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So I did a sour jar/spell jar for a toxic co-worker and for 7 days I’ve been lighting a black candle on top of the jar lid. On the 6th day, he suddenly made plans with the whole team to visit another co-worker’s house (they recently had a baby) and excluded only me.

Now I’m feeling shocked, confused, and honestly a little scared. Does this mean the sour jar backfired? Or can situations like this happen because the effect of the jar hasn’t started yet or is still building up?

So I did a sour jar/spell jar for a toxic co-worker and for 7 days I’ve been lighting a black candle on top of the jar lid. On the 6th day, he suddenly made plans with the whole team to visit another co-worker’s house (they recently had a baby) and excluded only me.

Now I’m feeling shocked, confused, and honestly a little scared. Does this mean the sour jar backfired? Or can situations like this happen because the effect of the jar hasn’t started yet or is still building up?

So I did a sour jar/spell jar for a toxic co-worker and for 7 days I’ve been lighting a black candle on top of the jar lid. On the 6th day, he suddenly made plans with the whole team to visit another co-worker’s house (they recently had a baby) and excluded only me.

Now I’m feeling shocked, confused, and honestly a little scared. Does this mean the sour jar backfired? Or can situations like this happen because the effect of the jar hasn’t started yet or is still building up?

I’m married and have developed a very intense emotional/energetic connection with my boss, who is also my reporting manager. He’s a year younger than me, very intelligent, attractive, and his behavior with me is extremely hot and cold — sometimes flirtatious and invested, sometimes distant.

I’ve been into spirituality and psychic practices for over 20 years and recently started learning witchcraft. What’s confusing me is that I feel an unusually strong pull toward him and dream about him constantly — romantic/intimate dreams, emotional closeness, etc. It genuinely feels deeper than a normal crush to me.

At this point, I’m trying to understand what this actually is. Is this limerence? Energetic attachment? Twin flame obsession? Projection? Or does this kind of intense connection usually mean both people are feeling something?

Also, how do I regain control over my emotions in this situation while still keeping his attention? Would something like a glamour spell for confidence/attraction make more sense than trying obsession or love spells?

I’m married and have developed a very intense emotional/energetic connection with my boss, who is also my reporting manager. He’s a year younger than me, very intelligent, attractive, and his behavior with me is extremely hot and cold — sometimes flirtatious and invested, sometimes distant.

I’ve been into spirituality and psychic practices for over 20 years and recently started learning witchcraft. What’s confusing me is that I feel an unusually strong pull toward him and dream about him constantly — romantic/intimate dreams, emotional closeness, etc. It genuinely feels deeper than a normal crush to me.

At this point, I’m trying to understand what this actually is. Is this limerence? Energetic attachment? Twin flame obsession? Projection? Or does this kind of intense connection usually mean both people are feeling something?

Also, how do I regain control over my emotions in this situation while still keeping his attention? Would something like a glamour spell for confidence/attraction make more sense than trying obsession or love spells?

I’m married and have developed a very intense emotional/energetic connection with my boss, who is also my reporting manager. He’s a year younger than me, very intelligent, attractive, and his behavior with me is extremely hot and cold — sometimes flirtatious and invested, sometimes distant.

I’ve been into spirituality and psychic practices for over 20 years and recently started learning witchcraft. What’s confusing me is that I feel an unusually strong pull toward him and dream about him constantly — romantic/intimate dreams, emotional closeness, etc. It genuinely feels deeper than a normal crush to me.

At this point, I’m trying to understand what this actually is. Is this limerence? Energetic attachment? Twin flame obsession? Projection? Or does this kind of intense connection usually mean both people are feeling something?

Also, how do I regain control over my emotions in this situation while still keeping his attention? Would something like a glamour spell for confidence/attraction make more sense than trying obsession or love spells? People experienced in spirituality/energy work/witchcraft — how would you approach this situation responsibly?

I’m a Tarot Reader and have done positive candle work on and off for years (healing, prosperity, sweetening etc.), but I’m still fairly new to actual spellwork.

I’m dealing with a workplace situation and need advice on what kind of energy work would make the most sense.

My boss and senior (both men) used to be very warm and supportive toward me 2 years ago, but after a new female coworker joined, their behavior toward me became noticeably colder. She’s now on maternity leave, but things still haven’t improved.

My boss especially has been giving me poor feedback for the last 2 years, affecting my appraisals and overall confidence at work. The senior mostly follows the boss’s lead.

I’m confused whether this situation calls for:
- a sweetening/honey jar type of spell,
- banishing negative energy/hostility,
- workplace favour work

Please advise

I’m a Tarot Reader and have done positive candle work on and off for years (healing, prosperity, sweetening etc.), but I’m still fairly new to actual spellwork.

I’m dealing with a workplace situation and need advice on what kind of energy work would make the most sense.

My boss and senior (both men) used to be very warm and supportive toward me 2 years ago, but after a new female coworker joined, their behavior toward me became noticeably colder. She’s now on maternity leave, but things still haven’t improved.

My boss especially has been giving me poor feedback for the last 2 years, affecting my appraisals and overall confidence at work. The senior mostly follows the boss’s lead.

I’m confused whether this situation calls for:
- a sweetening/honey jar type of spell,
- banishing negative energy/hostility,
- workplace favour work.

Please advise