How can I please my bf more?
I(F21) am in a relationship with this guy(22) and I just need help spicing things up. He’s made comments such as me seeming as if I don’t want to get intimate, I’m not spontaneous in the bedroom, and etc. We both love each other and he said it’s not a deal breaker and that he understands. So I really would like some help. He truly does make me happy and I would like to do what I can so that he can just feel loved and appreciated since he does so much for me.
I’m not sure if it’s my birth control(MILLI),my POTS syndrome,or remrum.
I wanna mention that I have problems getting and staying lubricated during intercourse at times. I’m not that great at giving him oral since he is a bit on the larger side. I end up tapping out during most of our sessions. To add, we are long distance and 90% of the time I am the most turned on when he is away but when he’s here 8 times out of 10 I just don’t have that much of an urge but whenever I sense that he wants I proceed to initiate
He is the third guy I’ve been with sexually but with him everything is different since he is the first guy to actually appreciate my body and actually make sure that I am pleasured. So I am willing to taje any constructive criticism!