r/tocatchacheater

so I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now and I knew he had a few pictures of him and his ex on his Google photos, I would see them Everytime he was showing me pictures of his work (he always takes pictures of what he's working on so I can see the progress) even though he tried to swipe past really fast, I could still see it. I never said anything because that's his business and as long as it's in the past then ok. Well recently he's been talking about our future together, he says he loves me and wants to grow old together. I love him and I can see us growing old together also, however, he expressed how uncomfortable it made him that I kept a picture of my ex, and it was in my favorites album. The picture was of my son, myself, and my ex with a stunning view behind us, a great picture, but I didn't even think twice about it, I edited the ex out of the pic. one day he's showing me his most recent work and he scrolls too far and there she is, they are kissing. he quickly closes the app and changes the subject, but I'm kinda irritated, I ask him why I had to edit a picture with me and my son when he still has pictures of them kissing? after going around in circles with one excuse after another he basically told me he will not erase pictures of her. yet he swears he doesn't love her anymore, that he's in love with me. right....

So this evening he came home from work exhausted, we ate dinner together then he went to bed while I cleaned up. I come into the room to check on him and he's passed out, sitting up in bed with his phone in his hand. I smile a little because it touches my heart, those little moments... I come over to tuck him in and I set his phone aside, not paying attention to what he was watching. after he settles and rolls over I go to put his phone on the charger, like I have so many times before, but I freeze when I see the screen...

it's a video, I think it's just porn at first, until I see her face. it's a video of them having sex. it's an old one, I checked the details, but that's as far as I went. when I backed out, he had a complete album... I couldn't look, I wish I hadn't... I feel sick, and a little lost. I don't know what to do... does anyone have any advice? I know we need to talk, planning on it, but I don't know how to handle this. please help!

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I have password for my gf’s snapchat but i dont know how to bypass the suspicious login attempt screen. Please help.

We do long distance and I feel that he has been distant lately can someone add him on snap for me to find out?

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Ive been with him for a year and 5 months since november 19 2024. And i have doubts and a gut feeling that he is still with his ex of 3 years and he's 2 timing us. We both know eachother but i think from each of our own perspective he painted her as an obssesed ex. And i have a gut feeling he told her the same thing about me..

Because the other day the "ex" called him on whatsapp but he said before that he blocked her number already so why can she call him again? I asked him this and he said he unblocked her becof something he forgot. Such a lame excuse. But i love him too much to not break up with him without actual undeniable proof. I have unblocked her number on my WhatsApp and everytime he's online she is online. But thailand uses the LINE app for their communication.

Alos last December he went to asia for vacation he told me he went to different countries but he was the whole month in thailand where his "ex" theyve been "dating" for 3 years since april lives in. I found out he was there the whole time because another girl i guess he was "involved" with mistaken me for the 3yr "gf" contacted me on instagram and told me they where together had sex and then she sent me pictures of them. I confronted him about it but he said it was also an "obssesed ex" he was also still invovled with the 3yr "gf" and i have talked with both of the girls. The 3 yrs "gf" didnt know anything like me before the confrontation so we were both devastated. The 3rd girl that contacted me said that he was involved with multiple girls in thailand.

I intitated breaking up with him when he got back but he said no to the breakup. I told him I'll give him a chance if he breaks all contact with everyone of them. And he said yes. So we went back to normal

But the other day the 3 yr "gf" called him on whatsapp, i unblocked her number om whatsapp and look if they are both online at thw same time now i am thinking he is still two timing us and he us a manipulative lying cheater.

Please help me with catching this cheater. I need undeniable proof. I really dont want to break up with him because of the benefits he gives me, but having proof will make me not love him anymore. Please dm me if you want to help! I really need to face reality

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