Stripper wants to meet outside the club. What to expect?
I recently visited one of the big strip clubs in Las Vegas with friends visiting town. We got a few dances and a bottle on the main floor, then I went to the back room with one girl for a couple hours: L. She was a super hot LA brunette, my age (mid 30s) and sweet personality. Definitely knew how to charm and hold an interesting conversation. Nothing extra, just an awesome and very long dance. Anyway after our time in the back ended, I indicated I was going to leave with my group. She asked me for my number, I gave it to her, and then left.
I had a great night but didn’t think much of it - lots of girls give out a number and then ask for you to come get dances from them at the club. L texted me a couple days ago and asked if I wanted to get dinner at a spot I mentioned during the dance.
I’ve read hundreds of threads about guys thinking the stripper is actually into them, and I’m too inexperienced to know what part of the game I’m seeing
Is this a tactic? How am I supposed to respond?
From most to least optimistic: my ideal situation is we click and L comes home with me at the end of a fun date. My brain says theres a ~0.00% chance of that. My realistic guess: she’s looking to do escort-style work and I’d be open to that. But I don’t want to pay strip club prices for lap dances at home. I also don’t want to spend $1k on a sales pitch dressed up as a date.