u/Backoutside_boy

Been having sex with this girl since end of December. I kinda like her but kinda having fun - she told me at the beginning she doesn’t want a relationship either.

She been distant in April, she came through 2 weekends ago though and slept over. She called me last Monday after a week of silence and we were supposed to hang out Saturday but she flaked. I didn’t even respond to her message lol

I sent her a tik tok today.

Is that weird or desperate?

I kinda don’t care about the flake, I wanna leave the door open. Might as well have her part of the roster since the sex was good. We never really had a FWB “talk” though

She shouldn’t be mad that I didn’t respond right? Lmao she flaked

Let me know !

Been having sex with this girl since end of December. I kinda like her but kinda having fun - she told me at the beginning she doesn’t want a relationship either.

She been distant in April, she came through 2 weekends ago. She called me last Monday after a week of silence and we were supposed to hang out Saturday but she flaked. I didn’t even respond to her message lol

I sent her a tik tok today.

Is that weird or desperate?

I kinda don’t care about the flake, I wanna leave the door open. Might as well have her part of the roster since the sex was good. We never really had a FWB “talk” though

She shouldn’t be mad that I didn’t respond right? Lmao she flaked

Let me know !

I’ve been having sex with this girl I would say causally since the end of December.

Saturday we were supposed to hang out but she flaked. I didn’t respond her to message.

I sent her a funny tik tok today

Kinda don’t care about her flaking, don’t feel the need to be bitter and why not just keep her on the roster if she wants to come around while I date other girls

Is that weird? Or desperate? Interested to hear some insight.

Man, this girl I’ve been casual since the end of December came over 2 weekends ago. Had sex, slept over, overly affectionate the next day w me. The month of April she’s been pretty distant though.

Anyway she called me last Monday. Asked her to hang out this weekend on Saturday. She said ok.

Saturday morning comes and hits me with “hi can’t do today, celebrating mom’s day” nothing else. Which I feel is BS because on our call she mentioned her mom’s bday was the weekend before and they celebrate both together.

I decided to not respond. She had Wednesday, Thursday, Friday to let me know and decided last minute to cancel, doesn’t even say sorry or tries to reschedule.

AITA for not responding?

I’m just confused and hurt. Girl I’ve been seeing / sleeping with the last 4 months came over last weekend, we had sex multiple times and had a great time. She was all cuddling on me, kissing on me and staying until 1pm the next day. A week later radio silence.

I got no more effort in me to keep this going, since I was chasing her the whole month of April.

I haven’t texted her either .. it just sucks that shit ends without any closure, it would be so much better to know why the energy shifted.

Anybody who experienced this I would love to hear how you dealt with it.

4 months in with this girl, our first time linking up she told me she doesn’t want a relationship (I suspect because like 6+ months ago she had a break up) - which at the time I was fine with. But i caught feelings now.

Anyway, first few months were great, she comes over almost every weekend or every other weekend. Brings her over night bag, sex, sleeps over. Occasional calls , texts mid week to set up plans.

Month of March was great too, dates, sleeps overs.

Then all of sudden boom after spending 3 weekends together towards the end of March, I asked her out again and she said “not this weekend, I need to prioritize my assignments that are due soon.” Which I totally
understood, she sent me a few reels, tik toks after but communication went down. I gave her space for that weekend and the next.

Basically the month of April she went distant, I ended up calling her after those couple weeks after she turned me down and tried to set up a date for the weekend in which she said said she was busy but could do the following weekend. The call was good and she was receptive.

From there no text, no calls, no memes, nothing. Besides what I initiated (the call)

But I ended up following up and she came over last weekend. Great vibes again when together, slept over, brought her over night bag. Even cuddled up with me until 1pm the next day, being super affectionate with me!

Now a week later and radio silence. Haven’t heard anything from her. Which is so weird to me cause why be all affectionate with me if all you want is sex from me.

Am I being the weird one for not texting or sending anything either?

I just feel like I’ve been chasing this whole month and I’m obviously making effort which I feel is not being reciprocated

I’m wanting to walk away that’s why I haven’t been texting her or anything. I would want her to reach out to me for once.

What do you guys think? Did I drop the ball or am I doing the right thing?

4 months in with this girl, our first time linking up she told me she doesn’t want a relationship (I suspect because like 6+ months ago she had a break up) - which at the time I was fine with. But i caught feelings now.

Anyway, first few months were great, she comes over almost every weekend or every other weekend. Brings her over night bag, sex, sleeps over. Occasional calls , texts mid week to set up plans.

Month of March was great too, dates, sleeps overs.

Then all of sudden boom after spending 3 weekends together towards the end of March, I asked her out again and she said “not this weekend, I need to prioritize my assignments that are due soon.” Which I totally
understood, she sent me a few reels, tik toks after but communication went down. I gave her space for that weekend and the next.

Basically the month of April she went distant, I ended up calling her after those couple weeks after she turned me down and tried to set up a date for the weekend in which she said said she was busy but could do the following weekend. The call was good and she was receptive.

From there no text, no calls, no memes, nothing. Besides what I initiated (the call)

But I ended up following up and she came over last weekend. Great vibes again when together, slept over, brought her over night bag. Even cuddled up with me until 1pm the next day, being super affectionate with me!

Now a week later and radio silence. Haven’t heard anything from her. Which is so weird to me cause why be all affectionate with me if all you want is sex from me.

Am I being the weird one for not texting or sending anything either?

I just feel like I’ve been chasing this whole month and I’m obviously making effort which I feel is not being reciprocated

I’m wanting to walk away that’s why I haven’t been texting her or anything. I would want her to reach out to me for once.

What do you guys think? Did I drop the ball or am I doing the right thing?

I got a girl I’ve been seeing causally for 4 months now. I caught feelings - she’s been pretty distant this past month but saw her last weekend - lots of my buddies are telling me I got to say how I feel but I got mixed feelings about that.

Do I try to link up and tell her how I feel or do I just walk away?

Been seeing this girl for 4 months now. On the first time we got together at the end of December, she said she doesn’t want a relationship because she’s “healing” & working on her masters. Which I think healing from an ex several months ago.

At first, I was ok with it but now I caught feelings

Anyway, she came over this past weekend. She usually sleeps over. Super great vibes, it’s never just a “casual” vibe it always feels more intimate (cuddling with me until 1pm the next day, caressing my face, kissing up on me etc)

She leaves my place Saturday at 1pm & it’s Wednesday now it’s radio silence.

I’m just confused because in person vibes are good, she’s never on her phone or hiding anything.

Do I continue initiating hang outs or do I just back off now and see if she initiates with me?

Girl I’ve been seeing for the last 4 months doesn’t text me after spending the night.

The past weekend she comes over Friday, drinks, sex, sleep over etc cuddling until 1pm the next day. Super good vibes.

*Mind you we’ve been doing this for the last 4 months, have had sex multiple times now*

It’s Wednesday and no text or nothing from her, is that concerning? I’m usually initiating the hang outs, do I back off now or continue doing that same thing?

I’ve been seeing this girl since the end of December, on our first time linking up she said she’s not ready for a relationship because she’s “healing” & working on her masters degree. I never asked her to elaborate but based on what I’ve seen it’s probably cause an ex.

Anyway, I was cool with it but now i caught feelings. I never vomit my feelings w a girl cause I feel like that just puts too much pressure on the other person and I’m ok w the sex we have. She usually comes over on a weekend and sleeps over etc.

There’s times she calls me mid week and we end up making plans for the weekend, but this past month in a half or so there’s not too much communication between dates. I usually initiate like 70% of the time

For example, she came over this weekend after me reaching out these last couple of weeks and it was a great time, she brings her over night bag, we drink wine, sex, stays over the next day until like 1pm, cuddling, kissing on me night/morning (this time more than usual). Like super good vibes.

But it’s Tuesday and it’s radio silence. Kinda stuck between do I keep continuing to see her (bc I like her) or do I just back off and see if she initiates with me?

My end goal is hoping she’ll catch feelings for me which I feel like after this weekend in person it felt like it.

Just want advice on what I should do.

*mind you im not those guys that are constantly texting her/ calling her, I understand people need space*

TIA

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