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I (25M) would like some genuine advice as to whether my height (5 foot) has me completely cooked or not in terms of dating?

For context I’m in the uk, I have lots of friends, I don’t look bad imo, I dress usually in brown cord trousers and green jumpers, I’ve got glasses, a part time job as a disabled student mentor, I am doing a PhD and do sports twice a week as well as lots of craft hobbies and gardening. My hairline and hair amount is solid too lol. My friends say I’m funny, kind, confident, smart, etc, although I can get a bit nervous socially as I have ASD.

I would really like to find a girlfriend and my friends think I would be a good partner. I am just concerned that my very short height for a guy might put most women off? I have my height on all my dating profiles as I don’t want to omit such a big thing, but I’ve never had much luck dating. I have been told being confident and funny really helps, but the people that advice are for never seem to be as short as me. It’s not a medical condition either, I just came out small lol.

So, do you think my short height will be a major problem dating?

TLDR: I’m a 5 foot guy, will i have trouble dating?

I (25M) would like some genuine advice as to whether my height (5 foot) has me completely cooked or not in terms of dating?

For context I’m in the uk, I have lots of friends, I don’t look bad imo, I dress usually in brown cord trousers and green jumpers, I’ve got glasses, a part time job as a disabled student mentor, I am doing a PhD and do sports twice a week as well as lots of craft hobbies and gardening. My hairline and hair amount is solid too lol. My friends say I’m funny, kind, confident, smart, etc, although I can get a bit nervous socially as I have ASD.

I would really like to find a girlfriend and my friends think I would be a good partner. I am just concerned that my very short height for a guy might put most women off? I have my height on all my dating profiles as I don’t want to omit such a big thing, but I’ve never had much luck dating. I have been told being confident and funny really helps, but the people that advice are for never seem to be as short as me. It’s not a medical condition either, I just came out small lol.

So, do you think my short height will be a major problem dating?

TLDR: I’m a 5 foot guy, will i have trouble dating?

So I ordered a pizza half and someone started making it. When it got passed to the second employee, i noticed him but just cheese on then put it in the oven. I thought I must have missed him putting on the sauce (surely?). But when I got it (a friend paid hence I didn’t get time to check first), I checked at the counter and there was visibly no sauce. I asked about the sauce and the guy lied and said they didn’t make it with sauce and it was just cheese and bread. My friend said “like a cheese toastie?” And he said yes?? When I pointed to the board and showed him that the menu said marinara sauce and I insisted at other subways they made it with sauce, he reluctantly admitted he lied because they had no sauce. I was confused why he lied. When I made the order, they could have just said they didn’t have any. Even half way through making it he could have said there was none and it would have been fine. It’s the fact that I (almost) argued back and forth about whether the pizza subs came with sauce. I thought I was going crazy. Like 1) he said it came with no sauce and that’s how subway makes them 2) that they are just cheese on bread 3) didn’t really respond when I insisted I’ve had them elsewhere with sauce and 4) only admitted it when I pointed at the menu. It was quite shocking that he just kept lying to our faces, i guess hoping we’d just leave. I wasn’t trying to be argumentative, I was just utterly confused as to what was happening. The guy offered us ketchup but at that point we didn’t want to eat there. And no other staff stepped in, even though they were among it. Kind of understandable in work place, but with no back up I felt crazy. We had to firmly refuse the food and ask for a refund (only on the pizzas btw). They luckily refunded us, but it was so weird. I have tried to contact subway twice about this but I’ve never had a response. I don’t want to complain about the lack of sauce (that’s fine) but having a fully grown (not a teenager) guy try to gaslight me into believing there was never sauce on the pizza subs is bizarre. Has anyone else had something like this happen?

TLDR: subway workers tried to gaslight me into thinking the Margherita pizza sub didn’t come with marinara sauce.

So I ordered a pizza half and someone started making it. When it got passed to the second employee, i noticed him but just cheese on then put it in the oven. I thought I must have missed him putting on the sauce (surely?). But when I got it (a friend paid hence I didn’t get time to check first), I checked at the counter and there was visibly no sauce. I asked about the sauce and the guy lied and said they didn’t make it with sauce and it was just cheese and bread. My friend said “like a cheese toastie?” And he said yes?? When I pointed to the board and showed him that the menu said marinara sauce and I insisted at other subways they made it with sauce, he reluctantly admitted he lied because they had no sauce. I was confused why he lied. When I made the order, they could have just said they didn’t have any. Even half way through making it he could have said there was none and it would have been fine. It’s the fact that I (almost) argued back and forth about whether the pizza subs came with sauce. I thought I was going crazy. Like 1) he said it came with no sauce and that’s how subway makes them 2) that they are just cheese on bread 3) didn’t really respond when I insisted I’ve had them elsewhere with sauce and 4) only admitted it when I pointed at the menu. It was quite shocking that he just kept lying to our faces, i guess hoping we’d just leave. I wasn’t trying to be argumentative, I was just utterly confused as to what was happening. The guy offered us ketchup but at that point we didn’t want to eat there. And no other staff stepped in, even though they were among it. Kind of understandable in work place, but with no back up I felt crazy. We had to firmly refuse the food and ask for a refund (only on the pizzas btw). They luckily refunded us, but it was so weird. I have tried to contact subway twice about this but I’ve never had a response. I don’t want to complain about the lack of sauce (that’s fine) but having a fully grown (not a teenager) guy try to gaslight me into believing there was never sauce on the pizza subs is bizarre. Has anyone else had something like this happen?

TLDR: subway workers tried to gaslight me into thinking the Margherita pizza sub didn’t come with marinara sauce.

So I ordered a pizza half and someone started making it. When it got passed to the second employee, i noticed him but just cheese on then put it in the oven. I thought I must have missed him putting on the sauce (surely?). But when I got it (a friend paid hence I didn’t get time to check first), I checked at the counter and there was visibly no sauce. I asked about the sauce and the guy lied and said they didn’t make it with sauce and it was just cheese and bread. My friend said “like a cheese toastie?” And he said yes?? When I pointed to the board and showed him that the menu said marinara sauce and I insisted at other subways they made it with sauce, he reluctantly admitted he lied because they had no sauce. I was confused why he lied. When I made the order, they could have just said they didn’t have any. Even half way through making it he could have said there was none and it would have been fine. It’s the fact that I (almost) argued back and forth about whether the pizza subs came with sauce. I thought I was going crazy. Like 1) he said it came with no sauce and that’s how subway makes them 2) that they are just cheese on bread 3) didn’t really respond when I insisted I’ve had them elsewhere with sauce and 4) only admitted it when I pointed at the menu. It was quite shocking that he just kept lying to our faces, i guess hoping we’d just leave. I wasn’t trying to be argumentative, I was just utterly confused as to what was happening. The guy offered us ketchup but at that point we didn’t want to eat there. And no other staff stepped in, even though they were among it. Kind of understandable in work place, but with no back up I felt crazy. We had to firmly refuse the food and ask for a refund (only on the pizzas btw). They luckily refunded us, but it was so weird. I have tried to contact subway twice about this but I’ve never had a response. I don’t want to complain about the lack of sauce (that’s fine) but having a fully grown (not a teenager) guy try to gaslight me into believing there was never sauce on the pizza subs is bizarre. Has anyone else had something like this happen?

TLDR: subway workers tried to gaslight me into thinking the Margherita pizza sub didn’t come with marinara sauce.