Getting kicked out of a club would suck, but have you seen the cops called? A solicitation/public sex charge would be awful to have.
Are you using a money clip, or a wallet, or newer ridge wallet type thing? Infield kind of outdated using my old leather bifold at the club, but I've never felt secure with other options
Would love to hit up a transgender strip club. I think New York City has one but I’m trying to avoid the big city. I’m in the New England region if anyone knows of one?
I recently visited one of the big strip clubs in Las Vegas with friends visiting town. We got a few dances and a bottle on the main floor, then I went to the back room with one girl for a couple hours: L. She was a super hot LA brunette, my age (mid 30s) and sweet personality. Definitely knew how to charm and hold an interesting conversation. Nothing extra, just an awesome and very long dance. Anyway after our time in the back ended, I indicated I was going to leave with my group. She asked me for my number, I gave it to her, and then left.
I had a great night but didn’t think much of it - lots of girls give out a number and then ask for you to come get dances from them at the club. L texted me a couple days ago and asked if I wanted to get dinner at a spot I mentioned during the dance.
I’ve read hundreds of threads about guys thinking the stripper is actually into them, and I’m too inexperienced to know what part of the game I’m seeing
Is this a tactic? How am I supposed to respond?
From most to least optimistic: my ideal situation is we click and L comes home with me at the end of a fun date. My brain says theres a ~0.00% chance of that. My realistic guess: she’s looking to do escort-style work and I’d be open to that. But I don’t want to pay strip club prices for lap dances at home. I also don’t want to spend $1k on a sales pitch dressed up as a date.
Does it count as doomscrolling if the only content that shows up on your feed consists of hot strippers?
How often has this happened to you?
Dancer approaches. You chat and buy time in a private room. The top comes off and boobs go in your face. All normal.
Then her friend throws the curtain to the room back and does a little pose. Blah blah blah baby you can have both of us for double the price. Spend a good couple minutes saying no thanks. The fantasy of it all gets destroyed in the meanwhile.
Who goes for this total bullshit? If you’re a customer and you accept this thanks for putting blood in the water for the sharks. If you’re a dancer and you pull this it is very likely to put me off from being a regular with you. Manipulation should be subtle with me and this ain’t it. I repeat with dancers who don’t try to change the terms of the sale we made on the floor. Pitch the doubles option to me ahead of time, which I don’t mind you doing, or don’t bother. I don’t want to spend our time turning down your friend. I’m here to relax not get reminded what a horny idiot mark you think I am.
Just a pet peeve and a rant. Has anyone had a positive experience with this if you’ve agreed to the hustle?
I randomly got the urge of wanted to go to a strip club but have many worries, questions and insecurities(?) about doing so.
Ill just start off with saying this: I don't look like the type. From either my own feelings or friends off-handedly saying so. Not because I'm ugly and would look like a creep if I were to go to one, but mostly because I'm a little socially awkward.
Which kinda brings me to my urge of wanting to go, to see if going would bring me out of my social shell or something like that. I don't know this idea is stupid.
But even if I did end up going I don't know how to go about going, what do do, what to expect, how to tip or anything like that. Not really expecting anything and don't have the money to tip/pay all that much so maybe I just shouldn't go.
I don't know, a lot of thoughts with no where to send them to.
Edit: would preferably like to go with less people but I doubt thats a easy possibility.
I went to my first strip club it was an amazing experience and I'm definitely coming back to it! Had my first private dance they are doing a cosplay event in May and It says I can cosplay I'll be doing Art The Clown from Terrifier full make-up and everything this will be my second time going!
I’m looking to have a good time at the strip clubs in Vegas but I want to know where the best deals are for dances and things like that thanks!
I really enjoy Tattletales when I travel to Atlanta but looking for something new. Can anyone describe Vivide? Is it mostly African American scene? Do they have Latina dancers?
Leaving May 15th to head to cali for a guys trip. We’re leaving out of Nashville TN. That’s were we are from and never been to cali. On the way we’re going through Little Rock,Amarillo,flagstaff,las Vegas then our last stop is San Diego. Looking for recommendations on strip clubs in each city or smaller towns on the way there. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. We’re looking for the clubs that are a little more hands on, full nude and like to show you what it looks like up close. Less sophisticated more rugged if you know what I mean, we used to have one like that here in TN. That we went to all the time but got shut down for selling alcohol to kids under 21.
Any body been here? I keep hearing about it but can't be sure get it. My impression is you can only get in if you reserve a table. Is that true?
I DJ in nightlife/strip clubs and there’s a moment most people don’t notice.
First transition of the night.
Not the first song the first transition.
If I switch tracks and:
nobody reacts
nobody looks up
energy stays flat
I already know I’m about to fight the room for the next hour.
But if even 3–5 people react?
Head nod, look at their friend, small movement…
That’s all I need. The party will “kick in” it just needs a push.
Crazy part is people think it’s about the crowd size or the venue.
It’s not. It’s about that first shared reaction.
I’ve seen packed rooms feel dead and half-empty rooms turn into chaos.
Curious if anyone else notices moments like that in their field.
(If y’all want, I can break down how I recover a dead floor in a few songs.)
Would love to hear from clients or workers regarding “extras” in Las Vegas clubs. Everything I’ve read …sounds like few and far between.
(I am not a man, I’m a lesbian btw)
It was my 25th birthday and I wanted to do something different and off the wall for me lol. I’m a very introverted and reclusive person, with not much social experience.. soo this was VERY different for me lol.
I honestly had a great time! It was exciting. The women were so beautiful, and nice honestly. I was very shy, but they were great at talking to me and making conversation.
Literally the moment you walk in they start coming up to you. My nervous system wasn’t prepared for within a few seconds of me walking in a beautiful topless woman approaching me lol. I went around 9pm and it was Thursday, so there was just more opportunity to get one on one attention.
I loved to see the performances! It was super hot but I genuinely was entertained by the skill of it all too! Pole dancing is really cool to watch.
I asked the bartender can I just hand them the money when I tip them and she said yeah of course lol. It took me so long to work up the courage to walk up to tip them. And when I finally did they told me to put the money in their thong myself, that was really cool lol. I love after you tip them and they start smiling at you, and making eye contact, and they start doing moves near you.
And since I tipped well after they came off stage the women I tipped came over just to say thanks and gave me hug. That’s was so nice to me.
I ended up getting 2 lap dances. The first was good, but it pales in comparison to the second one I got. The second lady was the sweetest of the night and we really vibed. The first one was like really aggressively flirting and all over me. She was so hot, I couldn’t say no to her lol. But it was blatant she was just trying to make money off me 😆 and her dance was just okay and kind of short too.
BUT the second one she was genuinely sweet, had great energy and conversation
The dance she gave me was amazing! And she did not hold back with me. I’m not sure how explicit you can be here, but she was topless and she told me to grab her tits and everything lol. She literally grabbed my hands and put them on her tits, it was awesome! I want to come back just to see her. I wish I had just got both dances from her.
I didn’t get it before but I see why people spend so much money at strip clubs XD. They are good at making you want to spend money on them.
And one thing to note is that… I was expecting a strip club to feel gross and like dirty. But idk it had just a more wholesome vibe than I expected lol. The women just was so kind to me, and all except for one (who was kind of aggressively flirting lol) just made like normal conversation with me. Not leading with being really dirty you know.
I want to go back in the future for sure!
I’m in a major city with quite a few options but not necessarily a major club city. I have some experience with clubs but by no means an expert and decided to dabble with VIP on my last trip to a new club.
There was one girl who kept approaching me and by the fourth visit I decided to bite the bullet and have a 30 minute VIP session with her. She told me the price, said it would be fully nude and that we would have fun. We head to the back and I pay her the room fee upfront as we get to the private area.
Almost immediately after she starts suggesting I pay her a tip which is “usually equal to the room fee”. I somewhat laugh this off and suggest I’ll tip her after the session (having no intention to match the room fee). She’s pretty pushy, not doing much and still has all her clothes on so eventually I suggest I’ll give her $50 now and the rest once we’re done. She takes it and gets a bit more friendly removing her top with some light touching. She keeps suggesting I tip her more and it’s getting pretty annoying. I’m not that much of an extras guy and don’t think this was even an extras club but I’m asking what I would get thinking maybe I could at least get an L1 finish. She’s giving all these vague answers and eventually I pull out another $50 and give to her to get fully nude. She takes it but then only briefly slides her panties to the side. She continues to push for more tips but at this point I’m kind of viewing the session as a sunk cost and just trying to make the most of it with what she’s offering while ignoring her calls for more tips.
For those more experienced than me - are most girls just as pushy for tips during the session? Is there a better negotiation approach to avoid getting burned like this?
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I've enjoyed The Block in Baltimore as a customer for 20+ years. But it isn't as good as it once was. Any suggested local alternatives?
It would ideally have a lot of the same opportunities as the block -- time to chat with different women, similar VIP options, etc. I prefer pretty, white women -- which is becoming more and more rare on The Block.
Maybe Haven Place? Other places like Penthouse or Ritz seem too tame but I haven't spent much time there.
I’m going to the strip club for the first time with my husband and I’m STRESSED 😅 but not for the reasons you may think.. Both of us are super respectful, he’s extremely reserved. What are the dos and donts to respect the women’s time and body while not being too conservative? What is considered a “good tip”?? Do you approach or let them? Is it okay just to watch them on stage if you’re not getting a lap dance? Do you wait for them to tell you you can touch them if they are on stage or giving lap dance? If you can what type of touch is creepy or too far? I want to have fun and can get pretty out there myself but I would be mortified if I accidentally made a woman feel uncomfortable in her body or disrespected. I have been to one strip club, with random people I met at a sports bar. I had money to spend but didn’t want to give too much or too little, wanted to touch and interact and some women were all for it but even then—I wasn’t clear on WHERE I could touch and how far is too far. I was reading some women who strip say that couples weird them out because they have fetishes (like the woman watching the man get a lap dance or touch or be touched) but I always thought that was okay if the dancer says it is? Someone help me please! 😅