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I cannot put into words my utter despise for this place. Like I literally want to tear all my hair out everyday. These damn pharmacists just yell and yell and yell. Like I get they’re stressed but I’m already helping 3 people, have 2 on hold and I’m doing some other fuck-shit at the same time. I know the phone is still ringing but there’s nothing else I can do. It’s not my damn fault there’s only 2 techs working right now. They never listen and whenever I try to explain they interrupt me, misinterpret what I said, get frustrated when I try to explain, telling me to just do what they said, they get angry when I take their bad advice (which I knew was incorrect) and the wrong outcome occurs. I am also so sick of being held over an hour after my shift ends because they decided we can’t leave until they’re happy. If you leave they shit talk you. Also everyone hates everyone at my job, everyone trashes everyone else behind their back. I’m SIIICCCKKK OFFF ITTTT. The customers aren’t even the problem atp, I fucking hate this.
Sorry for the rant and I’m sure this isn’t a WAG exclusive issue but is anyone else experiencing something like this?

*Oh and a side note, I keep being accused of things I didn’t do. It has happened so many times at this point I’ve stopped saying “I didn’t do it” because the few times I did my pharmacist started talking about how they hate people who “don’t take accountability”. A couple times I was able to prove it was impossible that it was me but now I’ve just given up. They blame you and then don’t give you the time of day to say anything or defend yourself anyway.

TLDR: Roommate always home, no job, nice guy but driving me crazy, aita for being irritated?

Hello, for context I have 2 roommates who are a few years older than me, a guy and a girl. It's kind of an interesting situation, the 2 of them are dating and he doesn't have a job. They are really in love, or seem to be and have a healthy relationship as far as I can tell. He hasn't had a job for like 3 years and his girlfriend works all the time to support both of them. She doesn't seem to be annoyed by it, insisting that they will switch and that's when she'll get to go to school and pursue what she wants to do. But the thing is, he does fuck all all day.

I am rarely home, I'm a college student in STEM and I work around 25 hours a week. It's rough but whatever. The thing is, whenever I am home, so is he. Like literally, all. the. time. Our apartment isnt super small, its 2 bed 1 ba (they share a room and I have my own) but his precense is always there. I often find him on the couch playing video games. He's a nice guy but I can't help but be irritated that he doesn't do anything. Like I know it's not my problem or my buisness since it doesnt affect the price I pay for rent but everyday I ask, "what did you do today?" and he always replies with, "nothing.". I just can't understand how he is okay doing that. He's also kind of messy which I don't like, tmi but I keep finding his pubes on the toilet seat, which isnt something Ive ever brought up nor is that a conversation I want to have. I also find the remnants of his facial hair often all over the sink counter. I just get so irritated, like irrationally and I think it's because I'm pushing my own standards onto him and then getting mad when he doesn't meet them.

He does tell me he's looking for a job or talk about plans, but he's been saying that for like forever. I try to encourage him but I truly believe he is not trying hard enough and that he is lazy. But if I were to give my piece of mind it would come off as cruel. I'm sure there are things behind the scenes I don't see and yes their relationship is not my buisness but I truly don't know how she hasn't snapped. God knows I would have. Like I said, they seem very happy together. She is a hard worker and not dumb at all so I don't know.

Should I let it go? I feel bad that I'm so judgemental of this but I can't help it. I do need to detatch but atp aita for being so irritated by something that doesn't effect me beyond surface level?

Hello, for context I have 2 roommates, a guy and a girl. It's kind of an interesting situation, the 2 of them are dating and he doesn't have a job. They are really in love, or seem to be and have a healthy relationship as far as I can tell. He hasn't had a job for like 3 years and his girlfriend works all the time to support both of them. She doesn't seem to be annoyed by it, insisting that they will switch and that's when she'll get to go to school and pursue what she wants to do. But the thing is, he does fuck all all day. I am rarely home, I'm a college student in STEM and I work around 25 hours a week. It's rough but whatever. The thing is, whenever I am home, so is he. Like literally, all. the. time. Our apartment isnt super small, its 2 bed 1 ba (they share a room and I have my own) but his precense is always there. I often find him on the couch playing video games. He's a nice guy but I can't help but be irritated that he doesn't do anything. Like I know it's not my problem or my buisness since it doesnt effect the price I pay for rent but everyday I ask, "what did you do today?" and he always replies with, "nothing.". I just can't understand how he is okay doing that. He's also kind of messy which I don't like, tmi but I keep finding his pubes on the toilet seat, which isnt something Ive ever brought up nor is that a conversation I want to have. I also find the remnants of his facial hair often all over the sink counter. I just get so irritated, like irrationally and I think it's because I'm pushing my own standards onto him and then getting mad when he doesn't meet them.

He does tell me he's looking for a job or talk about plans, but he's been saying that for like forever. I try to encourage him but I truly believe he is not trying hard enough and that he is lazy. But if I were to give my piece of mind it would come off as cruel. I'm sure there are things behind the scenes I don't see and yes their relationship is not my buisness but I truly don't know how she hasn't snapped. God knows I would have. Like I said, they seem very happy together. She is a hard worker and not dumb at all so I don't know.

Should I let it go? I feel bad that I'm so judgemental of this but I can't help it. I do need to detatch but atp aita for being so irritated by something that doesn't effect me beyond surface level?

TLDR: Roommate always home, no job, nice guy but driving me crazy, aita for being irritated?