumas coisas, como por exemplo, a pintura.

O orçamento final é 128 mil reais. Area de 3000m2.

Como uma casa desse tamanho iria ter 3 mil m2 pra pintar ? É possivel que seja isso ? Eu sou totalmente leigo no assunto. Por favor, nos ajudem.

Seriam R$43 mil reais de material. O problema é que segundo o chatGPT, nesse orçamento tem tinta o suficiente pra pintar 8000m2.

Coloquei no chatGPT e o chat falou que esse orçamento está extremamente super faturado. Que o normal em São Paulo seria uns R$25 mil, e se quiser fazer com tinta de alto padrão, seria cerca de R$40 mil reais.

Enfim, quanto custaria pra pintar uma casa de 200m2, com tintas e serviços de alto padrão ?

I 35F met my ex bf M38 in 2022 at Bumble. He is good looking, tall, had friends. Not even close to what you would imagine as someone who never had a gf in his 30s. He did had some red flags and was a bit akward in few situations. I remember he looks surprised when I invited him to my apto in our 2nd date lol.
I broke up with him after 3 month. After we broke up, he sent lots of messages at whatsapp. I blocked him after weeks. He then messaged me at instagram, and I blocked him after months. After that he sent me 3 letters in my house until 2024. He also sent one email in 2024. Most of his messages were confuse, giving explanations, saying he really likes me etc.

It was sick. He sent multiple messages, letters, email, everything you can imagine, he also kissed multiple girls in the same party I and my friends were 1-2 years after we broke up. He was never agressive or anything like that. He was ok in that aspect.

He did lied saying he had an ex for 4 months, told me stories about other dates.

Then last week he sent me this from a new whatsapp.

Hi Emma,

I wanted to tell you that you were the first person I ever liked.

Going to the movies, having dinner, sleeping together… I did those things for the first time in my life with you.

It sounds like a movie, but it’s true… I isolated myself from the world after I lost my brother, and I only came back because of the pandemic.

Then you appeared. Beautiful, funny. One day you asked to see my handwriting — that was so cute!!!!

You are special. You made me start looking at the world in a different way. You made me want to become better. You did that without even knowing it, simply by being yourself.

A bit shy, but brave enough to be vulnerable with the person you’re with. You told me about some silly insecurities… which only made you even more beautiful than in the photos.

And it had to be with me, who made up some stories because I was embarrassed to say I had never been with anyone. I was very insecure, I cared way too much about what others would think.

At first it was easy: “I’ll never see this woman again in my life.” But I fell in love and lost my way.

In the end, I couldn’t realize that I was disrespecting you by sending a thousand messages, letters, etc. That was awful. I’m sorry for that and for disappointing you. I didn’t know how to relate to people.

I would spend the whole afternoon practicing how to open a bottle of wine, only to get nervous at the moment and have you open it for us lol.

If you want, I would love to be able to talk.

Kisses,

John

P.S.: Sorry for breaking the block. If there’s no reply, I will respect it completely and never reach out again. I care deeply about you and don’t want to upset you.

The next day, I wrote to him:

Please do not contact me anymore.

I fell in love and married the love of my life.

I am now expecting a child with my husband. I am living a dream I never could have imagined.

Nothing else matters, only their well-being.

Please do not contact me anymore.

Goodbye

AITA ?

Those who have brain fog because reflux (or because the anti acid... or maybe both ? ), how long until it clears if I stop eating acid foods ?

I drank more than I should last friday and I still have brain fog. Not extreme, but yea a little bit of brain fog.

I 35F met my ex bf M38 in 2022 at Bumble. He is good looking, tall, had friends. Not even close to what you would imagine as someone who never had a gf in his 30s. He did had some red flags and was a bit akward in few situations. I remember he looks surprised when I invited him to my apto in our 2nd date lol.
I broke up with him after 3 month. After we broke up, he sent lots of messages at whatsapp. I blocked him after weeks. He then messaged me at instagram, and I blocked him after months. After that he sent me 3 letters in my house until 2024. He also sent one email in 2024. Most of his messages were confuse, giving explanations, saying he really likes me etc.

It was sick. He sent multiple messages, letters, email, everything you can imagine, he also kissed multiple girls in the same party I and my friends were 1-2 years after we broke up. He was never agressive or anything like that. He was ok in that aspect.
Then last week he sent me this from a new whatsapp.

Hi Emma,

I wanted to tell you that you were the first person I ever liked.

Going to the movies, having dinner, sleeping together… I did those things for the first time in my life with you.

It sounds like a movie, but it’s true… I isolated myself from the world after I lost my brother, and I only came back because of the pandemic.

Then you appeared. Beautiful, funny. One day you asked to see my handwriting — that was so cute!!!!

You are special. You made me start looking at the world in a different way. You made me want to become better. You did that without even knowing it, simply by being yourself.

A bit shy, but brave enough to be vulnerable with the person you’re with. You told me about some silly insecurities… which only made you even more beautiful than in the photos.

And it had to be with me, who made up some stories because I was embarrassed to say I had never been with anyone. I was very insecure, I cared way too much about what others would think.

At first it was easy: “I’ll never see this woman again in my life.” But I fell in love and lost my way.

In the end, I couldn’t realize that I was disrespecting you by sending a thousand messages, letters, etc. That was awful. I’m sorry for that and for disappointing you. I didn’t know how to relate to people.

I would spend the whole afternoon practicing how to open a bottle of wine, only to get nervous at the moment and have you open it for us lol.

If you want, I would love to be able to talk.

Kisses,

John

P.S.: Sorry for breaking the block. If there’s no reply, I will respect it completely and never reach out again. I care deeply about you and don’t want to upset you.

The next day, I wrote to him:

Please do not contact me anymore.

I fell in love and married the love of my life.

I am now expecting a child with my husband. I am living a dream I never could have imagined.

Nothing else matters, only their well-being.

Please do not contact me anymore.

Goodbye

AITA ?