
r/luxurycandles

Favorite Oud candles?
I'm a lover of musk, frankencise, palo santo, amber, patchouli, tobacco. I don't like flowery scents very much.
My favorite candle of all time is Trudon Ernesto with Gabriel a close 2nd :)
My go to candles:
Dark Rum Mallin Goetz
Speakeasy Harlem
Bijoux's Charmed set
Catbird Ghost Rose is the only one different among most of these :)
Pascha Soap co Frankincenese Myrrh and Palo Santo
While I love these scents, I dislike quality of tunneling so have given up:
Le Labo Encens
Diptyque Amber
I esp. dislike:
Nest - not complex enough
Lafco - always a headache,
Salt and stone - not strong enough throw
Most of the popular ones that are always mentioned don't have enough throw for me.
I've tried a couple others like Strange Gent, Jackson Vaughn but honestly, it's not better than the ones above so I more or less stick with those. I still need to get to Evermore London, Saint and Joya.
I'm searching for an Oud candle. Any suggestions please?? Thanks!!!
My Ssense Experience (I live in the US)
No extra duty/tax/tariff on arrival!!
A kind soul in the sub posted a Ssense sale here not too long ago, and I placed my second order with them.
Ssense is a Canadian retailer. My first order with them was pre-tariff. Great experience.
My second order was also a great experience, even with tariffs. The website clearly tells you the duty/tax/tariffs associated with your order at checkout. And they ship DDP (they front any taxes associated). My order arrived 2 business days after I placed my order, via FedEx.
No extra $$ required from me. I think I got a great deal, especially with currency conversion. Everything was $10 less than US price.
All arrived damage free. I will definitely purchase from Ssense again!
Ernesto Dupe Recommendations
Does anyone have any recs on the closest possible scent dupe to Trudon Ernesto? Probably my favorite candle scent out of the hundreds I've tried. Would love to buy the giant candle, but a bit out of my price range at the moment.
Diptyque candles with the softest throw?
Hi friends, which Diptyque candles have the softest throws?
I love Diptyque Fleur Di Cerisier, but HATED vanille (I’m sorry😭) I don’t know if I just got a bad candle but it smelled like the hot dog vitamin c serums.
Figuier is nice but a little too green for me.
Any recommendations you can suggest?
Coffee shop candles but not too much vanilla
Despite loving a good Victoria sponge cake, and ice cream, my husband hates any whiff of vanilla in candles. I’m not a fan of strongly gourmand vanilla perfumes tbh either.
However, I’d really like a nice boutique coffee shop fragranced candle, if such a thing exists, minus vanilla. I want to smell a good double shot espresso with dark chocolate, or brown sugar, maybe cinnamon… Can anyone advise please? I want to smell luxury coffee shop without leaving the house, or baking, or drinking caffeinating after 3pm! X
Nette Spring Sample Sale
I was looking up sales for Flamingo Estate and stumbled onto this.
Code: Take10 works
Spring scents at a reasonable cost.
Hi Candle Family - I thought I would share my spring haul of very "new to me" candles that I have been exploring in the low to mid-range price point. I retired in March 2025, so my candle budget is not what it used to be which prompted me to try some new brands outside of Diptyque, Trudon, FE, Harlem and the like. Of course, I am still a loyal fan of the higher-end candles and will continue to buy on occasion, but I can't hoard like I used to. In fact, I just today received my Trudon Figuire and though I love it, I am just as happy with other fig candles that I have purchased at a lower price point (sorry Trudon – but I love the color of the vessel). I always think it's fun to read reviews of different candle houses than the standard ones we usually see. Hope you enjoy. Read the reviews in the comments.
Diptyque Hiver
I decided to get organized and catalogue my candles and I left this 2014 baby sitting on my desk for over an hour. Came back home and the cold throw had taken over the room and even drifted up into the staircase. Those old Diptyques don't play around!
As I couldn't find any reviews, Hiver smells literally like winter. Cold air and snow, iris and musk, candied chestnuts, wood smoke, cashmere. It's a sophisticated smokey musk rather than a gourmand. And such a pretty vessel.
How long do your room (and linen) sprays linger?
I know this is a candle sub, but I've seen some posts about room sprays so I thought I'd ask.
There are some really nice aesop room sprays, as well as some room and linen sprays I've seen from other smaller brands near me. But I'm wondering how long they actually last?
I managed to find one reviewer say the aesop room spray only lingered about 30 minutes?
I guess buying a room and linen spray, and spraying it on fabrics will make it linger longer?
Lilac Candle recommendations?
In a candle rut and fell in love with the smell of lilacs after buying some at the Union square farmers market. Are there any lilac scented candles you’d recommend?
Diptyque Birthday Gift
Does anyone have more information on the birthday gift from diptyque? I’ve seen a chart that’s based on spending but not sure if that’s current? Thanks!
Recs for a newbie
Hello all!!!! I am in PA, close to Philly/NY/main line/bucks county, so I do have some flexibility and don’t mind driving a distance if needed. Where can I go buy my first luxury candle and do you have any specific brands you’d get yourself if you were just starting out? I was thinking Diptyque. How do you typically buy your candles? Do you shop in person or do you order online? Also scent ideas 😁 I really liked hearing about the new leather smell one, but idk if I should make that my first purchase. Please hook me in and give me any and all tips even prep tips of what to do before getting my hands on one 🙏🏻😭 this might sound silly, but I am genuinely so excited. I was thinking of even getting dressed up as if I was going on a date and just have a time and treat myself to some more activities and have an amazing day all planned around my first luxury candle purchase 🤭 I have been thinking of getting one for a while, and I think I am ready 💳
Is this normal?
Got this Seoul candle from diptyque during this year’s sale. I’m guessing it’s not supposed to make a crater after first burn and melt.
Do you have a preference what candles to burn to match the weather outside?
I’ve been trying to organize my current stash in terms of what weather is like in a given day. Today I’ve decided to burn a Kobo Sacred Leaning Lily (lily, lavender, rose, clove, and cedar) because the weather is grey and gloomy but not rainy. However, burning it didn’t match the weather condition for me. I’m getting cedar and clove mainly, a tiny bit of rose and no lavender. I should have gone with Jo Malone Pomegranate Noir instead I think. Do you think it’ll be a better fit?
If it were a rainy day I’d have burnt a FieldDay Apothecary Rain candle in a heartbeat. If it were a sunny day, then I’d have chose Kobo Opal Basil, Trudon Salta (hate burning), Dada or Tuileries, DS and Durga Holy Ficus, Linnea Sea Salt or Aquisse Luxe Linen (unsure what it’s supposed to smell like, I’m smelling something sweet). If it were a dark gloomy evening, Trudon Althair or Bayonne, the Maker Rose Room, Boy Smells Vanilla Era, Hinoki Fantome, Woodphoria, or Cedar Stack. If it were a kinda grey afternoon, I’d burn Boy Smells Red Hot, Hi:Fire, DS and Durga Concrete After Lighting, Trudon Cire, Byredo Bibliotheque and Malin and Goetz Leather under a candle warmer only.
In the morning, I hate burn the Maker Cafe and Boy Smells Roasted. Both are not my faves. Cafe smells like a dense dough or pastry shop (so strong that I burn it outside) and Roasted smells like a sweet leather, woods, and a bit coffee combo. I’m thinking of trying a Fvith Velvet Moon or Cantrip Coffee candles. I need to burn an Overose Chocolate Croissant first though. Anyone tried those two in the meantime?
What kinds of candles or scents do you gravitate towards depending on weather?
Expensive, sure. But the classic European Louvre-church-French royalty aesthetic really does it for me, especially after moving away from Diptyque after the latest price rise and brand refresh (i.e. reformulation) nonsense. Trudon boutiques are also beautiful and quiet in person, and I'm sensitive to that sort of thing since the markup for all of these candles for me is justified by the buying experience. Bought the fancy gold candle stands and everything.
I don’t know who else in my life would appreciate it as much as this group so sharing here :)
Work has been beyond stressful recently and this week is already shaping up to be stacked - but delivery gods smiled on me and blessed me with a double delivery of Loewe’s Pistachio (I decided to go for a double wick), FE Golden Pollinator duo and the free Green Goddess (and it’s a bottle of their truffle olive oil hiding in the box - totally indulgent and unnecessary but I can’t wait to drizzle it on all the things).
I’m excited to relax and spent time with Pistachio; which on cold smells absolutely delightful and exactly what I was envisioning / hoping it would be. Crossing fingers that the double wick will help with the throw.
Bought the tomato spray and 2x candles - go buy it now before it sells out! Bought my dark rum recently from them and it’s a fan in this household!
Trudon Terre à Terre
I recently found this Trudon candle on clearance at a local store and I have to say it’s absolutely stunning! Did not pick up when it was released because I had so many candles to go through then.
Perfect Spring choice.
Deep and earthy with a bright and slightly metallic freshness combined with a woodsy, slightly smoky spiciness. A true masterpiece. Complex and atmospheric.
Definitely one of be my favorite Trudon to date and I have owned most of the line over the last 10 years or so.
If you enjoy Carmelite, chances are you would love this one.