u/Accomplished_Item740

idk WHY tf do parents of toddlers feel so freaking entitled in public places and transport, like YOUR kid is your liability and if they are messing around with others??it's YOUR responsibility to take care of it, like none of us are going to sit here and bear with that and ofc I'm not going to step up and scold your kid, and you sit there thinking you own the place or something,ts is so annoying and then we don't allow pets in certain transport although fur babies barely creating a ruckus

When the devil couldn't reach me, so he made sure I felt out of place and misunderstood in every room i walked into....

I always kinda feel misjudged and hated by people and idk what have I done wrong to deserve this

I got to perform in a programme two weeks from now, and I want to drape this saree i bought recently, I have only performed in bharatnatyam costumes and lehengas/ghagras before and some people are actively discouraging me stating I won't be able to conduct the dance performance properly in the saree, when I'm kinda skeptical myself..is it that difficult to perform in it?😭

i might end up getting bashed by redditors because everyone here seems hyper realistic lmao but idc, have been pondering over this question lately that if you post yourself, and your close friends ignore that and not ignore with your posts does it seem to tell you something is off like they don't care or something, if they just scroll through whatever you post and not engage with anything, they don't even hit a like, isn't that a dead giveaway that they aren't invested in your? I get it that people are caught up in their own lives blah blah, but if they are mostly out there, seeing stuff and can't even afford a second in 24 h doesn't it mean something?

Probably i contemplate of it this way, because I make it a point to engage with their posts and hype them, and for me it's something important.

So around 3-4 months ago, i began my fitness journey with a pair of 20 kg dumbbells and touch wood, it's going well so far..due to some personal reasons, I can't join gym yet, but my growing concern atm is I'm soon about to hit the limit with my dumbbells and initially i bought it thinking it's a good beginner weight but tbh I want to attain progressive overload and ensure my strength increases but that's not possible if I remain stuck with this.

Could someone kindly offer potential solutions on how to cope with this and keep strength training without having to purchase heavier dumbbells because that may not be the long term solution and also space issue, is there something i can do to pursue my strength training, honestly all sorts of advices are welcome ..and for some context,in case this piece of info matters im 21

a bitter realisation that I had of late was how everything around is so deeply rooted in patriarchy and most things we see around are also owned and operated by men so obviously, it's easier for men to connect and network with other men, which i can't do as easily as a woman I believe, because a lot of men assume you're hitting on them if you behave nicely and try to initiate conversationa so I mostly stay non verbal around them which also results in me being more disconnected from things in the real world, i probably sound crazy and stupid saying this but idk if I could convey my point