u/Accomplished-Bee8269

I spent the last 3 months convinced that me and this guy would end up together and I would be in a happy relationship for once just to find out through one of his friends that he has secretly had a girlfriend this entire time.

my heart hurts so much that I just need to sleep otherwise I start crying - not just over him, but everything. I wonder - what must it feel like to be loved on this earth? what does it feel like to be so stable with others that you get bored?

Yo I am in a predicament.

I've been liking this Capricorn man for 2 -3 months now almost.

He replies to me consistently, and is flirty in person but my gosh is he dry, and he doesn't really flirt over text either.

It makes me feel unloved and lately when he replies he can be saying the most mundane thing but it makes me feel offended for that reason exactly - like where is the effort? do you not want me??

It's been really bad for my self-esteem.

my fellow Leos - have you ever been in a situation where your crush actually likes you, but you blow them off for something similar? I don't know whether to just be really cold with him and stop trying all together or to hold on a bit more.

Gosh, why do the earth signs always get me.

I like a Capricorn guy, and from the beginning he has made considerable effort to be next to me physically and ask me lots of questions BUT this man takes forever to reply even if positively and it feels like a chore to get him to hang out (im a fire sign, and I am the type to make plans and follow through on them even with a 10 minute notice)! What are signs a Capricorn has a crush on you/likes you OR what are signs that they don't?

I am a Capricorn moon so I can relate to his need for a lack of bs, but I am also confused by his conflicting behaviour and inaction.

2 or 3 months ago I met this guy in my lecture, we have mutual friends but never spoke before. I met him because he came up to me, sat next to me, and started asking me about myself.

After that, week after week, we sat together because he would find me in the lecture. He always asks questions about me, and will literally not let me sit next to another guy. When I sat next to our mutual guy friend, he would always get a chair and pull it in the middle.

BUT - we r also not going anywhere. he has only ever texted me first ONCE to ask where I was. I was brave and asked him to hang out, but something came up that day, and I had to reschedule twice in the same day and it didnt work out (my bad, I know).

He will never ghost me, but he takes his time to reply.

I am so confused - our mutuals tell me he is quiet, and most likely single, but I cannot decipher his behaviour and I worry I am coming off too strong or going after someone who doesn't want me by texting.

I am 20 now, haven't seen my parents in two years because I live abroad.

Every few months we have a massive fight over their behaviour and how they used to treat me - but they keep saying that they 'did their best' and it is 'in the past now'.

They are better now, I guess. But still, I don't feel better. And whenever they ask me what is wrong currently, I have nothing to say - but, I still somehow can't get over what did happen.

So yeah - where can I go now? Do we just, stop speaking?