r/PakistanMarriages

Question for rich families:

A boy is doctor/engineer, good looking, from middle-class but respectable family.

Your daughter likes him. But you reject because “uske ghar ka standard hamare barabar nahi”.

You want only “same level” even if the boy is 10 times better in character and deen.

You say “log kya kahenge” but you don’t care what Allah will say on the Day of Judgement.

Admit it class and status matter more to you than anything else.

Prove me wrong.

Look, I’m done with the bullshit.

It feels like every other girl today has either a boyfriend, an affair, or at least some past. Some are straight-up cheating for fun even while being engaged to another guy. And then they show up in rishta meetings acting all innocent and pure.

But here’s the funniest part boys are completely okay and silent when their own sister has a boyfriend or is in a relationship. They’ll defend their sister with their life, but the moment it’s about the girl they’re marrying, suddenly they want a pure virgin who has zero experience.

Hypocrisy at its finest.

Even so-called conservative families ke ladkiyan are doing it secretly. Don’t give me that “not all girls or conservative girls don’t do this nonsense I’ve seen enough to know it’s way more common than people admit.

So tell me straight:

• Boys: How many girls have you met in the rishta process who were already experienced? Be honest.
• Girls: Why do you act all innocent during rishta if you’ve already had boyfriends or hookups?

Is virginity officially dead in 2026? Or are we all just pretending?

Serious question for girls and their mothers.

A boy is 28, has a government job or small business, prays 5 times, has good character. But his salary is 80k-1.2 lakh.

You reject him straight away saying “life standard maintain nahi ho sakta”.

But you want a guy who takes you to Dubai every year and buys iPhone every launch.

Then you cry “acha rishta nahi mil raha”.

Be real would you marry a boy earning 1 lakh if he is good in deen and character?

Or is money and “settled abroad” the only thing that matters now?

Have you heard stories of brides returning because of not bleeding on the wedding night?