u/Aadam-e-Bayzaar

I (32M) feel like a colleague (F34) is a good match for me. She and I usually have a great time talking to each other at work, and I feel like she's attracted to me too.

I told my sis and brother-in-law and they say that I shouldn't waste time and be direct and tell her that I want to marry her.

Now here's the thing: I have never proposed to anyone before and have no idea how to bring it up and what words to use... I mean, what exactly should I say?

My stupid brain came up with an idea:

I will say to her, "I need some advice. There's a woman that I want to marry, but I don't know how to propose to her. Can you help me out? I mean, how would you, as a woman, want someone to propose to you?"

And then she'll give me some idea and the next day I'll apply it to her 💀 am I crazy or is this the best idea ever??

Any other advice? I can't stop thinking about her

I (32M) feel like a colleague (F34) is a good match for me. She and I usually have a great time talking to each other at work, and I feel like she's attracted to me too.

I told my sis and brother-in-law and they say that I shouldn't waste time and be direct and tell her that I want to marry her.

Now here's the thing: I have never proposed to anyone before and have no idea how to bring it up and what words to use... I mean, what exactly should I say?

My stupid brain came up with an idea:

I will say to her, "I need some advice. There's a woman that I want to marry, but I don't know how to propose to her. Can you help me out? I mean, how would you, as a woman, want someone to propose to you?"

And then she'll give me some idea and the next day I'll apply it to her 💀 am I f\*\*\*ing crazy or is this the best idea ever??

Any other advice? I can't stop thinking about her

I (32M) feel like a colleague (F34) is a good match for me. She and I usually have a great time talking to each other at work, and I feel like she's attracted to me too.

I told my sis and brother-in-law and they say that I shouldn't waste time and be direct and tell her that I want to marry her.

Now here's the thing: I have never proposed to anyone before and have no idea how to bring it up and what words to use... I mean, what exactly should I say?

My stupid brain came up with an idea:

I will say to her, "I need some advice. There's a woman that I want to marry, but I don't know how to propose to her. Can you help me out? I mean, how would you, as a woman, want someone to propose to you?"

And then she'll give me some idea and the next day I'll apply it to her 💀 am I f***ing crazy or is this the best idea ever??

Any other advice? I can't stop thinking about her