u/AcquisitionPro1102

I’m in my 40s. My ex gf is in her 30s and she was pregnant. She ended up having a miscarriage. We had a very explosive relationship towards the end. She wanted marriage and I was open to it, but didn’t want to rush it or have a timeframe for marriage. Shortly after pregnancy, I started seeing a different side of her and we said some nasty and horrible things to each other. I found out she started reaching out and talking to an ex of hers and she threw it in my face and told me step up and basically if I wanted to make the relationship work, I would do what it took to make it work. I also started communicating with an ex gf of mine during that time. It was a really toxic relationship at the end and I saw a side of her that I had never seen. I’m now noticing that almost every time I post stories on social media, she’s viewing them. I’m wondering why after all the nastiness and hostility, she still viewing my social media stories and she still hasn’t gotten her stuff from my house or given me my stuff back. We are both very educated and very successful individuals.

I’m in my 40s. My ex gf is in her 30s and she was pregnant. She ended up having a miscarriage. We had a very explosive relationship towards the end. She wanted marriage and I was open to it, but didn’t want to rush it or have a timeframe for marriage. Shortly after pregnancy, I started seeing a different side of her and we said some nasty and horrible things to each other. We agreed to take space and I told her I wasn’t going to marry her and there were too many issues and I found out later she started reaching out and seeing an ex of hers and she threw it in my face and told me step up and basically if I wanted to make the relationship work, I would do what it took to make it work. I also started communicating with an ex gf of mine during that time. It was a really toxic relationship at the end and I saw a side of her that I had never seen. I’m now noticing that almost every time I post stories on social media, she’s viewing them. I’m wondering why after all the nastiness and hostility, she still viewing my social media stories and she still hasn’t gotten her stuff from my house or given me my stuff back. We are both very educated and very successful individuals.

I’m in my 40s. My ex gf is in her 30s and she was pregnant. She ended up having a miscarriage. We had a very explosive relationship towards the end. She wanted marriage and I was open to it, but didn’t want to rush it or have a timeframe for marriage. Shortly after pregnancy, I started seeing a different side of her and we said some nasty and horrible things to each other. I found out she started reaching out and talking to an ex of hers and she threw it in my face and told me step up and basically if I wanted to make the relationship work, I would do what it took to make it work. I also started communicating with an ex gf of mine during that time. It was a really toxic relationship at the end and I saw a side of her that I had never seen. I’m now noticing that almost every time I post stories on social media, she’s viewing them. I’m wondering why after all the nastiness and hostility, she still viewing my social media stories and she still hasn’t gotten her stuff from my house or given me my stuff back. We are both very educated and very successful individuals.

I’m in my 40s. My ex gf is in her 30s and she was pregnant. She ended up having a miscarriage. We had a very explosive relationship towards the end. She wanted marriage and I was open to it, but didn’t want to rush it or have a timeframe for marriage. Shortly after pregnancy, I started seeing a different side of her and we said some nasty and horrible things to each other. I found out she started reaching out and talking to an ex of hers and she threw it in my face and told me step up and basically if I wanted to make the relationship work, I would do what it took to make it work. I also started communicating with an ex gf of mine during that time. It was a really toxic relationship at the end and I saw a side of her that I had never seen. I’m now noticing that almost every time I post stories on social media, she’s viewing them. I’m wondering why after all the nastiness and hostility, she still viewing my social media stories and she still hasn’t gotten her stuff from my house or given me my stuff back. We are both very educated and very successful individuals.

I’m in my 40s. My ex gf is in her 30s and she was pregnant. She ended up having a miscarriage. We had a very explosive relationship towards the end. She wanted marriage and I was open to it, but didn’t want to rush it or have a timeframe for marriage. Shortly after pregnancy, I started seeing a different side of her and we said some nasty and horrible things to each other. I found out she started reaching out and talking to an ex of hers and she threw it in my face and told me step up and basically if I wanted to make the relationship work, I would do what it took to make it work. I also started communicating with an ex gf of mine during that time. It was a really toxic relationship at the end and I saw a side of her that I had never seen. I’m now noticing that almost every time I post stories on social media, she’s viewing them. I’m wondering why after all the nastiness and hostility, she still viewing my social media stories and she still hasn’t gotten her stuff from my house or given me my stuff back. We are both very educated and very successful individuals.

Does anyone know how pay increases work under Acq Demo (NH pay bands)? For instance, if you get a fully successful, do you get a percentage or do you get nothing? I know it’s not like under the GS pay scale where you automatically get a step increase with satisfactory performance.