r/horary

Me and my ex had a big blow out. One that I think may end our relationship for the foreseeable future.

My birthday is coming up next month, and I’m wanting to know if he will contact me and send me a birthday message between a specific period.

I get a sense that it is NO.

There are a few elements of this chart that are interesting.

1: Saturn in seventh house
2: Moon (my co ruler and the situation) in 7th and in bad shape in Aries
3. Separating aspect between Venus and mars and him being in a sign I don’t receive well
4. Moon coming up to conjunction with Mars

Is the chart unreadable due to Saturn?
I’m moving away from him because I’m in front of him as Venus in Gemini and he isn’t really out to do me any favours given he is in Aries, but what do you make of the moon coming up to conjunct Mars?

I always get tripped by the moon!

Any additional support interpreting welcome.

Hello everybody and thank you for your attention

Context:

I just made an interview and need the job. Lately I have been unemployed and I can't really take it for long. The job pays very well as well. I really wanna get the position and it's a great opportunity for me

Interpretation:

I (the querent) am mercury, Virgo ascendant. Mercury is sitting in the 9th house in taurus. I am confident and focused on future.

The job instead is represented by the moon. It is in the 10th house in cancer.

The moon is applying a sextile to mercury.

I finally see an opportunity coming my way.

Jupiter is in the 10th house.

So I this is I yes coming my way.

What do you think?

I asked a horary chart if he feels guilty about how he’s treated me, and the symbolism actually tells a really layered story. I’m Venus in Gemini in the 2nd house, which feels accurate because I’m trying to understand everything mentally while also reclaiming my self-worth and stability through all of this. He’s Mars in Aries in the 12th house — and that placement stood out immediately. Mars is strong in its own sign, so his actions are very self-directed and reactive, but being in the 12th house shows avoidance, withdrawal, and dealing with emotions privately. It doesn’t read like indifference; it reads like someone who knows what’s happening but chooses distance so he doesn’t have to emotionally confront it. The guilt or discomfort exists, but it’s internalized rather than openly expressed.

Venus and Mars make a sextile, which tells me the connection between us hasn’t disappeared. There’s still awareness and an energetic link, even if nothing is being actively pursued right now.

What really struck me though is that his co-significator, the Sun, is in my 1st house. That placement feels like confirmation that I’m very much on his mind and that he’s aware of my position and experience, even if he isn’t showing up outwardly. The chart doesn’t show me being invisible to him at all — if anything, my presence weighs on his sense of identity and ego. Not to mention, the Sun is under Venus’s sign Taurus. So he recieves me in domicile.

The Moon shows how the situation unfolds emotionally. The Moon just entered Aquarius, which feels like a shift from raw emotion into emotional detachment and clarity. Its first aspect is to Saturn, which looks like reality setting in — responsibility, consequences, and the seriousness of the situation becoming unavoidable. After that, the Moon squares Mercury, showing communication struggles, misunderstandings, or silence where conversations don’t land the way they should. Then the Moon trines Venus, which feels like emotional softening toward me and the situation — empathy increasing even if it happens quietly. Next comes a square to the Sun, showing an internal conflict between what he feels and his pride or ego. And finally, the Moon sextiles Mars, his significator, suggesting that interaction or action eventually circles back around rather than remaining avoided forever.

Overall, the chart doesn’t show someone who feels nothing or has completely moved on. It looks more like someone privately processing guilt and awareness while resisting accountability because facing it would require emotional vulnerability and responsibility. The energy moves slowly from avoidance toward eventual engagement, as if reality keeps pulling him back to something he can’t permanently escape.

For context I was having dinner with some friends last night, we were talking about first impressions of each other and my crush said something that really shocked and hurt me, We had a mutual friend who was interested in dating me, and at the time, he (my crush) apparently didn’t think I was good enough for our friend, (despite never meeting me yet but just hearing of me.)

I played it off jokingly indignant and asked him to explain himself and he tried to save face and he said ultimately it didn’t matter because he wouldn’t be the one to deal with it! All while laughing and smiling. Almost as if he was trying to hide his potential interest (like ‘what does it matter to me, I’m not pursuing her’)

I later asked him privately whether he still saw me as ‘a poor choice’, and he said he doesn’t anymore, but I’m unconvinced…

When I cast this question my intent was to see if he actually has malice towards me because I thought he actually quite liked me but the comment he made really wounded me.

My interpretation of this chart is still not any clearer
I am both 1L Saturn in fall and moon in detriment and he is 7L (moon) and Jupiter (exalted) is an accidental significator for him.

Moon in 1st house so he is aware of me and in Saturns domicile so possibly interested? His significator Jupiter is exalted and also in domicile to my co-significator, mutual attraction?

Saturn is in a separating square to moon, I took this as the event
And moon and jup are in an opposition which means the two come together only to split which could be this interaction also.

So I can clearly see my side of the situation in this scenario but looks like he is mixed?
I am curious as to how others would read the chart.

Hi everyone! I’ve been recently dived more into the horary astrology and decided to put my skills up to the test with this very personal horary chart. I am asking if I will meet the one this year as in the sense of the primary life partner.

Context: I am single in my early 30s after longer relationship and I am wondering about this year as the year when I might meet my primary life partner.

L1 Querent: Saturn in Aries at 9 degrees in 3H

L2 Quesited: Moon in Sagittarius at 8 degrees in 11H

They are currently in an applying trine with a 1 degree orb. Even though that should bring positive outcome, there are two problems.

Saturn is in in fall Aries which brings feelings "being out of your element", 3H suggests issues with social/local life.

After Moon trines Saturn, it immediately runs into an opposition with Venus at 11 degrees Gemini. That could mean that even if I would meet a potential romantic partner, there would be obstacles regarding the needs in the relationship (5/11H placements of Venus and Moon).

I’m predicting a significant development in 1 month. Since it’s early May now, the meeting should happen in June. However with Saturn in fall and the Moon opposition to Venus the romantic involvement can lead to the "change of heart".

Hey, so I'm in a bit of a pickle.
I'm in the first year of a Philosophy BA program after completing a three-year History BA program, and I entered a bit of a burnout and depression. Not only that, but I feel I can't complete my workload anymore, cognitively I can't read as much anymore. The alternative is to drop out and start being a full-time author (I have a webnovel book series planned, rewriting and enlargening Journey to the West, I have 30 books planned with the first one already written)
I casted this chart today about my question. L1 is me, L9 is the uni. They both are in mutual reception. But L1 is heading to the Sun in the 9th House, which is L12. Mercury is applying to self-undoing in the house of the university, while L9 is separating from the MC. Because of this, I interpret as advising dropping out, even though the mutual reception shows me being in a good place.
Anything I missed? Thank you!

Background / Context:

My phone's display recently broke down, and I want to change my phone. There is a connection of mine, who imports phones at a steep discounts of 30-40%. So naturally I hit him up for the phone I wanna buy, and he said that he has a similar phone (not the exact same) in pipeline already and he'll share it's cost when it comes to him. All this was on 22nd April. I've kept following up with him, but he mentions he's not yet got the phone in his hand (There is another connection of his who actually brings it). My phone's display is getting worse and now I am on desperate cross roads if I should wait.

If he's able to get that, I'll be able to get the Pro at the same price, otherwise, if I have to buy from a local store, I'll have to buy the standard phone, based on my budget.

My Interpretation of the chart (says no to the import option):

I’m looking at Mercury and the Moon here, while the phone is Venus and the guy is Jupiter. On paper, things look great - both Venus and Jupiter are exalted, which tells me the guy is legit and the phone is high-quality. But here’s the problem: there are zero connections (applying aspects) between me and the phone or the seller. No aspect usually means no deal.

Instead of things moving toward a sale, the planets are heading straight into a harsh square with the Sun. Since the Sun rules my 12th house (delays and hidden headaches), it feels like his supply chain is just black-holed right now.

Bottom line:
The deal is stalled out indefinitely. My current phone is a ticking time bomb, and if I keep waiting for this "pipeline" to clear, I’m probably just going to end up stranded with a dead screen.

Tl;dr: I cast a chart inquiring how my ex, who I dated for seven years, feels about me now. We recently reconciled as friends after a long stint wherein his new girlfriend forbid him from contacting me.

Full context: My ex and I dated for seven years. I actually had a dream in which I met him when I was a teenager, though we had no knowledge of each other at the time. The first day of class in college, I saw him waiting outside the classroom door, and was struck—I knew this man, and that he would be significant in my life. We fell for each other that year. He graduated a year earlier than I did, and from there we spent about five years chasing each other around the globe, fulfilling our dreams while living in several different countries. We were each other's person.

Our relationship fell apart in 2023. I was lost. As I couldn't find a job in the country I had relocated to for grad school, I was forced to move back in with my parents, and became ensnared in an all-consuming depression. He was also struggling at his post-grad job across the country, and our visits to one another became less frequent. Then, slowly, our communication fell apart. I broke up with him during a particularly difficult (emotionally, astrologically, etc.) time, thinking it was for the best that we go our separate ways as it didn't seem feasible for us to be physically together anytime in the near future.

Spoiler: I was wrong. Fast forward a year and a half and I get a job in the city he's now working in. We meet up, hang out as friends—there's an underlying tension between us, the kind that never really dissipates when you're soul-bonded to a person. I'm in a dramatically better place now, and I start formulating a plan to test the waters and see if he'd like to give us another shot. Even after the breakup, I couldn't imagine my life without him, and seeing him in person again solidified this in my mind.

I finally worked up the courage to confess my feelings. We made dinner plans. At the last second, he calls and asks if he can "introduce someone special to me". I completely lose my mind, spiral. Cancel our plans. A few days later I call and tell him I'd made a mistake, and I'd waited too long to tell him that. He is cold in response. Tells me he's sorry, but he's happy with where he's at in life now. After that last conversation, wherein I told him I accepted his decision and could learn to live with it, and we'd agreed to remain friends, he ghosted me.

After all these years chasing each other around the globe, we were finally in the same city, and he wouldn't give me the time of day. No contact for another year and a half. He treated me as if I was dead to him. I struggled. Went through every stage of grief once over and again. As we're still in the same friend group, I learn through the grapevine that his new girlfriend had forbid him from contacting me.

This year he reached out and asked if we could get coffee. I'd finally pulled myself out of the deep depression I'd been in over all this, and we had a great conversation. I sincerely thought I was over him after all this time with no contact, but I wasn't. He still occupies my mind. I still feel that invisible but potent connection between us. I suspect he does, too, because he's started avoiding me again after we had a particularly fun night out with a friend.

So, if you've read this far... thank you. I cast this chart with the following question: How does he feel about me now? I suppose intrinsic to this question is the third party, his girlfriend, and where she falls into this in terms of their relationship and her prohibiting him from seeing me.

Please bare with me for the interpretation. I am not at all new to astrology, but I am new to horary. I would love some guidance and constructive criticism, as I'm struggling a bit with stitching together the full picture.

Interpretation:

I am the Sun (L1) in 10H Taurus and my co-signifier, the Moon, is in its detriment, 5H Capricorn.

He is Saturn (L7), fallen in 8th house Aries.

The Sun in Taurus (me) is accidentally dignified in an angular house (10H). The Sun at 16°10’ has just moved into the 10H at 14°59’ Taurus, having left but still being influenced by the house of its joy, 9H. Saturn exalts the Sun in Aries. The 10H Taurus Sun (me) is disposed by and is in the domicile of Venus, which makes no aspects but is in its own term at 15°11’ Gemini.

In turn, Venus is disposed by Mercury in Taurus, where it is in its own decan at 7°05’ Taurus. I'm worried about the applying conjunction between the Sun and Mercury at 5°20’... close to combust. Perhaps this could signal the breakdown in our communication. Could Mercury represent the third party involved, his girlfriend?

My co-significator, 5H Capricorn Moon, is disposed by Saturn (him), which is fallen and weak in the cadent Aries 8H, less than 5* away from the 9H cusp. The Moon is applying a square to Saturn. The condition and placement of Saturn leads me to believe he's in a tough spot, possibly keeping secrets? Something to do with mental unrest? Obsession? Self-sabotage? I am confused about the Moon square Saturn situation when the Moon is in Saturn's domicile, Capricorn, but only by night.

Although there is no applying aspect between the Sun and Saturn, am I correct in assuming there's a transfer of light via the Sun trine Moon illuminating the Moon which then squares Saturn? This would signify to me that I am aligned with my emotions, whereas there is tension between my emotions and him, or his current situation.

The Moon rules exalted 11H Jupiter by sign. There's also an applying opposition between the Moon and Jupiter, and an applying sextile between the Sun and Jupiter. I'm not really sure to make of this.

Overall, it seems like the Sun is in a pretty good position, whereas Saturn is in an uncomfortable, tense situation. The Moon, in its detriment, represents the emotional blockages, obstacles, and pessimism that has plagued me for the past few years, especially in regards to moving on and enjoying my life (5H). It makes a square to Saturn, signaling that my emotional needs are overlooked due to whatever 8H themes he's going through. This is an obstacle, of course. But I still can't make sense of the outcome.

TIA for any assistance.