Question for strippers
I’m going to the strip club for the first time with my husband and I’m STRESSED 😅 but not for the reasons you may think.. Both of us are super respectful, he’s extremely reserved. What are the dos and donts to respect the women’s time and body while not being too conservative? What is considered a “good tip”?? Do you approach or let them? Is it okay just to watch them on stage if you’re not getting a lap dance? Do you wait for them to tell you you can touch them if they are on stage or giving lap dance? If you can what type of touch is creepy or too far? I want to have fun and can get pretty out there myself but I would be mortified if I accidentally made a woman feel uncomfortable in her body or disrespected. I have been to one strip club, with random people I met at a sports bar. I had money to spend but didn’t want to give too much or too little, wanted to touch and interact and some women were all for it but even then—I wasn’t clear on WHERE I could touch and how far is too far. I was reading some women who strip say that couples weird them out because they have fetishes (like the woman watching the man get a lap dance or touch or be touched) but I always thought that was okay if the dancer says it is? Someone help me please! 😅