u/AdFresh1051

25M from India.

I’m not here for casual timepass, fake promises, or temporary attention. After going through a deep emotional attachment recently, I realized I genuinely miss having a real connection with someone who values honesty, emotional understanding, and loyalty.

I’m someone who gets attached emotionally, not superficially. I care deeply, listen patiently, and I value conversations more than looks or status. I’m more of a calm, emotional, old-school kind of person.

I like meaningful late-night conversations, sharing daily life moments, supporting each other emotionally, music, movies, and building comfort slowly with trust.

What I’m looking for:

- Someone genuine and emotionally mature

- A girl who values loyalty and communication

- Friendship first, relationship naturally later if vibes match

- No judgment, no games, no manipulation

About me:

- Introverted but deeply caring once connected

- Sensitive person emotionally

- Believe in pure love more than modern dating culture

- Trying to heal and rediscover happiness again

Even if nothing romantic happens, I’d still be happy to meet good-hearted people here.

If this post connects with you, feel free to DM me.

25M from India.

I’m not here for casual timepass, fake promises, or temporary attention. After going through a deep emotional attachment recently, I realized I genuinely miss having a real connection with someone who values honesty, emotional understanding, and loyalty.

I’m someone who gets attached emotionally, not superficially. I care deeply, listen patiently, and I value conversations more than looks or status. I’m more of a calm, emotional, old-school kind of person.

I like meaningful late-night conversations, sharing daily life moments, supporting each other emotionally, music, movies, and building comfort slowly with trust.

What I’m looking for:

- Someone genuine and emotionally mature

- A girl who values loyalty and communication

- Friendship first, relationship naturally later if vibes match

- No judgment, no games, no manipulation

About me:

- Introverted but deeply caring once connected

- Sensitive person emotionally

- Believe in pure love more than modern dating culture

- Trying to heal and rediscover happiness again

Even if nothing romantic happens, I’d still be happy to meet good-hearted people here.

If this post connects with you, feel free to DM me.

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We’ve been connected for around 2 years 5 months ago in online. She already knows that I love her. One day when I proposed indirectly, she said “manam set avvamu,” and I respected that. Still, we stayed close and continued talking.

Today evening she called me crying heavily. At first I thought it was about her female friend’s marriage issue, but later she revealed it was actually about a guy. She told me she had a “private emotional attachment” with him for almost 6 years. He was her neighborhood person and also her brother’s friend.

She said he used to share everything with her — his struggles, emotions, ups and downs — and she was always there for him. According to her, both of them had the same mindset. But from the last year they had some gap because she believed everyone needs their own space. Suddenly now she heard he’s getting married.

When her parents asked “he didn’t even tell you?”, she replied “we had a gap.”

The moment I heard “6 years emotional attachment”… literally my eyes filled with tears during the call. Inside I felt like someone crushed my stomach and held my head tightly. I can’t even explain that pain in words.

The closest comparison I can give is how Anand emotionally breaks inside in Baby after realizing the girl he deeply loves has another emotional world he never knew about. I felt almost the same internally.

But the worst part is… I couldn’t even show my emotions on the call because she was crying so much. I controlled everything inside me, stayed calm for almost 1 hour 45 minutes, and kept consoling her while hiding my own heartbreak.

She also said a few things like she was emotionally attached to me too, and she told both herself and me to be careful with emotional attachments because once people get attached, it becomes very painful.

What broke me more is this:

I truly loved her one-sided like the hero in RX 100. Purely. Deeply.

If I had known earlier that she already had such a strong emotional attachment with someone else, honestly I would have stopped myself there itself. But she never told me about this person. I even asked her directly once if she was in a relationship, and she said no.

She says she never accepted his proposal and maintained boundaries, but emotionally she was always there for him like a close companion. In a way, she says she treated me similarly too.

Maybe technically she didn’t cheat me because we were never in a relationship. But emotionally… my heart feels completely broken.

In life, I already felt cheated and defeated by many people and situations. Still, somewhere inside me, I had hope in love. But this pain feels bigger than all my previous losses combined.

Because I never loved her for beauty, lust, or selfish intentions.

I loved her character.

I loved her soul.

I loved her heart.

And now I genuinely don’t know what I should do.

Should I continue being there for her?

Or should I slowly distance myself emotionally before I break even more?

I just need one honest suggestion.

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We’ve been connected for around 2 years 5 months ago in online. She already knows that I love her. One day when I proposed indirectly, she said “manam set avvamu,” and I respected that. Still, we stayed close and continued talking.

Today evening she called me crying heavily. At first I thought it was about her female friend’s marriage issue, but later she revealed it was actually about a guy. She told me she had a “private emotional attachment” with him for almost 6 years. He was her neighborhood person and also her brother’s friend.

She said he used to share everything with her — his struggles, emotions, ups and downs — and she was always there for him. According to her, both of them had the same mindset. But from the last year they had some gap because she believed everyone needs their own space. Suddenly now she heard he’s getting married.

When her parents asked “he didn’t even tell you?”, she replied “we had a gap.”

The moment I heard “6 years emotional attachment”… literally my eyes filled with tears during the call. Inside I felt like someone crushed my stomach and held my head tightly. I can’t even explain that pain in words.

The closest comparison I can give is how Anand emotionally breaks inside in Baby after realizing the girl he deeply loves has another emotional world he never knew about. I felt almost the same internally.

But the worst part is… I couldn’t even show my emotions on the call because she was crying so much. I controlled everything inside me, stayed calm for almost 1 hour 45 minutes, and kept consoling her while hiding my own heartbreak.

She also said a few things like she was emotionally attached to me too, and she told both herself and me to be careful with emotional attachments because once people get attached, it becomes very painful.

What broke me more is this:

I truly loved her one-sided like the hero in RX 100. Purely. Deeply.

If I had known earlier that she already had such a strong emotional attachment with someone else, honestly I would have stopped myself there itself. But she never told me about this person. I even asked her directly once if she was in a relationship, and she said no.

She says she never accepted his proposal and maintained boundaries, but emotionally she was always there for him like a close companion. In a way, she says she treated me similarly too.

Maybe technically she didn’t cheat me because we were never in a relationship. But emotionally… my heart feels completely broken.

In life, I already felt cheated and defeated by many people and situations. Still, somewhere inside me, I had hope in love. But this pain feels bigger than all my previous losses combined.

Because I never loved her for beauty, lust, or selfish intentions.

I loved her character.

I loved her soul.

I loved her heart.

And now I genuinely don’t know what I should do.

Should I continue being there for her?

Or should I slowly distance myself emotionally before I break even more?

I just need one honest suggestion.