r/PakistanRishta

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Basic Information:🚺

Female, 24 years old, 5’5”, 60 kg. Single (never married or engaged). Rajpoot, Sunni, Pakistani. Living in DHA Islamabad. Dressing style is modern/modest (wears dupatta).

Education & Work:

Bachelor’s in Psychology. Currently working as an ABA Therapist (IBT Certified). Planning to do a Master’s in Clinical Psychology in the future, InshaAllah.

Personality:

Introvert at first, but open up when the vibe matches. Responsible, mature, well organized, positive-minded, well-mannered, and family-oriented. Value respect, understanding, and peaceful relationships. Good listener and believe in solving problems calmly.

Hobbies & Interests:👩‍🎨

Enjoy managing the home and keeping things organized. Love cooking desi food, baking, and trying new

recipes😋👩‍🍳.Also enjoy driving and decorating the home to make it comfortable and beautiful.

Religious Practice:

Offer five daily prayers regularly, recite the Quran, and try to follow Islamic teachings in daily life.

Family Background:

Belong to a decent and educated family with a balance of modern and Islamic values.

Father: Retired (Private Sector)

Mother: Retired (Army)

Siblings: 3 (one brother in FSc, elder sister engaged)

Residence: Own house in DHA Islamabad

Groom Requirements:🚹

Age: 25–27 years

A sincere, respectful, and caring person who is well organized, career-oriented, open-minded, and God-fearing. Should offer five daily prayers, follow Islamic values, and be supportive. Someone who stands by his wife, communicates well, and handles situations calmly instead of reacting emotionally.

Education: At least a Bachelor’s degree

Location: Islamabad or Rawalpindi preferred

Family: From a respectable and stable family

Financial Status: Should have a stable income

⛔️Important Points:

No dowry (strictly not entertained)

Must support her in continuing studies (Master’s in Clinical Psychology)

Only serious proposals please (no time-pass)

⛔️Deal Breakers:

Drinker, Smoker,Dishonest, liar, manipulative, emotionally unavailable, disrespectful, abusive language, or overly dependent on family in decision-making.

Family Setup Preference:

Believing that a home is truly complete only with the blessings of our elders; looking for a partner who values a nuclear family while honoring the groom’s parents under the same roof.

Children: Yes, InshaAllah

Marriage timeframe:

Within a year, InshaAllah, after mutual understanding and compatibility

Female (hijabi)

Height: 5'5"

Location: New York, USA (family background is from Lahore)

Accommodation: My parents own our home

Education: BS Computer Science

Income Source: Software Engineering Job

Marital Status: Single - Never Married

DOB: 1996

Religion & Short Details About How Practicing You Are

Practicing - I pray 5x, fast during Ramadan, eat zabiha halal, and wear hijab. I don't smoke or drink, and have stayed away from relationships.

Hobbies & Interests

Reading, writing, art, hanging out friends/family

Family Details

Parents and 3 younger siblings

Requirements for a Partner

Looking for someone is Sunni and is moderately practicing (pray, fast, etc.) or is at least trying to get to it. Intention is very important. I want to be aligned religiously with my partner. I also do not have a "past," so I'm looking for the same and that is a dealbreaker.

I'm also looking for someone who is already settled in the US and would be willing to live in the Northeast USA, as I prefer not to relocate out of that larger area (can consider for a short duration though based on circumstance). Ideally, someone who has lived here for a bit and knows and understands the American culture here. Also someone who rejects the negative cultural norms in Pakistani culture, but celebrates the good. Not interested in someone who is embarrassed/detached from Pakistani culture altogether.

For my family, logistically, it's important that the guy comes from a decent, educated family and is settled in a good profession. Big preference for someone who's family background is from Lahore, or nearby (but not necessary).

Deal Breakers

Should meet these:

• Someone practicing and staying away from major haram
• Does not have a "past" as I don't have one either
• Someone who is already living/settled in the US/Canada and willing to live in the Northeast US
• Willing to live in a Nuclear setup
• Has at least a Bachelors
• Age: up to 34

Preferred Family Setup: Nuclear

Do You Want Children?: Yes, Insha Allah

Timeframe for Marriage:

I would like to have conversations with the person to make sure we are right for each other and address all the important questions about values, lifestyle, etc. But I don't believe in talking for months and months. I expect it will take 1-3 months to establish if we are right for each other (this includes family involvement), and after that would like to get married within the year.

Hi everyone, I'm posting this on behalf of a close friend. Please read her profile carefully, and feel free to DM me if you think your profile aligns, I'll be happy to connect you both.

I've known her since we were kids, and if there's one thing I can say, it's that she's genuinely kind, grounded, and someone who brings a lot of warmth to the people around her, something rare to come across.

Age: 26

Height: 5'3

Weight: 50kg (fit and active)

Location: Karachi, Pakistan

Education: O Levels and A Levels.

BDS (Dentistry)

Income Source: Practicing in a private dental clinic

Marital Status: Single

Religious values: I am a Sunni Muslim and would describe myself as moderately practicing. I try my best to offer all five prayers and observe all fasts. I strongly believe that religion is about kindness, honesty, empathy, and discipline. I live a modern lifestyle, dress modestly, but do not wear a hijab. I also do not smoke or drink. In short, I have a balanced halal-haram ratio.

Hobbies and Interest:

I love going on long drives and trying out new food & coffee spots in the city. I enjoy reading and occasionally dabble in crafty hobbies such as painting, pottery & crochet.

I have a sweet tooth and I love trying out new dessert recipes. (My Tiramisu and cinnamon rolls are pretty amazing btw)

While I’m not a very sporty person, I do consistently go to the gym and it’s one of my favourite times of the day.

Family Details: I have a small family of 4 members; I’m the eldest, my younger brother is doing CS, my younger sister is doing MBBS, and my mother is a homemaker. My father was an engineer and he passed away a few years ago.

Requirements:

Sunni Muslim, Age 26-30

Well educated; should have graduated from a reputable university and have a promising professional career.

Someone kind, respectful, responsible and emotionally mature. They should know how to live a balanced life, be open to new experiences, different opinions and not be rigid with their beliefs. Someone who understands a healthy partnership and mutual harmony.

Physically fit, active, and health-conscious. Someone who takes care of his appearance

Belongs to a decent, well-mannered, and respected family, with a healthy balance between religious values and modern life

Preferred Family Setup: I would prefer a nuclear family setup.

Do You Want Children?: Yes, but not for the next 3-4 years

Timeframe for Marriage: Within the next 2 years, but would involve families before that.

Dealbreakers:

Anger issues, impatience, disrespectful or controlling behavior.

A highly conservative mindset, someone who believes all household chores are solely a women’s responsibility or someone who has an issue with women pursuing a career.

A lack of ambition in personal and professional life.

Smoking and drinking

Sidenote; I am open to relocating. However, that is primarily based on how I can pursue my career in that country since each country has its own specific regulations and licensure procedures that can enable me to practice as a dentist there.

Repostingg!

Height & Weight : 6’0’ and 85kg

Sect: Sunni, I just follow Shariah.

Residence: Own, 1 kanal.

Education: I’ve done Bachelor’s in CS from a well reputed University, I’ll be doing an MBA later down the road.

Career: Remotely working, very well placed with an Agency based in the US.

Marital status: Single - Never married.

Religious view: Prays regularly, fasts, gives charity, and is mindful of halal and haram.

Hobbies and interests: FIFA, Tekken, Card/board games and occasionally cricket/badminton on weekends. A big Argentine and Barcelona fan, rarely miss a match. Spending quality time with family and friends.

Family details: Father Retired, Mother housewife. 3 brothers (1 abroad in Japan, 1 married) and 2 sisters (both married). Alhamdulillah everyone is well educated and settled.

Requirements for a partner: Someone who is kind, respectful, practicing, and would want to be my best friend, someone who is fun loving and jolly, talkative and know how to make home an actual home. Wouldn’t mind if she is working, I’m very much supportive if my wife would want to continue her education or career.

Deal breaker: Male best friends, any sort of drugs or smoking habits, non religious.

Do you want children: Yes.

Preferred family setup: Semi Nuclear.

Timeframe for marriage: 6-12 months.

Hello everyone!

Hope everyone’s doing well. Let’s see if Reddit can be the place where I can find my lifetime travel buddy 💯

Height & Weight: 5’11, 78kg

Residence: Own in Abbottabad, PK and Rented in Doha

Marital status: Single

Education: Bachelors in Software Engineering

Profession: Cyber Security

Religion: I would consider myself moderate. I try to pray 5 times a day, fast in ramadan and have performed umrah.

Family details: Mom, dad and a younger brother

Hobbies: Hiking, road trips, concerts, big time foodie, movies and documentaries

Have a knack for learning about how things work, I like to watch documentaries about space-time, geography, history, politics and science.

Requirements: I would want my partner to be forward-thinking and having goals to achieve in life. I am attracted to people with high intellect, who want to know how things work in the universe, and are curious about the world around them.

I prefer a career-oriented partner not for contributing to the household, but for her own development and I believe that someone with a professional career inherently has a higher intellect and a better ability to deal with situations.

Deal breakers: Pessimistic views about life, having no goals/ambition in life.

Interesting facts about you: Very chill in terms of personality, it’s very difficult to make me angry, and I literally don’t take stress about anything.

An extrovert and like to talk to people, explore their views about various topics and understand different cultures.

Plan to travel the world and check all items off my bucket list. Have already been to 8 countries. The top items on my list currently include attending a Coldplay concert and Tomorrowland festival.

Preferred family setup: Nuclear

Do you want kids? Yes, but at least a couple of years after marriage

Timeframe for marriage: Ideally within a year, but depends on whenever i find the right person

Future plans: I currently work and live in Doha, but I eventually plan to move to a country where I could get citizenship.

Hope to find my soulmate here ✨

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**height & weight:** 5’10”, ~68 kg

**location:** karachi

**residence:** rented

**conventional education:** intermediate

**income source:** creative professional in video production & digital media, private firm + freelance

**marital status:** single/unmarried

**religion:** punjabi‑speaking christian, faith is part of identity but not strict on rituals.

### hobbies & interests

- creativity, social media strategy, influencer marketing

- fashion (especially formal wear, i love the feeling of wearing a crisp shirt on a random weekday, even if 'no one notices')

- music: rap, punjabi (karan aujla since *hint*), uk drill, hip hop

- night owl on weekends, sometimes i’ll stay up scrolling playlists until 3am, imagining what life would feel like with someone beside me

- cooking (but prefer eating food made by others, i don’t enjoy eating what i cook myself, maybe someday i’ll learn to love it 🌚)

- dark humor

- i may seem nonchalant at first, but once i’m comfortable i’m actually the most romantic person you’ll meet 🫠

i’m the type to remember tiny details, like how you take your tea, or the way you laugh at something silly.

**family:** parents + one younger sister

### partner requirements

- soft‑spoken, feminine, values traditional gender roles & modest clothing

- conservative values but can be extroverted

- into fashion (classic = big plus)

- supportive, sees marriage as growth not perfection

- no casual relationship history

**deal breakers:**

- feminist/boss babe ideology

- smoking / drinking

- bold/revealing clothing, artificial aesthetics

- casual dating history

- marriage as competition

- thinks punjabi is the language of 'illiterate people'

**preferred setup:** nuclear family, start married life in rented home, plan to provide owned house later

**children:** YES

**marriage timeframe:** ideally within a year if compatibility is there

look, i know it’s pakistan *and* reddit, so odds are low. but i’m still hopeful, cuz:

'you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take' 🤷🏽‍♂️

i imagine small things, like sharing late night walks, or laughing over burnt toast, or just sitting quietly together after a long day. if you’re soft‑spoken, supportive, and want to build each other up, i’d love to talk you and maybe we can spend the life together, who knows... 😌

M | 28 | Lahore

Height & Weight: 6’0 feet and 89 kgs

Location: Lahore

Accommodation: Own

Education: Engineering from GIKI

Income Source: Data Science director in a US based company.

Marital Status: Single

Religion Details: I am someone who pray regularly, at least try to give my best.

Hobbies & Interests

In my free time, I usually prefer playing any kind of sports, watch something good, go out for a drive or hangout with friends. I also like cafe hopping lol.

Family Details

My parents are not alive.

2 elder married brothers

1 elder married sister

Requirements for a Partner

I am open to discuss these. But she should be non toxic, confident, and should be practicing.

Deal Breakers

Cheating, lying, toxicity

Preferred Family Setup: Nuclear

Do You Want Children?: Yes but not immediately

Timeframe for Marriage: I am aiming to get hitched by the end of this year.

Height & Weight: 170 cm, 70 kg

Location: Montreal, Canada, originally from Lahore

Residence: Own in Pakistan but renting in Canada. I moved to Canada almost 5 years ago and live independently here now.

Education: Masters in Mechanical Engineering

Income Source: Working as a Mechanical Engineer

Marital Status: Single

Religion & Level of Religiosity: I identify as a Muslim, but I’m not highly practising. For me, kindness, respect, and shared values matter most in a relationship. I wouldn’t impose my beliefs on anyone. I’m open to someone religious or not religious at all, though I’d prefer someone who doesn’t strongly identify with being religious, as long as we can be mindful around family.

I don’t always eat halal. When I cook for myself, I usually get halal meat, but not always when dining out.

Hobbies & Interests: I’m rarely sitting idle, I like to keep myself busy. Lately, that means hiking, skating, learning French, and trying to pick up the piano. My current goals are to read Harry Potter in French and learn River Flows in You on the piano by the end of the year (ambitious, but we’ll see).

I also plan to travel a bit once I get my Canadian passport. I’m a big history nerd and enjoy reading, mostly fiction. I’ve been told my humour is pretty witty, and I appreciate a bit of old school banter. I’m generally open-minded about most things… except maybe sushi. I also enjoy cooking and can hold my own in the kitchen. 

I’m into working out, not chasing any physique goals, just trying to stay consistent and healthy. It’d be nice to be with someone who’s into fitness too, but it’s not a dealbreaker.

Family Details: My family lives back home, my parents and two brothers.

Requirements for a Partner: Ideally, I’d prefer someone already in Canada or the US, but if you’re in Pakistan or somewhere else, that works too. If you’re in Canada or the US, we can work on relocation.

If you’re into sports or staying active, that would be a big plus. I respect personal choice of dressing, whether that’s modest or not, I do appreciate someone who has a strong sense of personal style.

Deal Breakers: I don’t have a long checklist. If you’re confident, can hold a good conversation, and enjoy life, that’s more than enough. Just don’t be a smoker, please or use drugs. I’m fine if you enjoy the occasional glass of wine.

Preferred Family Setup: Nuclear, I live alone, though my parents might visit now and then.

Do You Want Children?: Yes

Timeframe for Marriage: Around 1 year, though this can be discussed

Height and Weight: 5'10", 74 kg

Education: BSc Accounting and Finance from a top uni and ACCA also finished .

Income Source: Senior Financial Analyst at a Multinational in Isb since 2 years.

Marital Status: Single, never married.

Location and Accomodation: Originally from Faisalabad and family also there. Own house in Faisalabad; I'm currently in Islamabad for job.

Religion and Practice

• Sunni Muslim, Pray 5x daily (at least i try to do all 5), and actively learning the Deen.
• Values: Simplicity, humbleness, forgiving, and regular charity.

Hobbies and Interests

• Extrovert; loves cricket, going out with friends, family time, gaming, and anime.
• Foodie who loves exploring new places and traveling new cities
• Media: Non-fiction books, movies (think gems like SRK's Swades, Dead Poets Society, Perks of being a wallflower but also mainstream action movies), and music (vaste taste from Sidhu Moosewala to Imagine Dragons to Murtaza Qizilbash to Qawwalis).

Family Details

• Father: Retired Professor.
• Mother: Homemaker (former teacher), running small business from home .
• Siblings: One elder brother (Job in Fsd, unmarried).

Requirements for a Partner

• Education: Bachelor’s degree or currently doing degree.
• Age: Max 24
• Personality: Fun, outgoing and matching my vibe, should at least have some connection with namaz and deen.
• Traits: Someone for deep talks who can handle my playful/annoying side and always ready to go out
• Location: Must be settled in Pakistan; and I prefer not to move abroad.

Prefererd family setup: with parents but privacy important.

Deal Breakers

• Smoking, Drinking, Too much materialism

Children? Yes
Marriage Timeline: Within 2 years, open to discuss

I believe in always acting as a TEAM, not letting others interfere, be there for each other. I dont believe in dowry or other meaningless traditions. Get in touch in DM if you align with me. I will be straightforward and honest, wont waste time.