u/Aggressive_Winner706

TLdR I ’ve been going on some dates with this new guy and he’s been pretty passive. It took me awhile to even realize that he was interested and even to this day idk if he finds me attractive. Anyways we’ve been on a handful of dates that have seemingly gone well I’ve met his friends and we have good conversations. Things haven’t escalated much physically and the only thing I’ve come up with is maybe he’s trying to take things slow.

Mind you he gives off F boy vibes but irl he’s passive, doesn’t seem as confident as his online persona, and isn’t very physical in terms of touching (maybe that’s not his love language)

Anyways I’ve noticed that he keeps updating his dating profile which in theory he’s always super busy and I didn’t think he even had time to date anyone else, but is he taking me seriously if he keeps updating his dating profile or are things not going as well as I thought?

F24 M26 been on 4 dates (long dates 5+ hours)

I’ve been going on some dates with this new guy and he’s been pretty passive. It took me awhile to even realize that he was interested and even to this day idk if he finds me attractive. Anyways we’ve been on a handful of dates that have seemingly gone well I’ve met his friends and we have good conversations. Things haven’t escalated much physically and the only thing I’ve come up with is maybe he’s trying to take things slow.

Mind you he gives off F boy vibes but irl he’s passive, doesn’t seem as confident as his online persona, and isn’t very physical in terms of touching (maybe that’s not his love language)

Anyways I’ve noticed that he keeps updating his dating profile which in theory he’s always super busy and I didn’t think he even had time to date anyone else, but is he taking me seriously if he keeps updating his dating profile or are things not going as well as I thought?

He’s been really passive and not really making many moves up until this point how can I make him feel more secure so we can take things to the next level. I want to get steamy with him not just a few pecks (or who knows maybe he’s just trying to take things slow)

I have a passive partner who’s hard to read in trying to take things to the next level whether it’s spicy make out, oral, or just sex. What are some suggestions and tips