I am just curious. My ex and I still have each other on apple music and have a shared gym playlist together. He hasn't removed me and he doesn't have other social media. He still listens to it and adds songs. I feel like women are more likely to do this and I feel like guys don't care enough. But do men watch there ex's music to keep tabs on how they feel? Thank you!
I caught him cheating on me (sending and receiving pics). I broke up with him and when I did he shut down. He wouldn't make eye contact and was fidgeting. He barley spoke a word besides I regret it, i'm sorry, and I wish I didn't do it. He had tears in his eyes and started crying when I left his truck. I haven't heard from him in 5 weeks since I left his truck that day I caught him. He still has me on our shared gym playlist he listens to it every day. I guess I want to know what he's thinking or if he's going to reach out. I don't want him back per say, but I'd like to talk to him... and am I doing the right thing by not reaching out? Does that effect how he feels?
I got cheated on by my ex boyfriend. He was sending and receiving photos behind my back. We didn't fight at all in the relationship and I know all of his needs were met because we had multiple emotional conversation's about him never being treated and respected as good as I had made him feel. When I caught him and broke up with him it wasn't anything dramatic. He shut down, wouldn't look at me, and kept fidgeting. He kept saying he was sorry, he regrets it, and wishes he didn't do it. But he never fought for me to stay. He got teary eyed but nothing crazy. Also threw in my face that he wanted to break up and thats why he did it, when a couple weeks prior we had a conversation and he said he was "so happy with me and saw me as his future wife." 2 days later after saying that he started cheating. I don't know if he said that as a way to make himself feel better or if he meant it. Its been 5 weeks now and I haven't heard anything from him. We also have a shared gym playlist that he still listens to everyday and hasn't taken me off. I guess I want to know if he is really regretting it or if he truly wanted the relationship to be over? What are some thoughts you guys have on what this means or why I haven't heard from him.
My ex and I created a gym playlist at the beginning of our relationship. We are both on the playlist together. I never added any songs to it because I just never got around to it. He would add maybe a song to the playlist once every week maybe every other. Basically what Im saying is, it wasn't a long playlist yet. Fast forward a few months I caught him cheating and broke up with him. He hasn't removed me from the playlist and I know he sees our name at the top everyday. He uses the playlist ever day at the gym. He has been adding a lot of songs to it recently about success and moving on. I was just wondering if he is doing it on purpose and if he is likely watching my apple music. I don't know if guys do that the way girls do.
My ex and I created a gym playlist at the beginning of our relationship. We are both on the playlist together. I never added any songs to it because I just never got around to it. He would add maybe a song to the playlist once every week maybe every other. Basically what Im saying is, it wasn't a long playlist yet. Fast forward a few months I caught him cheating and broke up with him. He hasn't removed me from the playlist and I know he sees our name at the top everyday. He uses the playlist ever day at the gym. He has been adding a lot of songs to it recently about success and moving on. I was just wondering if he is doing it on purpose and if he is likely watching my apple music. I don't know if guys do that the way girls do.