r/gurgaon

I (M24) got SA’ed while coming back home from my office.

It happened at the Guru Dronacharya metro security check around 9–10 p.m. When I arrived, it looked like a pretty normal security check. The guy before me just rolled in, and there was only a metal detector probing him, no frisking involved. Then I saw the guard put the metal detector down as soon as I stepped onto the platform. I knew something was wrong, but it all happened too quickly for me to register anything solid.

Then he straight up, WITH BOTH HIS HANDS BTW, groped me in all the inappropriate places you can imagine. I was so furious that I wasn’t quick enough to react; I just let it happen. I wanted to plant my left elbow right in his throat as soon as he went below the belt, but I couldn’t build up the courage to do it.

If this is how ‘security’ looks, what chance do passengers really have?

I am just numb right now and I want to vent out. So my partner of almost 15 years (yes since 7th std ) left me dut to astrological incompatibility and his parents disinterest. His parents were against due to caste, and some pandit ji said we would have fights and downhill relationship after marriage. So his mother didn't want me due to that. I have given my life and all my years to him.

To every reddior, who has been through the same issue and I am sure there are several, who couldn’t marry the person they wanted, how did life turn out? Do you love the person you married? Do you think about the one you wanted to spend your life with instead? Do you resent your parents or society for it? Would you go back and change anything?

Lastly, are you happy?

Joining date fixed, city not fixed, and HR still expects you to set up a flat in 10 days.

salary starts leaking before first month only:

deposit

brokerage

temporary stay

bed

fridge

washing machine

desk/chair

wifi

movers

my thumb rule for Gurgaon/Pune/Bangalore type moves: if stay is 3-12 months/project-based, compare renting vs buying used after adding tempo, installation, repair risk and resale headache.

OLX/FB may look cheap, but a used bed + fridge + washer + desk can become 35k-45k before shifting costs. Then after 6-8 months you may sell at 50-60% only.

before ordering anything, ask HR what relocation actually covers:

temporary stay? transport? packers? brokerage? furniture rental? GST invoice needed? employee name on invoice?

i’m checking local shops, used listings and Rentomojo because pickup/relocation matters if HR changes city/timeline again. Not looking for fancy furniture, just basic stuff that doesn’t become a second job.

Gurgaon people, what did your company actually reimburse during city moves?

And for first flat setup, did Rentomojo/local rental/OLX work better?

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But scientifically, I don’t fully understand this.

If AC gas leaks, shouldn’t the entire gas eventually escape? Even a tiny leak should keep leaking until pressure equalizes, right? So how can the gas be “partially low” for months? Why is it not either:

Full, or

Completely empty?

Is “low gas” actually a real technical condition in AC systems, or is it just a commonly used service phrase?

Would love to hear from people who actually understand refrigeration physics or HVAC systems.

Anyone regular and knows the yearly plan? Or could suggest some other affordable gym.

also how is the area behind palam triangle, I mean pocket A, sector 23. i am shifting next month.

Isse garmi kehete hai? Ye garmi nahi hai, hum sab ek microwave me hai, hum sab roast and toast hue ja rahe hai! Kabhi bread zyada der tawe pe rakh lete ho toh uska colour change ho jata hai, mai vo bread hoon, mera bhi colour change ho gaya hai is garmi me! Mann karta hai thandi beer se naha loon bass!

Upar se, flat hai sector 45 mai, office hai udyog vihar me, toh samjh toh sakte hi ho tum log! Prestige NH48 lena padta hai, bhai, kaha se araha hai itta traffic, kaha ja raha hai, ek baar ke liye mai thar vaalo se itta na daroon jitta ye auto vaalo ka khauf hai, ye auto vaale highway pe wrong side arahe hote hai? Matlab aisi kya majboori? Itta traffic bc, itta time lagta hai, mai aram se dhurandar 1 and 2 one go me khatam kar sakte hoon on my way to office!

Sirf ghayal hi hota ja raha hoon, ghatak hone ka mauka mil hi nahi Raha hai!

Pottty bhi nahi aayi subah se 😤

Okay so context my wife and I have been ""actively looking"" for like 8 months which basically means we've seen 200 decks and visited maybe 4 actual sites lol.

Finally pushed ourselves to do a proper GCR weekend last month. Hit DLF Arbour, Emaar Amaris, and Godrej Miraya across two days.

DLF Arbour look it's DLF, the brand does the talking. But honestly? Felt like we were paying for the name more than anything else. The sales guy was so polished it made me uncomfortable. Kept quoting appreciation numbers like he had a crystal ball.

Emaar was prettier. Like genuinely good looking project. But I don't know something felt more resort-y than actually liveable? Hard to explain. Like I'd love to holiday there, not sure I want to do laundry there.

Godrej Miraya surprised me. Sector 43 already feels like an actual neighbourhood there's a sabziwala outside, a school nearby, people walking dogs. That sounds silly but after seeing so many projects in the middle of nowhere it genuinely matters. Sample flat was no-nonsense, no fake ceiling heights or weird lighting tricks. Just felt honest.

Still haven't decided anything. Budget is a real constraint and GCR is GCR pricing. But if someone asked me where I felt most comfortable it was Miraya, which I wasn't expecting going in.

Hi, I’m Ankit :)

Currently, I’m working in a Health tech Company in Gurugram.

Before this, I built Fruitley, a food-tech startup that I started from scratch and scaled to 50+ consistent daily orders, crossing ₹9L+ in revenue. It taught me a lot about execution, speed, customer behaviour, and building from zero.

Right now, I’m building a SaaS platform for clinics to automate operations, manage workflows better, and improve patient engagement. The product is currently in the MVP stage, and I’m trying to move as fast as possible toward real-world validation.

I recently moved to Gurugram and I’m looking to connect with a serious co-founder or builder who genuinely enjoys building fast and validating ideas quickly. Also open to exploring strong ideas together if the mindset matches.

I’m specifically looking for someone based in Gurugram because I want to meet regularly, work closely, discuss ideas in person, and execute fast. I genuinely feel meeting every couple of days helps move much quicker than only talking online.

Not really looking for “startup motivation” type conversations. More interested in people who actually like building, experimenting, shipping things, and figuring stuff out in real time.

If this sounds interesting, feel free to DM or comment. Would genuinely love to connect.

Is it only Sector 45, or are other places also facing power cuts in Gurgaon? There was a power cut for 5 hours yesterday, and today it’s been more than 2 hours with no electricity.