u/AbleLow3867

I’m planning to get married in the near future in AM setup and I want to prepare myself mentally and emotionally before taking that step.

For those who are married (or divorced), what are the things you wish you truly understood before marriage?

Not just the obvious stuff, but real things like: emotional challenges, expectations vs reality, communication issues, physical/sexual compatibility , finances and responsibilities

What mistakes did you make, or what would you do differently if you could go back?

Also, what are some green flags and red flags people often ignore before marriage?

Would really appreciate honest advice from both men and women.

I’m planning to get married in the future and I want to prepare myself mentally and emotionally before taking that step.

For those who are married (or divorced), what are the things you wish you truly understood before marriage?

Not just the obvious stuff, but real things like: emotional challenges, expectations vs reality, communication issues, physical/sexual compatibility , finances and responsibilities

What mistakes did you make, or what would you do differently if you could go back?

Also, what are some green flags and red flags people often ignore before marriage?

Would really appreciate honest advice from both men and women.