Guys, do you think the problem is with me? When I’m in a relationship, I get attached, I stay completely loyal, and I truly love. But I’ve been cheated on in every single relationship. I used to make time for my own life, too; I’m not a controlling person, yet they all cheated. I don’t even believe in love anymore.
In my last relationship, I started dating the most innocent, 'cleanest' guy I could find, but in the end, he turned out to be bad too. We broke up, and just a few minutes later, he added his ex-girlfriend. He was my boyfriend of two years. Honestly, I’ve started to think the issue is me. In my relationships, I’m balanced—I give myself space, but I also give the other person endless love and loyalty.
Yet, I face some kind of betrayal from everyone, including my friendships. Just when I think I’ve finally found 'the one,' I get stabbed in the back from where I least expect it. What do you think I’m doing wrong, and where?
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Guys, do you think the problem is with me? When I’m in a relationship, I get attached, I stay completely loyal, and I truly love. But I’ve been cheated on in every single relationship. I used to make time for my own life, too; I’m not a controlling person, yet they all cheated. I don’t even believe in love anymore.
In my last relationship, I started dating the most innocent, 'cleanest' guy I could find, but in the end, he turned out to be bad too. We broke up, and just a few minutes later, he added his ex-girlfriend. He was my boyfriend of two years. Honestly, I’ve started to think the issue is me. In my relationships, I’m balanced—I give myself space, but I also give the other person endless love and loyalty.
Yet, I face some kind of betrayal from everyone, including my friendships. Just when I think I’ve finally found 'the one,' I get stabbed in the back from where I least expect it. What do you think I’m doing wrong, and where?
Hey guys, my boyfriend and I broke up a week ago. We had a fight, and he blocked/removed me everywhere. I sent him a breakup text, and he just left me on read. After a minute I broke up with him he immediately added bunch of girls and one of them was a girl he liked before I’m not posting any 'subtitled' stories or anything like that, but his ego is through the roof because I gave him way too much attention. How can I take him down a peg and crush his ego/self-confidence? We have zero communication right now, but I’m just so incredibly frustrated idk how to act. (I’m not gonna call him or text him first cause i already know that will make everything so much worse i just need some advices or tricks that will make him regret and mad 😭)
tl;dr: My boyfriend and I broke up a week ago. He blocked me but then immediately started following girls he used to like just to annoy me. He has a huge ego and I’m very frustrated. How can I act to make him regret his behavior without breaking "no contact"?
Hey guys, my boyfriend and I broke up a week ago. We had a fight, and he blocked/removed me everywhere. I sent him a breakup text, and he just left me on read. After a minute I broke up with him he immediately added bunch of girls and one of them was a girl he liked before I’m not posting any 'subtitled' stories or anything like that, but his ego is through the roof because I gave him way too much attention. How can I take him down a peg and crush his ego/self-confidence? We have zero communication right now, but I’m just so incredibly frustrated idk how to act. (I’m not gonna call him or text him first cause i already know that will make everything so much worse i just need some advices or tricks that will make him regret and mad 😭)