u/Basic_News9889

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Thinking abt a nursing career

Hey this question is for our Philly nurses! I got a finance degree back in 2021 and completely regretted never work in it and now left corporate America to do construction. I feel like I have a bigger calling and I’m starting to lock into nursing. What’s the going rate, night differential, quality of life etc etc for yous?? Thnx

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u/Basic_News9889 — 1 day ago

Follow up text

Hi yall I went on a date week ago but she said she isn’t ready to date right now. She just moved here and the date went great so I think it’s truthful. I was gonna text her this in a few weeks if I’m still feeling it. Lmk what you think.
Hey s, this is m, we went on a date about a month ago. Since then I’ve been thinking about it and just wanted to reiterate how if you wanna reconnect once you’re settled down pls let me know. I felt a strong connection between us and I’d like to explore that more and see where it goes. I felt that we were very similar on many levels: personality, emotionally and metabolically. It’s nice to have someone in your corner that knows what you’re going through. Either way it was a pleasure to meet you and I think you should start a book club chapter <3

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u/Basic_News9889 — 2 days ago

Not ready to date pt. 2

Hi all I posted abt this a few days ago. Have been thinking about it and wanted to ask a follow up.
Hey everyone I went on a hinge date with someone this week that went amazing. We bonded over many things( both being diabetic) laughed a lot a whole lot, got ice cream. And just chatted the whole time. During the date we also planned other dates like going to a store, getting dinner, and going to a baseball game. By the end she invited me back to her apartment. When I arrived nothing was out of boxes yet nor did she even have a bed or tv. We chatted there until like 11pm until I said I had to leave because I had work the next morning. When I got home she said how great the date went. I responded that 4 hours went too fast w her lol. Then no response for 20 hours then said she isn’t ready to date. I responded with: I understand if you wanna reconnect once you’re settled in lmk.

My question for you all is would it be inappropriate to reach out in a month if I’m still upset or thinking about it? Nothing crazy just say how I felt and how strong the chemistry was and like if you wanna let’s get coffee again. Or Should I just let it be and see if she ever responds to my initial lmk? My thoughts are like doesn’t hurt and I’m not like bothering just a message to say how I feel.
Thanks

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u/Basic_News9889 — 4 days ago

Yesterday I had a first date with a girl that just moved into town. We had a great time I thought. Laughed talked about our similarities and such. And was just a great time I believe. After the date last night she we should get food at a place nearby. And agreed. I didn’t hear from her at day and tonight she said she isn’t ready to date. With this limited info do you think she was just trying to be nice and didn’t feel it or was being straight up.
Question 2 I said if you wanna reconnect later once you’re settled in lmk. How weak was that. Or just like the wrong thing to say.

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u/Basic_News9889 — 7 days ago