u/Any-Owl8203

Hi everyone, I’ve been in this sub since gr11, I find this community very helpful and supportive in my most difficult year of highschool. I’m so grateful for all of you and this community. I created a sub r/OntarioFirstyears for the same purpose because I wanted to continue the community as graduation is coming soon I would like to have a place of sharing thoughts, opportunities, advices with the same supportive people in this sub. I know a lot of us relied on this sub during stressful times so hopefully this becomes the same kind of supportive space after graduation too.

Feel free to join!

Prom is next month, should I do a promposal for gf? But since we are already dating for a few months is it still necessary for me to do it?

Is this a normal parent reaction after finding out their teen is dating?

My bf told his mom recently that he kissed his girlfriend for the first time, and apparently after that she stopped sharing food/drinks with him and stopped kissing him on the cheek. She’s not religious or anything either because she’s openly talked to him about safe sex before, which is why I’m confused. Is this a normal mother reaction and am I overthinking it or is that kinda strange? She also tells the other family members to not share food with him since he kissed me.

TLDR; bf’s mother refuse to share food with him after knowing he kissed me, I’m confused why would she do that

I’ve been realizing me and my bf are very different people and I can’t tell if I’m overthinking it or if compatibility actually matters this much long term.

I’m someone who values deeper conversations, introspection, psychology/philosophy type discussions, understanding people’s perspectives, etc. Whenever I try to start those conversations with him, his responses are usually just “yeah I agree” or “I disagree” without really expanding or thinking deeper into it. It makes me feel emotionally/intellectually lonely sometimes.

Meanwhile his whole personality revolves around one hobby/show. He spends hours scrolling content about the same thing. Nothing wrong with hobbies obviously, but sometimes I feel like there’s no depth outside of that.

We also grew up very differently. I moved countries multiple times and had a lot of life changes growing up, while he’s lived in the same place his whole life. I feel like that affected how we see the world. He’s also pretty traditional/stubborn about a lot of things while I’m more open-minded.

Another thing that bothers me is he sometimes calls me “slow,” “delusional,” or says I “don’t see things properly” during disagreements, which honestly makes me feel really disrespected.

I still love him a lot, but lately I’ve been questioning whether love is enough if you feel fundamentally incompatible in the way you think and connect.

TL;DR: I’m starting to feel intellectually/emotionally incompatible with my bf. I crave deeper conversations and emotional insight while he’s more surface-level and dismissive during disagreements, sometimes even calling me “slow” or “delusional.” We grew up very differently and lately I’ve been questioning whether love is enough when the connection feels mentally/emotionally lacking.

I’ve been realizing me and my bf are very different people and I can’t tell if I’m overthinking it or if compatibility actually matters this much long term.

I’m someone who values deeper conversations, introspection, psychology/philosophy type discussions, understanding people’s perspectives, etc. Whenever I try to start those conversations with him, his responses are usually just “yeah I agree” or “I disagree” without really expanding or thinking deeper into it. It makes me feel emotionally/intellectually lonely sometimes.

Meanwhile his whole personality revolves around one hobby/show. He spends hours scrolling content about the same thing. Nothing wrong with hobbies obviously, but sometimes I feel like there’s no depth outside of that.

We also grew up very differently. I moved countries multiple times and had a lot of life changes growing up, while he’s lived in the same place his whole life. I feel like that affected how we see the world. He’s also pretty traditional/stubborn about a lot of things while I’m more open-minded.

Another thing that bothers me is he sometimes calls me “slow,” “delusional,” or says I “don’t see things properly” during disagreements, which honestly makes me feel really disrespected.

I still love him a lot, but lately I’ve been questioning whether love is enough if you feel fundamentally incompatible in the way you think and connect.

TL;DR: I’m starting to feel intellectually/emotionally incompatible with my bf. I crave deeper conversations and emotional insight while he’s more surface-level and dismissive during disagreements, sometimes even calling me “slow” or “delusional.” We grew up very differently and lately I’ve been questioning whether love is enough when the connection feels mentally/emotionally lacking.

Today a parents went to my principal to ask to put her twin children in the same class, but the school rejected because they want the children to each develop their own social circle, the parent keeps insisting, giving reasons like it’s better to manage their classworks etc. i want to understand if its beneficial for the CHILDREN not the PARENT to do so.