u/3burnerphones

My girfriend (21) and i(23) have been dating for about 10 months now. At the start it was nice and healthy just like every new relationship but it’s starting to change to the point that makes me not see anything past whats going on right now. like yeah we’d make up when it’s something small but we quite literally argue everyday over anything. She began to show her Toxic, Manipulative and Suicidal nature. Its like the entire world revolved around her.

She’s starting to become Rude and constantly uses “Im just a girl, and girls have attitude” as an excuse/reason and that she cant control whatever shes feeling/dealing with at the moment which i whole heartedly understand.. womens hormones all that shit they deal with thats uncontrollable i understand that part trust me im not stupid.. but its to the point where I think she does not like Peace. Every single time we have something fun going on like a Party or a Birthday or a holiday we celebrate together, she just… Starts to trip on small shit that leads to another Big thing.
We Argued on Christmas eve, Christmas. New years, Thankgiving, My birthday, Her birthday, and every damn holiday there is

This 1 (of many) incident lowkey Changed me ⬇️
Recently we went to Universal Studios in LA. with her family and at first it was going fine, but the whole time it honestly felt like i was walking on egg shells. we got into it inside the amusement park because of something so small like “Im not giving her enough attention” when mind you IM on a trip with YOUR entire family for the first time and IM NOT giving you attention?? Please. i called her out on it but i never made it a problem, i dealt with the so called attitude and gave her attention.
Fast forward 2 hours later we’re walking out and my sister(15) calls me then asks me to buy her a Minion Plushie from the Gift shop. We’re with her family walking in groups so i asked her if she wanted to come in with me, She said “No” so i said okay! So i walk in and i kid you not She was All of a sudden right behind me saying “So You NOT gonna force me to go inside with you?” i just laughed and grabbed her and walked to the minion aisle.

I call my sister, soon as my sister(15!) answers, She mutes the microphone and tells me “So you not going to fucking ask me what i want from the store?!”

she says that and i hung up on my sister so fast and walked out, ive never felt so weirded out by a Grown woman before bc you’re tripping on my SISTER and shes 15!! what?! doesnt even make any sense. when i asked you if you wanted to go in the store with me. she followed me outside and i told her how wrong she was for acting like this on a trip she decided to bring me along on. Just couldnt stop thinking about how she would react if i had done that to her and she has a little brother too. Just wrong.

Important; Fast forward to a day later i had the Bag with the plushie In the backseat where we were seating. I had 2 plushies. Before heading back home she saw the bag in the backseat and offered to put in the trunk so i said yeah good idea.

We got home, took my stuff out the trunk. Plushie was GONE from the bag in the trunk that was never opened the whole drive back home.
She helped me look for it in the trunk/truck and claimed it may have fallen out.
But mind you, I had 2 plushies, minion was under the first one, If it would have fallen out, first plushie on top would fall first and minion would be saved. Idc about a $20 item. it was the act that makes me question this whole shit. why target my little sister?

But then she just claims she lost something in the trunk too (she didnt) so i just played dumb and believed her.

Yesterday; With a little context and What made me post all this bull shit

We’re coming off a really bad arguement on Tuesday. She got kicked out her moms place 7 months ago and shes currently renting a room 5 minutes from my house but ever since we started dating she has stayed at my place everyday. everyday!! she doesnt give me space even when i ask respectfully. When she had nobody not even her own mother she had me and my mom. i gave her a family when she bad Nada. she doesnt do anything, No hobbies, No friends that she hangs with, Her free time is just… Brainrot on tiktok.
And I, Am very outgoing, I play basketball, i go to the gym and ive been skateboarding for 10 years. Stopped all that for her. Didnt want to but the plate ive been dealt with made me stop caring about my own interests and hobbies. I loved fashion so much and ion even try to look good no more lol ive gained weight and just lost track of it all.

Everytime i get on the game she gets mad, Shes in my home in my own personal space and we spend together every minute of the day so theres day where we dont do anything. I got on the game last night and i thought everything was fine up until she started mean mugging me and id just look at her and smile like okay its good. Then the basketball game starts and she started to trip on that too. Mind you we’re 5 feet away from eachother

Im mad because of how outgoing i was before i met her and now that im with her i just choose to be Home inside my room and play my game like i could be outside doing fuck all and somehow you’re mad at me for this.

I didnt even care she was giving me attitude, i understand this may be “small” but this happens EVERYDAY. We argue 5 times a week atleast. I try to be understanding as much as i can but bottles get full. I called her out on it like Yo, We’re just chilling together and you’re constantly proving you cannot just choose peace for once. She snapped, Started arguing, Hitting herself, laying on the floor crying throwing tantrums. and the one thing i havent mentioned is that everytime shes wrong and i call her out, she threatens to kill herself. I’ll provide screenshots of our conversation last night. Idk what to do

My girfriend (21) and i(23) have been dating for about 10 months now. At the start it was nice and healthy just like every new relationship but it’s starting to change to the point that makes me not see anything past whats going on right now. like yeah we’d make up when it’s something small but we quite literally argue everyday over anything. She began to show her Toxic, Manipulative and Suicidal nature. Its like the entire world revolved around her.

She’s starting to become Rude and constantly uses “Im just a girl, and girls have attitude” as an excuse/reason and that she cant control whatever shes feeling/dealing with at the moment which i whole heartedly understand.. womens hormones all that shit they deal with thats uncontrollable i understand that part trust me im not stupid.. but its to the point where I think she does not like Peace. Every single time we have something fun going on like a Party or a Birthday or a holiday we celebrate together, she just… Starts to trip on small shit that leads to another Big thing.
We Argued on Christmas eve, Christmas. New years, Thankgiving, My birthday, Her birthday, and every damn holiday there is

This 1 (of many) incident lowkey Changed me ⬇️
Recently we went to Universal Studios in LA. with her family and at first it was going fine, but the whole time it honestly felt like i was walking on egg shells. we got into it inside the amusement park because of something so small like “Im not giving her enough attention” when mind you IM on a trip with YOUR entire family for the first time and IM NOT giving you attention?? Please. i called her out on it but i never made it a problem, i dealt with the so called attitude and gave her attention.
Fast forward 2 hours later we’re walking out and my sister(15) calls me then asks me to buy her a Minion Plushie from the Gift shop. We’re with her family walking in groups so i asked her if she wanted to come in with me, She said “No” so i said okay! So i walk in and i kid you not She was All of a sudden right behind me saying “So You NOT gonna force me to go inside with you?” i just laughed and grabbed her and walked to the minion aisle.

I call my sister, soon as my sister(15!) answers, She mutes the microphone and tells me “So you not going to fucking ask me what i want from the store?!”

she says that and i hung up on my sister so fast and walked out, ive never felt so weirded out by a Grown woman before bc you’re tripping on my SISTER and shes 15!! what?! doesnt even make any sense. when i asked you if you wanted to go in the store with me. she followed me outside and i told her how wrong she was for acting like this on a trip she decided to bring me along on. Just couldnt stop thinking about how she would react if i had done that to her and she has a little brother too. Just wrong.

Important; Fast forward to a day later i had the Bag with the plushie In the backseat where we were seating. I had 2 plushies. Before heading back home she saw the bag in the backseat and offered to put in the trunk so i said yeah good idea.

We got home, took my stuff out the trunk. Plushie was GONE from the bag in the trunk that was never opened the whole drive back home.
She helped me look for it in the trunk/truck and claimed it may have fallen out.
But mind you, I had 2 plushies, minion was under the first one, If it would have fallen out, first plushie on top would fall first and minion would be saved. Idc about a $20 item. it was the act that makes me question this whole shit. why target my little sister?

But then she just claims she lost something in the trunk too (she didnt) so i just played dumb and believed her.

Yesterday; With a little context and What made me post all this bull shit

We’re coming off a really bad arguement on Tuesday. She got kicked out her moms place 7 months ago and shes currently renting a room 5 minutes from my house but ever since we started dating she has stayed at my place everyday. everyday!! she doesnt give me space even when i ask respectfully. When she had nobody not even her own mother she had me and my mom. i gave her a family when she bad Nada. she doesnt do anything, No hobbies, No friends that she hangs with, Her free time is just… Brainrot on tiktok.
And I, Am very outgoing, I play basketball, i go to the gym and ive been skateboarding for 10 years. Stopped all that for her. Didnt want to but the plate ive been dealt with made me stop caring about my own interests and hobbies. I loved fashion so much and ion even try to look good no more lol ive gained weight and just lost track of it all.

Everytime i get on the game she gets mad, Shes in my home in my own personal space and we spend together every minute of the day so theres day where we dont do anything. I got on the game last night and i thought everything was fine up until she started mean mugging me and id just look at her and smile like okay its good. Then the basketball game starts and she started to trip on that too. Mind you we’re 5 feet away from eachother

Im mad because of how outgoing i was before i met her and now that im with her i just choose to be Home inside my room and play my game like i could be outside doing fuck all and somehow you’re mad at me for this.

I didnt even care she was giving me attitude, i understand this may be “small” but this happens EVERYDAY. We argue 5 times a week atleast. I try to be understanding as much as i can but bottles get full. I called her out on it like Yo, We’re just chilling together and you’re constantly proving you cannot just choose peace for once. She snapped, Started arguing, Hitting herself, laying on the floor crying throwing tantrums. and the one thing i havent mentioned is that everytime shes wrong and i call her out, she threatens to kill herself. I’ll provide screenshots of our conversation last night. Idk what to do