r/wlwIndia

So, we (both F31) were making love earlier this morning and she whispered in my ears that she wants my baby and she wished she could carry my child. Now, obviously, I don’t have sperm to give her. So I’m wondering what she meant by that? 🙈

I’ll start:

emotionally available dom. women who make the first move and are older than me because I’m too clingy and awkward to function properly on my own 😭💀

your turn 👀

Hieee..I want to talk..

Anyone here?

Looking for some random, genuine conversations..

movies, series, hobbies, overthinking spirals, study/job struggles... basically anything and everything.

A little about me..I recently came out as queer and I'm still figuring a lot of things out. I don't really have any queer friends yet, so I'd love to meet some genuine people here. Maybe we become friends? Who knows..

I'm naturally a little flirty, but please... no horny people. I am absolutely not here for that.

Also, it would be really nice if you could talk in Hindi too.. I just feel more comfortable in my own language, hope that’s okay..

(Vo alag baat hai ki Hindi mein bhi bhut kam bol paati hu.. introvert aatma🦉)

So, I'm 22 f (Bangalore) and idk why but I've been feeling so horny 😭 i fantasize about sex a lot, is this normal?

Hey fellow indian sapphics. I guess I am not sure why I am writing this here, but I felt like sharing the story of my relationship.

My girlfriend (27) and I (24) met almost 4 years ago in Mumbai and we fell so, so deeply in love. I got along with her parents so well, and she got along with mine (we were the "college best friends" who liked to have A LOT of sleepovers). We kept our relationship a secret, but I’ll be honest, my parents already knew from my past exes and my school teachers complaining that I was "very, very gay." My dad found out pretty soon. My parents actually took it well, mostly because I think they’ve given up on me ever being with a man or being the way they want. It’s a long story, so I won’t get into it.

Anyway, her family is a typical traditional Gujarati family where traditional clothing is preferred. Meanwhile, I’m someone who prefers stockings, black and white dresses, and heavy platform boots. It was a bit funny because her mom liked me so much she used to joke that I am the "very feminine daughter she always wanted," while my mom was so sick and tired of my obsession with dresses that she loved my girlfriend’s more "butch" way of dressing.

It’s so funny to us, that my girlfriend and I have joked over the years about exchanging mothers. Anyway, for many reasons, my parents were never completely accepting of me, and it got so bad that I wanted to go to Germany to finish my Master’s, get a PhD, and live abroad. I am very dedicated to my career; I love the field I work in with all my heart and I want to become a professor one day.

My girlfriend is equally, if not arguably more, career-minded and ambitious. She has been preparing for UPSC for over 4 years giving her 4th attempt in a few days. Our entire plan was that maybe she could take IFS, choose Germany, and then live with me so we could happily get married and live our life here.

Well, fast forward through three years of long distance. There were a lot of highs and lows in the four years I have been with her; we almost broke up once, but we made up stronger and loved each other even more. We treasured every moment. The few times I was back, the nights were passionate, romantic, and so amazing that I never wanted to leave.

At some point, her mom put two and two together and realized we were more than just "besties," and she actually took it well. At first, she was pressuring my girlfriend to get an arranged marriage (she rejected every single offer), but eventually, she took us seriously and began to respect me and our relationship.

The problem is, this is now her fourth attempt, and you guys know how UPSC tends to be. I told her that I would support her even if she does not clear the exam. I am ready to support her financially to move here in Germany. But she has a lot of pride, and I get it, which is why she refused.

This went on for a few months more until yesterday, when we had a deep conversation.

I asked her what the future looks like for us, and we both became very silent. The problem is, there is no guarantee even if she clears UPSC that she would get a posting in Germany. If she doesn’t get Germany, I don’t know how long we would have to wait to be together. 4 years more? 6? 8? We both dont have an answer, and we would be much older.

Add to that, this whole thing has been putting so much pressure on her. In her mind, if she doesn't clear the exam, she won’t only lose the chance at her dream job, but also me because she cannot move to Germany and we cannot realistically be in a long-distance relationship until we are both in our mid-30s or 40s.

She does not want that, and neither do I. We both just want someone to come home to and cuddle with. Having stability is... it’s good. And we don’t have that. Long distance is impossible for doing more than 5 years and we are already exhausted having to fight for every moment, seeing her from a metal box every single day. Not being able to hold her, touch her, kiss her...its torture.

To us both its torture.

It feels like a tragedy because I love her so, so much. We are literally made for each other. Compatible in everything one would need in a partner. We are soulmates.

She is my wife in all but name; her nickname in my contacts is literally "Jaan-e-wifey." It just... we had so many dreams, and it’s not fair to her or to me to continue this burden anymore.

I am privileged enough to have parents who could support me a bit before I found a stable job to support myself in Germany. They aren’t ultra-wealthy, but they supported my first year until I got a part-time job.

She does not have that privilege, and she refuses to accept help from me.

It’s more than that, she would have to move here in her mid-30s even if she clears UPSC this year (two years of training, and maybe she won't get Germany as her first posting). That would mean uprooting her entire existence and support system she has built, and letting go of it all, and she thinks she can't do that in her 30s. She cannot promise me she would want to do this.

Meanwhile, I am 100% sure I cannot ever move back to India. This country is hostile towards me, and my parents, even though they accept me, are not ready for me to publicly date a woman and "shame" the family name.

So, I will do my PhD here from next year. I cannot move because my career is not as mobile as hers, and I just feel so devastated and sad.

It feels like I have lost my wife, a part of me, and it’s neither of our fault. It feels like destiny holds a grudge against us and wants to forcibly drive us apart.

But if this relationship feels like such a heavy burden on her, the best thing is to let go, is it not?

So we broke up yesterday. I don’t know why I am typing this here, I just wanted to vent. She will still be in my life; we will still be in touch and we will never block each other, but...

I hope one day, she and I can be together. A girl can dream right?

u/solacexoxo, break my heart break my bones too for the sin I did of loving you.

I was walking back from office, the sun setting behind and my shadow in front.

And my brain goes like, "Damn! That's a good looking shadow."

My shadow was looking so good with the jacket sleeves pulled up, broad shoulders and everything.

How is my shadow so good and not me?! 🤡😭😂

Yes, I've lost it. 😂

she's so blindingly gorgeous. i can't keep my hands off of her. i always NEED to hold her hand or waist or something or i'll fucking explode. i want to move in with her. i want to cook for her. i want to wake up beside her. i love how firm her back feels when she's the little spoon. i love how the slight upturn of her thumbs feels in my hands. i love her little fangs.

whatever she does, however mundane it is, i find it so damn hot. like what the hell you're boiling water why am i so turned on? i'm teaching her guitar rn and she's so good already. she's incredibly smart and so witty. she sprayed her perfume on her handkerchief and gave it to me because we're long distance rn. i sniff ts like it's crack. i have a picture of her in my wallet but she doesn't know. i think i'm addicted to her lowk.

i genuinely can't see myself marrying anyone else but her.

edit: i just got an unsavoury dm from someone here saying they wished for us to break up. nazar mat lagao koi, aisa shraap daal dungi fir dekhna😇

Mine is sweater weather by The Neighbourhood🫠

Idk how to say this without feeling ashamed.

I got catfished by a guy two months ago. I shared my nudes, I know that was stupid move but I didn't know much, was new to all of this.

Now I haven't shared my face so I am not at risk but I feel so disgusted and ashamed.

Idk I am getting extremely suicidal thoughts and I have to do sh(not extreme )to stop myself.

Idk how to remove all that from my head, I just keep thinking what if the girl I will meet in future thinks the same, what if she also gets disgusted.

Today is my exam too and I am not even able to focus on my revision

can't sleep at all. just want to talk to someone till we both fall asleep.

it can be anything random, about life, hobbies, sex, movies, literally anything.

I need to know how y’all Flirt because some of y’all flirt like you have a PhD in making women giggle and kick their feet 😭I need your best:

pickup lines

smooth conversation starters

accidental rizz moments

ANYTHING that keeps the convo going and makes her blush every 2 minutes 👀

Drop your best ones pls, I’m here to take notes ✍️😭