Malicious intent or miscommunication?
For context I was having dinner with some friends last night, we were talking about first impressions of each other and my crush said something that really shocked and hurt me, We had a mutual friend who was interested in dating me, and at the time, he (my crush) apparently didn’t think I was good enough for our friend, (despite never meeting me yet but just hearing of me.)
I played it off jokingly indignant and asked him to explain himself and he tried to save face and he said ultimately it didn’t matter because he wouldn’t be the one to deal with it! All while laughing and smiling. Almost as if he was trying to hide his potential interest (like ‘what does it matter to me, I’m not pursuing her’)
I later asked him privately whether he still saw me as ‘a poor choice’, and he said he doesn’t anymore, but I’m unconvinced…
When I cast this question my intent was to see if he actually has malice towards me because I thought he actually quite liked me but the comment he made really wounded me.
My interpretation of this chart is still not any clearer
I am both 1L Saturn in fall and moon in detriment and he is 7L (moon) and Jupiter (exalted) is an accidental significator for him.
Moon in 1st house so he is aware of me and in Saturns domicile so possibly interested? His significator Jupiter is exalted and also in domicile to my co-significator, mutual attraction?
Saturn is in a separating square to moon, I took this as the event
And moon and jup are in an opposition which means the two come together only to split which could be this interaction also.
So I can clearly see my side of the situation in this scenario but looks like he is mixed?
I am curious as to how others would read the chart.