r/capricorns

I am just bored and don’t mind my yapping .

My birth chart says I’m most compatible with fire signs (especially Leos/Sag), even though Capricorns usually aren’t.

My Sagittarius ex and I had insane chemistry..I’ve never felt that before. He was caring and patient, but avoided responsibilities at the end and ran away.

After the breakup I tried making new friends cause i was depressed and isolated for too long … and somehow only attracted more Leos and Sagittarius men 😭

i got into astrology recently and here’s patterns i noticed.

Here are my observations,

I met 2 leo men,

They started flirting with me the day i met them but i was trying to keep it platonic cause i don’t like rushing.

And i didn’t feel spark so i didn’t reply to them fast cause i was not feeling like it. And

1. FIRST LEO GUY

The first leo guy lowkey got upset cause i didn’t give him attention he tried not to show it but then i forgot he exists honestly cause i was busy doing my own hobbies so i often forgot to reply to him lol. Then i saw a message from him 💀 . “ i am deleting my account reach out if you want this is my phone number …… if you want to if you don’t that’s ok”

After seeing this i lowk got an ick😭 idk why . I did feel bad but i didn’t care after seeing the last message.

Cause why you gotta take everything personally 😭.

2. SECOND LEO GUY

I only talked to him as a friend but he started flirting with me and i told him i recently had a breakup so that he doesn’t try but that didn’t stop him at all.

I was telling him how i am really upset about not getting a job and i asked him to find me a job as a joke. He was like i gave you a job.

I asked him “ what is my job?” ( BIG MISTAKE)

He was like “ My gf”

So i changed the topic cause i felt uncomfortable.

After that he was replying to me in “ idk” “ hm”

And i told him jokingly “so many idks”

He was like “ what do you want me to say .. everytime i try to flirt with you you shut me down”

I left him on seen cause i don’t have energy to deal with his drama( i usually don’t leave people on seen but this annoyed me)

Then after 5 mins he apologized he said he was mean then i replied to him and he told me to send pictures of me i refused and he got mad again lol saying i shut him down and he said “ good night imma go you shut me down again”

Like bruh we just met 2 days ago chill.

And i ghosted him cause he is too much drama.

No hate to leos but they annoyed me so much tho i made it clear i am not trying to flirt or have anything romantic with.

And then i talked to another Sagittarius guy , mostly about goals and stuff . He did flirt with me but he kept it grounded and didn’t force it on me unlike the leo guys who wanted attention right after they gave me. And he didn’t make a fuss about it when he didn’t get attention .. he just did cause he wanted to not expecting anything.

As a Capricorn i don’t know how to flirt and i don’t flirt with people even if i can when i just met them.

So the Sagittarius guy, tho i wasn’t attracted to him romantically i was pretty drawn to him and i found him interesting.

We had a deep conversation about goals and life

He told me he is self employed and he didn’t finish highschool and he earns pretty good money ( we are same age)

I asked him why he didn’t he said he thought he it was useless and he still doesn’t regret it.

Honestly i personally think one should finish highschool atleast to keep their options open just incase their plan A fails plan B should be ready( that’s just my opinion but i totally respect people who don’t .. its their life.)

but something about that he said actually made me respect him and felt drawn to him( not in a romantic way ) like i hate reckless people who regret what they are doing later after taking big impulsive decisions but he doesn’t regret it he has his shit together and he knows whar he is doing and is learning things finding ways to learn and grow.

I found him inspiring.

And the fact that it scared me how similar he is to my ex.💀

I am starting to recognize the pattern.