My parents were discussing that my sister is 5’1, so guys above 5’7 will reject her, so we shouldn’t approach them. Is it true? I didn’t know that height comes before personality.
From my childhood, my father never showed love or care for me. He constantly criticised my appearance and never welcomed me for any personal matters or discussions. As a result, we grew increasingly distant even though we lived together. He abuses my mother, disrespects her and shouts at her. He is not a good person. He did provide financial support to me, he believes that money is enough to raise a child. I don’t think I respect him. He is a narcissist who never respects his family. He has shouted at us in public many times. Now he claims to love and care for me, but my soul can’t reciprocate the same because I never liked him as a person.
He is a very short-tempered man who used to abuse my mom. In my childhood, I didn’t have the courage whenever he used to abuse and disrespect my mom and my mom didn’t want me to come in between ( as he will start abusing me too). But they both go back to normal after their fight in a few days. Today again the same thing happened and he started disrespecting her a lot and I just couldn’t hold myself, and I shouted back. Now I just can’t hold my tears. I want to be strong when it comes to my family.
Today I saw a man shouting and abusing his wife in a public place. She was so helpless. I just wanted to help that poor lady and make that man shut up but I just couldn’t. What could be done in such situations ?as it’s a personal matter and I just can’t jump in between.
I am 25. Financially independent, living in a different city for a job. My parents want me to get married before my father’s retirement (by Feb 2027). They have a deadline to finish the responsibilities before retirement and I am the youngest. I really don’t want to get married now. I have spoken to them that I want to upskill myself, , travel and just want to get married this soon. I care for them, but at the same time, I don’t want to get married now as it won’t be fair for the other person as well. My father never forces me directly to marry but used to taunt my mom (jyada chooth de rkhi h bachho ko), so out of guilt I have gone through a few prospects’ profiles, which I really don’t like, so I rejected them. I really care for them but I don’t want to go against my will. Help me how to deal with all this without hurting anyone.
I am 25. Have a stable, decent-paying job. I am not seeing anyone from past 2 years. I overthink a lot about my future. Am I made for this 9 to 5? Can I imagine myself fking this same thing in my future? Who will I marry? How will he be? How will my life be after marriage? And in my imagination nothing goes right. I don’t want to think in a negative way, but somehow it becomes negative. This panics me. Do you guys ever go through such situations? How to deal with it?