u/4228w

26 [TM4F] Looking for a genuine connection. :)

- Trans man (legally transitioned)
- 5’5, moreno
- Living abroad but still visits the Philippines yearly
- Long distance is okay if the connection is genuine

About me:
- Introverted at first, madaldal once comfortable
- Into gaming, anime, movies, and peaceful stay-at-home days
- Occasionally enjoys adrenaline-filled adventures
- Values stability, honesty, and emotional maturity
- Currently focused on building a good future through work and investments

Looking for someone who:
- Is kind, honest, emotionally mature, and communicative
- Is open-minded and can match dark and kanal humor
- Bonus if you’re a yapper. I love listening to people talk about the things they’re passionate about

Not looking for something shallow — I want a genuine connection that could turn into something serious if we vibe.

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u/4228w — 5 days ago

Honestly, I’m not really okay lately, and I think that's part of why I’m here. I honestly don’t mind if we end up as friends, gaming buddies, or just two people keeping each other company through life.

I’m an introvert and not much of a yapper at first unless comfortable na, but once I warm up, makulit naman ako. I usually match the energy people give me, so bonus points if yapper ka because I genuinely enjoy listening. Tell me about your day, your interests, random theories at 2am, brain rot, anything honestly.

Please lang, wag yung sobrang nonchalant or puro cold short replies HAHAHA. I don’t need constant attention naman, but I appreciate people who know how to keep a conversation alive and make you feel like they actually want to talk to you.

A little about me:

- currently abroad but visits the PH yearly

- introvert/homebody

- into gaming, movies, anime, random deep talks, and occasional kalokohan

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u/4228w — 5 days ago

26 [M4F] Maybe this could be something real?

Hello. This is honestly my first time putting myself out there in the dating scene, so bear with me. I figured maybe it’s time to stop treating love like a side quest I never unlocked and actually see where things could go. Worst case scenario, dagdag character development na naman.

A little about me — I’m a trans man, though I’ve lived most of my life as a guy already, and my documents have been legally changed as well. I’m 5’5, moreno, and I currently live abroad, but I still visit the Philippines every year because no matter where life takes me, home still feels different. Because of that, distance isn’t really a deal breaker for me. I value genuine connection more than convenience, and if the bond is real, I don’t mind putting in the effort.

Personality-wise, I’m more introverted and usually more of a listener than the loudest person in the room, but once I get comfortable, madaldal din naman ako. I enjoy simple things — spending time with people I care about, watching movies, gaming, anime, and just being at peace at home. At the same time, I do have an adventurous side and enjoy adrenaline-filled experiences every now and then.

I take my future seriously. I work hard, value stability, and have been building a life for myself through work and investments. At this point in my life, I’m not really looking for something shallow or temporary. I want something genuine, healthy, and built on mutual respect and effort.

As for what I’m looking for, I appreciate someone kind, emotionally mature, honest, and easy to talk to. Someone open-minded, communicates well, and doesn’t mind dark humor because makulit ako once I’m comfortable. Bonus points if you’re a yapper, honestly. I genuinely enjoy listening to people talk about the things they love — whether it’s random theories at 2am, overexplaining your favorite game, anime, or movie, or passionately talking about the most random topic imaginable. There’s something attractive about people who can be fully themselves around you.

And if we genuinely vibe, I’d definitely be open to meeting in person someday.

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u/4228w — 5 days ago

HHello. This is honestly my first time putting myself out there in the dating scene, so bear with me. I figured maybe it’s time to stop treating love like a side quest I never unlocked and actually see where things could go. Worst case scenario, dagdag character development na naman.

A little about me — I’m a trans man, though I’ve lived most of my life as a guy already, and my documents have been legally changed as well. I’m 5’5, moreno, and very much the “date to marry” type. I currently live abroad, but I still visit the Philippines every year because no matter where life takes me, home still feels different. Because of that, distance isn’t really a deal breaker for me. I value genuine connection more than convenience, and if the bond is real, I don’t mind putting in the effort.

Personality-wise, I’m more introverted and usually more of a listener than the loudest person in the room, but once I get comfortable, madaldal din naman ako. I enjoy simple things — spending time with people I care about, watching movies, gaming, anime, and just being at peace at home. At the same time, I do have an adventurous side and enjoy adrenaline-filled experiences every now and then.

I take my future seriously. I work hard, value stability, and have been building a life for myself through work and investments. At this point in my life, I’m not really looking for something shallow or temporary. I want something genuine, healthy, and built on mutual respect and effort.

As for what I’m looking for, I appreciate someone kind, emotionally mature, honest, and easy to talk to. Someone open-minded, communicates well, and doesn’t mind dark humor because makulit ako once I’m comfortable. Bonus points if you’re a yapper, honestly. I genuinely enjoy listening to people talk about the things they love — whether it’s random theories at 2am, overexplaining your favorite game, anime, or movie, or passionately talking about the most random topic imaginable. There’s something attractive about people who can be fully themselves around you.

And if we genuinely vibe, I’d definitely be open to meeting in person someday.

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u/4228w — 5 days ago

Hello! I’m looking for a genuine connection—something real, meaningful, and hopefully something that can naturally bloom over time.

I’m currently living abroad (nasa kabilang lupalop ng mundo 😅), but I visit the Philippines every year, so distance isn’t really a dealbreaker for me if the connection is worth it.

About me:

I’m 5’5, moreno, introverted, and more of a listener than a yapper at first—but once I’m comfortable, madaldal din naman ako. I’m a homebody who enjoys peaceful days at home, but I also have a surprising adventurous side when the moment calls for it.

I have a stable job, I’m financially responsible, and I value long-term security and growth. I enjoy investing and building for the future rather than living recklessly in the moment.

I love dogs and cats, video games, anime, movies, TV shows, and just spending quality time with people I’m comfortable with. I’m the type who values consistency, loyalty, emotional maturity, and genuine effort.

What I’m looking for:

Someone kind, emotionally mature, honest, and easy to talk to. Someone who values peace over drama, knows how to communicate, and is open to building something real—whether that starts as friendship or turns into something deeper.

I’m not rushing anything—I’d rather let things grow naturally and see where it goes. If we vibe, I’m definitely open to meeting in person someday.

Let’s see where life takes us :)

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u/4228w — 14 days ago

Hello! I’m looking to find a genuine connection—something real that could hopefully bloom in time. Nasa kabilang lupalop man ako ng mundo, I still visit the Philippines every year, so distance isn’t really a problem for me.

I’m more of a listener than a yapper at first, but once I’m comfortable with you, madaldal din naman ako. I’m 5’5, moreno, have a stable job, and I’m financially responsible with investments as well.

I love dogs and cats, video games, anime, movies, and TV shows. I’m naturally an introvert and a homebody, but surprisingly, I’m also an adventurous junkie when the moment calls for it.

Whether we end up as good friends or something more, I’m open to meeting in person and seeing where things go naturally 😄

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u/4228w — 16 days ago