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[31/F] looking for friends who love talking

I’d really love to become friends with someone who enjoys a good conversation.

About me:

I love long walks, especially in misty, foggy weather where everything feels a little slower and quieter. Most days, you’ll find me out with my dog stopping by cafés, wandering around lakes, or heading out for small hikes. I’m also really into science, history, museums, sports, and reading, so my interests are kind of all over the place in the best way.

When I’m not doing any of these, I work as a team manager crushing Microsoft excel lol

I also love watching horror movies and cozy tv shows. I’m someone who can talk about anything and everything deep ideas, random thoughts, everyday moments, or even comfortable silence in between. If you enjoy curiosity, easy conversations, and a mix of everything, I’d love to hear from you :)

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u/Same-Computer8225 — 7 hours ago

[40/F] share your thoughts

I've never had a real penpal, except briefly in the 5th grade when they sort of forced us to. I ended up matched with some random boy and the convo ended after 2 letters. My point is, I think it'd be nice to try and find a real penpal. Someone to send "letters" to. I'm only open to Reddit messaging right now, as it seems like the safest option. I enjoy intelligent people who are open minded but maybe see the world a little differently. I think part of the fun is getting to know someone. Anyway, let's spin the wheel and maybe find a new friend?

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u/No_Introduction5629 — 9 hours ago
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[29/F] - slow speed correspondance wanted

I’m looking for a penpal - Snail mail, email are both welcome, but the vibe is slow and thoughtful responses. No texts, no DM convos after verifying.

I’m not out here with cute stickers and matching stationary, I just love writing and want to make some connections.

I love books- fiction, fantasy, romcom, horror, thrillers, classics

I love dogs!

I love the hot gossip - tell me what Brenda did at work yesterday and how it’s a sin that she clipped her fingernails at her desk.

I love music - I think it’d be really cool to make someone a random mixed tape.

Both men and women welcome, we can talk details after a little verification.

KEEP IT CLEAN - this is a sfw activity only

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u/EMsReprisal — 17 hours ago

[26/M] Looking for science penpal

I’m a PhD student (3rd year) working on birds’ social behaviour. I’m really interested in animal behaviour, ecology and evolution more generally. I really enjoy what I do, which is also kind of my hobby. In my free time, I do birdwatching, read (mostly non-fiction, I’m really into virus transmission and real science stories, Quammen and Preston are among my favourites). I also cook, garden and ride my bike.
I’d love to write about science, discoveries, interesting papers/books. My ideal penpal would be someone interested in science, maybe a fellow PhD student, with whom to share our observations, ideas and dreams. I’m also happy to just chat about our own lives!
I'm keen to start chatting here, ideally moving to snail mail once we get to know each other better. I'm based in Australia at the moment, and I'm keen for both national and international penpals.

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u/Kind-Pea7987 — 8 hours ago

[24/F] Looking for someone to share thoughts and joys

Hey! :) I've already posted here a while ago and were looking for some people to connect through snailmail. While I am grateful for that, I noticed that my longing for connection is hard to fulfill, since letters take a long time to arrive (I'm currently living in Australia) and maybe it's not quite what I was looking for. I've wanted to go abroad from Europe since I was a teenager, but actually going far away from my home Country didn't feel like I expected it to. It's been nearly a year now and I'm very eager to go home soon. I feel like, apart from a much awaited Japan trip, I couldn't really grow and develop as a person and make friends like I would have liked to. I am a creative person, love psychology and am interested in Feminism and staying active, facing your fears. I like animation/movies a lot and board- and cardgames. Love animals of all kinds and would say I'm quite the Hufflepuff. My favorite Series would probably be Avatar the Last Airbender. I like the Spiderverse. I am looking for someone genuine, honest and friendly to form a connection. Someone to actually share feelings and thoughts with. I often feel like when people interact with eachother they only talk about themselves and seek company for that, like throwing sentences about themselves to eachothers head, instead of actually having a conversation and seeing and being interested in eachother. I hope it makes sense how I described it, English isn't my mother tongue. I do enjoy phonecalling/voice messages a lot more than chatting, but obviously to get a sense for eachother it would be sweet to chat through reddit first. Maybe you can relate, maybe you view things very differently. Would love to get to know you, what you are passionate/dreaming about or what sparks joy in your life. Just let me know if you would be keen to talk!:)

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u/AdRepresentative9818 — 5 hours ago

[28/F] Georgia, USA: Seeking new long lasting friendships

(high preference for women)

Trying this again and hoping to connect with genuine people and build new friendships.

Hey everyone. I’m currently based in Georgia within the U.S .I’m in a phase of my life where I’m trying to reset, grow, and figure out my direction and I’d really like to do that with a better support system and meaningful friendships around me.

I’ve always found it a bit challenging to make and maintain friendships and being on the autism spectrum has definitely played a part in that. Still, I’m someone who genuinely values connection, honesty, and shared experiences.

A bit about me I love music and singing and I’ve always had a strong interest in voice acting, still a dream I haven’t given up on even if it’s a tough field to break into. I enjoy video games, watching shows and movies, cooking vegan meals, and spending time outdoors when I can. I’m also someone who likes learning new things and stepping outside my comfort zone especially when I have good people around me.

One of my current goals is to go back to school for either nursing or radiology. I’m still deciding between the two but I know I want a career path where I can help people and build something stable for my future.

Overall, I’m looking for friendships that are supportive, real, and encouraging, people who are open to talking, hanging out, and maybe exploring new things together.

If anything I said resonates with you feel free to reach out.

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u/Forsaken_Witness8303 — 17 hours ago
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[35/M] Writing letters has become fun! I would love one more international penpal and a couple more US-based

u/BurrDurrMurrDurr — 1 day ago

[28/M] Scotland - looking to meet new people

Hi! I’m 28 and from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 and I’m looking to meet new people and hopefully make some new friends!

I’m a HUGE horror fan, and I love all things dark/creepy/paranormal or unexplained

I love music and going to shows(mostly older rock/metal but I like a lot different stuff)

I like gaming, true crime, football, I love to visit historical sites/museums and travelling, urban exploring/exploring the outdoors, and I spend 99% of my free time with my dog 🐶

I’m quite heavily tattooed (recently had my chest done) and I’m always looking for ideas and inspirations for what to get next and I love to see other people’s work and ideas too!

Happy to talk to anyone from anywhere, just send a message with a bit about yourself if you think we might get along 🙂(please tell me a bit about yourself rather than just “hey”)

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u/LTJ1690 — 16 hours ago
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[26/F] I want to fall back in love with the world! Let’s be email buddies and maybe snail mail someday too!!

u/periodt-bitch — 3 days ago