u/Accomplished_Eye_240

I currently have 2 jobs both part time one is very flexible, going through separation and ex is saying he'll move out but his time frame is too long for me, we are constantly arguing he is the one initiating arguments I'm so over it and I'm ready to go... thinking of picking up a 3rd job for extra cash and just save whatever I earn but am I crazy or could this be manageable 🙃 thinking 3rd job will only be for about 3 months or so until i move I have 3 kids btw 2 teens and toddler

Someone give me hope 🤣🫠

We are supposed to be 50-50 as in financial contributions but so far I'm buying groceries and majority of phone bill

I feel like I'm footing the household bill as in anything we need at home 🫠 I haven't did numbers but I'm

Sure he earns more than me... I know I can find a full

Time job but I find it easier to pick up a retail or some sort of job faster for my current situation

How do you continue being the bigger person during this process 😑 I'm so over the arguments over nothing....

dealing with a narcissist who is loosing control

Over you is so exhausting I have made it very clear and set boundaries that there is no hope for reconciliation on my side... he's really struggling realizing he lost the best thing to happen in his life, sense the moment we met I've made his life easier he never had to worry about anything I took care of everything, I know it's my fault but it was easier to do it instead of waiting for him or arguing. I slowly stop doing things for him because I was exhausted juggling 3 kids, 2 jobs and household it became too much🙃 we keep going back and forth about move out dates and telling kids 😭 I'm sure my kids know something is wrong and I'm ready to speak to them after last nights argument, I'm so ready to get far away from

Him and his family they're not making it easy for me either.

It literally feels me against them I wanted to originally stay close for the kids but once again it's to please them 😭🥲 I wish I had a crystal ball to guide me

Anyone else dealing with a man child? I'm so done of the bullshit and back and forth constantly arguing, we've been on what seemed the same page for a few days, he started taking differently acting like he gave a fuck, but I knew the mask will fall and it did exactly that 😑

He walked in on me having a conversation with someone he happens to over hear "you come into work talking about your shitty life every day" he assumes I'm the one going to work talking like that... number 1 I don't work this job every day that should've been his Que that it wasn't about me..

I'm still on the phone he makes it known he's upset I ignore it..

Once he leaves for work I ask him what's wrong?

He calls me yelling at me about what he over heard 🫩saying I'm painting him out to be this bad guy, I'm so confused at what he's saying I start laughing 🤣 I'm like this can't be real right now 😭 I'm so over this, I'm

Tired of dealing with an insecure man who needs validation in his feelings this man is never happy I hope one day he finds happiness.... it's been about 2 months sense separating but we still live together 🙃 how do you stop the arguments 😥 i wanted to stick it out a little longer but he's making it impossible, I know it's because he's loosing control of me 😭 I can feel this is going to get so ugly 😩 ughhh just needed to vent

I don't ever think he will hurt me but the way he is acting so emotional 😭 About this whole situation is driving me crazy... I believe this man is a narcissist and he can't control his emotions because I'm not giving him what he wants 🥲

Anyone works for riverside county Indio station specifically, I seen an opening 3/12 with alternative work schedule it's about an hr drive for me just wanted too see what will the shifts most likely be as a single mom with 50/50 😭

Anyone else in-laws meddling in the middle? I always knew this would happen once I made the decision to walk away, I think part of the reason I stayed because I wasn't ready to deal with it 🙃 but I'm at a place I really don't care anymore 🫩

Few days ago I was out on lunch with friends, mother in law offered to take my 4yr old (this doesn't happen often without me paying her to take him or some sort of exchange) less than an hr she calls me, phones on DND I set my phone down and see the notification, I answer she passes the phone to my son... I ask him what is he doing he tells me eating pizza, I say okay baby I love you are you having fun? He says yes love you too, I'm like okay I'll call you back in a bit (end of call) she proceeds to call her son... she tells him that she was calling me and I was ignoring her call 😑 and when I finally answered I blew off my son, he calls me yelling at me 😑 she starts texting me to pick up my son, I call her and ask her why? What's wrong she goes to tell me because of what's going on between me and him I need to pick him up... I get home and as soon as I walk in through the door, he goes off at me saying why the eff was i brushing off my son, I'm like really why the hell would you even question me as what type of mother I am?? 🫠 I've known this family for 16 years I'm tired of being the bigger person 😑 what she did was so wrong and tried to paint me in a different light when she knows me as a person and mother... feels like it's me against them 🙃 luckily my oldest can communicate with them without me in the center of their relationship... this family has done me so wrong and I have always tried to protect their image in my kids eyes because my kids love their grandparents but I'm so ready never to speak to these people ever again, but I know that will be impossible because of milestones that are important for my children 😭