u/Consistent_Mode761

Ive been with him for a year and 5 months since november 19 2024. And i have doubts and a gut feeling that he is still with his ex of 3 years and he's 2 timing us. We both know eachother but i think from each of our own perspective he painted her as an obssesed ex. And i have a gut feeling he told her the same thing about me..

Because the other day the "ex" called him on whatsapp but he said before that he blocked her number already so why can she call him again? I asked him this and he said he unblocked her becof something he forgot. Such a lame excuse. But i love him too much to not break up with him without actual undeniable proof. I have unblocked her number on my WhatsApp and everytime he's online she is online. But thailand uses the LINE app for their communication.

Alos last December he went to asia for vacation he told me he went to different countries but he was the whole month in thailand where his "ex" theyve been "dating" for 3 years since april lives in. I found out he was there the whole time because another girl i guess he was "involved" with mistaken me for the 3yr "gf" contacted me on instagram and told me they where together had sex and then she sent me pictures of them. I confronted him about it but he said it was also an "obssesed ex" he was also still invovled with the 3yr "gf" and i have talked with both of the girls. The 3 yrs "gf" didnt know anything like me before the confrontation so we were both devastated. The 3rd girl that contacted me said that he was involved with multiple girls in thailand.

I intitated breaking up with him when he got back but he said no to the breakup. I told him I'll give him a chance if he breaks all contact with everyone of them. And he said yes. So we went back to normal

But the other day the 3 yr "gf" called him on whatsapp, i unblocked her number om whatsapp and look if they are both online at thw same time now i am thinking he is still two timing us and he us a manipulative lying cheater.

Please help me with catching this cheater. I need undeniable proof. I really dont want to break up with him because of the benefits he gives me, but having proof will make me not love him anymore. Please dm me if you want to help! I really need to face reality

Ive been with him for a year and 5 months since november 19 2024. And i have doubts and a gut feeling that he is still with his ex of 3 years and he's 2 timing us. We both know eachother but i think from each of our own perspective he painted her as an obssesed ex. And i have a gut feeling he told her the same thing about me..

Because the other day the "ex" called him on whatsapp but he said before that he blocked her number already so why can she call him again? I asked him this and he said he unblocked her becof something he forgot. Such a lame excuse. But i love him too much to not break up with him without actual undeniable proof. I have unblocked her number on my WhatsApp and everytime he's online she is online. But thailand uses the LINE app for their communication.

Alos last December he went to asia for vacation he told me he went to different countries but he was the whole month in thailand where his "ex" theyve been "dating" for 3 years since april lives in. I found out he was there the whole time because another girl i guess he was "involved" with mistaken me for the 3yr "gf" contacted me on instagram and told me they where together had sex and then she sent me pictures of them. I confronted him about it but he said it was also an "obssesed ex" he was also still invovled with the 3yr "gf" and i have talked with both of the girls. The 3 yrs "gf" didnt know anything like me before the confrontation so we were both devastated. The 3rd girl that contacted me said that he was involved with multiple girls in thailand.

I intitated breaking up with him when he got back but he said no to the breakup. I told him I'll give him a chance if he breaks all contact with everyone of them. And he said yes. So we went back to normal

But the other day the 3 yr "gf" called him on whatsapp, i unblocked her number om whatsapp and look if they are both online at thw same time now i am thinking he is still two timing us and he us a manipulative lying cheater.

Please help me with catching this cheater. I need undeniable proof. I really dont want to break up with him because of the benefits he gives me, but having proof will make me not love him anymore. Please dm me if you want to help! I really need to face reality