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Has anyone else had Loki lead them to question and completely deconstruct their sexuality, sexual identity and relationships.

I used to be (or so I thought I was.) VERY straight and attracted to men my whole life and now Im questioning if I even like men or have only had sex with men due to societal pressure and expectation I should and feeling pressured by male partners to give them loads of sex to meet their needs and keep them happy. When I divorce sex with men from feeling it's what I 'should do' and I owe men/male partners my body and sex to keep them happy and it's what society expects of me. I realize I dont actually want to have sex with or relationships with men at all and thinking of doing so gives me the major ick now.

I also feel a strong desire to try dating a woman.

Right now I feel like I may actually be on the Asexual spectrum but have been performing sexuality my whole life to make others happy/do what's expected of me.

Ive also realized traditional gender roles and monogamy are not for me. And have only harmed me and stopped me from being my true self.

I'd really like a non sex centered queen relationship with a woman.

Has Loki ever made you completely question and deconstruct your sexuality?

I know a lot people had dream encounters with Loki. Might sound bit weird, I’m curious to ask- which side (left/right) do find yourself sleeping when you happen to have dreams encounters?
Also can he appear disguised as someone you know of?

I got a Nintendo switch recently for my birthday but I got the Tomodachi game and every once in a while I think "Loki might like a mii of him" but I've been putting it off lately still getting used to the game until today

And then randomly in my mind I heard a very loud "LOKI!!" as if someone (yk who) was screaming which startled me so I gave in and finally made a mii of him

Fast forward a bit I'm tending to my other mii's but then Loki's mii shows a notification so I click it and he (mii) asks for a photo with the photo booth and asks "hmm... I wish I had a picture of me... Wouldn't that be so cool? Since I'm your favorite resident?🤭🤭😏😏"

And I swear even though it's just game lines I just felt like what the mii said felt as if Loki was controlling it 😂

So I've recently opened up to doing Shadow Work with Loki. Don't get me wrong he's always been around. I've always felt his presence since I was a teen, and started looking into Norse Mythology and Ásatrú because I felt the pull. In my teen years, I experienced seeing things I couldn't explain and felt somewhat like an empath. Not really having a true grasp of what was going on, I got scared during one of these experiences and shut everything down and out. It was not Loki, but I do believe he decided to take a step back and just watch over me until I was ready to hear him.

Fast-forward to February 27th of this year with the huge astrological changes going on, and I felt him again like he was letting me know the time had come, and things could no longer be put on a back burner. Slowly, I've started opening up to him more and more because it feels so natural like we've known each other my whole life and even before. I set my altar up, and made a small offering. Ever since I've heard the Silent Scream from him. I'm not sure why or even if this is truly what I'm being told, but I think he wants me to speak with the Fae... I feel crazy over this... But also no fear. I almost feel too at peace for what I think is being asked of me. I don't even know what advice I'm asking for... Maybe just reassurance? Thanks for reading!

That’s it. He pestered me for Pepsi. Combo of using his candle to get my attention and then giving me internal nudges and I did some divination and I think at some point he screamed “PEPSI!” In my head so he got his Pepsi. 🤣🤣🤣

Like sheesh! Diva! Can we also take him to talk about what a fucking diva icon he is. As annoying as some of his shenanigans can be I really highly respect it because that is fucking ✨QUEEN ENERGY✨right there! A person who knows what she wants and gets it (sometimes in the most annoying waste possible, but I respect the vibes)! Also even when she’s being annoying it weirdly makes me like her more…idk. I find it cute and endearing. Maybe I’m a little nuts. 🤣

What have your Loki diva moments been?

Every morning when I have coffee I share it with Loki. I know he likes coffee so I share when I have it. And when I don't have it I give him Pepsi or Fireball whiskey. I think it makes him happy.

Does anyone else have any ideas of small things I could to just because to make him happy? It doesn't have to be drinks but I'm looking for more ideas. He is genuinely so sweet. :-)

Has Loki shown himself in the physical realm to anyone else? As in knocking on the walls or something more? a few weeks ago I had an occurrence that I heard knocking on my walls and at first it was kind of scary then It got louder and after that they were more silent and subtle and I wasn’t as scared but I would see a shadow at the foot of my bed.
My friend who is a witch one night tried to check on me in my room (I’m at a residential school that is fairly haunted and she was worried) and she said she couldn’t astral projection into my room.
I’ve been getting more physical signs Loki is here more often and I’m not used to hearing actual knocks or visibly seeing stuff around me when I am worshipping a god so it was very different. the energy doesn’t feel bad but it doesn’t feel good either I can only explain as it just is.
I just asked the tarot cards I assigned to Loki if he was the one that was knocking on my walls those few weeks before and the tower card (Loki signifier) popped out really fast. I just wanted to ask if any one else had anything like this happen

heads up, it's 12:30 in the morning so my writing format may be really crappy due to me being tired)

Mostly the title above, but I'm just wondering if there's anyone here who may know how Loki might respond for if I want to work with another deity alongside him?

Would it be too soon? I've been a Loki devotee for about almost 3 months now but Im not sure if I'm mentally ready to "start over" on the time it would take of researching, remembering what signs could be, finding content creators who work with another deity (for unguided help), etc etc and thinking about it does overwhelm me a bit

(I know it's supposed to take time to research which I understand)

But here's the main question for those who work with multiple deities: how did Loki act when you 'introduced' another deity?

I know I'll have to ask him what HE'D think, but I've been taking a bit of a mental health break from divination so I don't want to pop up out of nowhere and possibly be like "hey I wanna work with this other deity is that alr with you" in case he gets 'jealous' in a way

I guess I might just be scared of accidentally replacing him/giving him less attention but at the same time I do want to work with another energy?? I don't know what exactly but all I can picture is Lord Apollo since I technically got "three" signs today (constant music stuck in my head all day, bursts of creativity, and the sun kept blinding me today) if that counts

Please help T-T

Again this is just an idea but I just pretty much want to know 1. How did Loki act when other people introduced another deity and 2. Would it be too soon/should I keep working with Loki a bit more?

I've been pondering this for awhile now, I like to listen to music when I meditate because I have ADHD and it helps me clear my mind. I would like to listen to music that would honor the spirit of Loki while I burn a candle for him and meditate. I was kinda thinking he would like punk rock because he tends to be rebellious and mischievous, but he also kinda reminds me of Deadpool in his mannerisms so old cheesy pop songs like Take on me, and Dancing Queen, that sort of thing could also fit I think.

Edit: lots of amazing responses, makes sense that he would have chaotic tastes in music. Thank you so much for the responses everyone!

Hail Loki!