r/sexualhealth

I completely lost my sexual attraction towards men after heartbreaks. It's been a long time and I don't know if it will ever come back

Hi!

Sort of embarrassing but really curious.

I was in a car accident about a month ago. Rear-ended. Wasn’t super bad but I’ve been having headaches since. Finally I got transferred to this concussion specialist who did some tests on Thursday and said it’s likely I have a mild concussion. The only symptoms I’ve had so far are headaches (and the usual whiplash, which I’m treating with physio and massage therapy).

Last night I went to bed no problem. This morning I woke up and felt fine so my partner and I started fooling around. I had a massive orgasm but an awful headache right after. Just felt all my neck muscles tightening and a lot of pressure on my head. I was able to get up and walk without a problem, balance not a problem, no dizziness or anything. Just the headache. I went to the fridge and got out an ice pack. Shortly after very mild nausea started. Extremely mild but still the first time I’ve had any nausea. I’m able to drink and eat without a problem, walking is fine, no dizziness or double vision or anything. I called a friend who is a doctor and told her if I should go to the hospital and she said no, it’s likely the concussion and whiplash and gave me some things to watch out for.

My question is…is it normal to get that headache after an orgasm? I’ve been googling orgasm and concussion but nothing directly comes up. I didn’t tell my doctor friend because it’s a bit TMI. Just wondering if it’s only related to that or if it’s something else that I should keep a closer eye on.

Este relato inicia cuando empecé a ser novio de mi actual concubina (vive conmigo jaja) y al mes le caché una app para conocer gente, me dijo que era para "jugar juegos" y PS que pinches tipos de juegos jaja, desde ese momento quise terminar la relación pero la muchacha empacando sus cosas me dijo que no tenia a dónde ir (vali v y sentí lastima) la dejé quedar con la promesa de 'hacerle el favor' en lo que ella juntaba dinero para hacer lo suyo y poder independizarse, llevo 2 años entre que quiere volver a ser pareja y esto pero la relación no me gusta nada desde el momento que inició, de parte de ella no me gusta como pareja, no se si estoy mal o que me puedan aconsejar 23M y 22F

Tampoco me siento cómodo iniciando alguna relación con otra mujer(un amigo dice que porque sé que no estoy solo)