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So i met this girl during one of my course’s programs for one month. Initially i was reluctant to make any friends but she initiated conversations and we ended up being very good friends. I know you can guess it from here that i started catching feelings. She is smart, kind, full of life. I was bound to fall. Also, she used to be clingy..arms interlocked with mine whenever we walk, discovering my palm when we sat together, all of those things. On one of the days of this program, she said that she loves me. I knew this iloveyou was as a friend. I smiled to it and she looked at me expecting a reply. I told her..if i say i love you, it won’t be as a friend but a lover. All in all, here’s when i told her i liked her. She said nothing to it. When asked if she wanted the same..she said yes for a second and changed it to no. I eventually apologised to her for bringing it to the beautiful bond we used to share. But things are not the way they were. Today, i met her after a month or so for an exam. I had decided to keep it normal and not talk to her much. But we ended up in an eatery together after exam. I asked her if i was allowed to ask if she’s seeing someone..she asked me to not talk about all of this. I also wrote a poem for her, which she didn’t acknowledge. She just wants to be friends with me. But i am filled inside with all the love for her. The fact that she doesn’t even want to talk about it annoys me a little. Idk when we’ll meet again or if i ever wanna talk to her but i love her.

This anonymous platform is all i have to put things off my chest. Any opinions on this matter..pls shoot…you’d end up helping a fellow human :)

24F here. I’m a gym girl, working full-time, disciplined, ambitious, and love taking care of myself. I spend a lot of time working on my body, mindset, and surviving on coffee and bad decisions. At this point, I don’t even want a sugar daddy… I want a SUGAR MOMMY

Now I’m looking for an independent woman—someone confident, emotionally mature, has her own life together, and doesn’t need constant validation. Bonus points if she’s smart, driven, and can match my energy. I need an emotionally stable woman to tell me I’m doing great, book spa appointments for us, and randomly say, “Pack your bags, we’re going out”

I can offer loyalty, compliments, memes, and being cute in public. Where do people even find these women? Asking for myself.

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I know not her face,

nor her voice nor her lips and eyes.

I can only dare to imagine—

the sweet honey of her voice,

the playful gentleness of her eyes,

and the shy pinks of her lips,

her cheeks stained with red.

Every night she arrives,

her slender fingers entwining with mine

as she pulls me away.

She takes me away,

to a land where similars exist—

all so deep in love

with each other,

all hands taken and tightly held.

A world that is ours,

a world where we love and live,

a world of fulfilled desires.

And we would dance,

hand in hand.

I would falter and fall,

pulling her on top of me,

inhaling the sweet scent of her skin

while she laughed.

In the corner we lived,

skin brushing as she spoke words

my brain remembers not,

but my heart— oh that poor thing,

it leaps and jumps in joy at them.

Time was a cruel dictator,

separating us with a sharp whip.

Streams of sun blinding me

as I lay awake,

aching and hollow

hoping for love.

Hands chained, soul caged:

the cowardice of humanity, an unrelenting captor.

Faint flecks of the world become

a companion to my isolation,

a balm to the yearning heart.

And when the head hits the pillow,

I can only pray to be there again—

In the world where I am finally me

and my love is fulfilled.

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Hi. I’m (25F) from Kolkata, India. Posting here because meeting women in real life feels oddly difficult, and I’d rather be direct than keep circling around half-connections.

I’m someone who values emotional depth, consistency, and genuine curiosity about another person. I like long conversations that drift between films, politics, life, random observations, and the strange things that stay with us. I studied journalism, so I naturally pay attention to people, stories, and what sits underneath what’s being said.

I’m drawn to people who think deeply, feel deeply, and can communicate honestly. I appreciate warmth, humour, emotional intelligence, and someone who can be present without playing games.

A little about me: Physical appearance wise I am 5’4, chapstick lesbian. I have had a top surgery recently. I love psychological thrillers, character-driven stories, wandering through the city, cafés, bookshops, and conversations that somehow make time disappear. I can be intense, but I’m also playful once I feel comfortable.

I don’t really have an aesthetic preference while dating, I love people in all shapes and forms. What I’m looking for is a real connection. Ideally something that can grow into a stable relationship if we genuinely click. I’m open to long distance, so location isn’t a dealbreaker. Time zones can be worked out if the effort is mutual.

What usually doesn’t work for me: emotional unavailability, hot-and-cold energy, disappearing acts, or people who only want attention without intention.

If you’re emotionally self-aware, kind, curious, and actually interested in getting to know someone, I’d like to hear from you.