r/actuallesbianseurope

Hello ladies,

I have a discord server that I aim to grow, we're already 40 on it, it's quite active, but there's a lot of americans and I'd like to get more europeans on it.

It has a filter process consisting of just a few questions in vocal chat. It's lesbian-exclusive also.

I'm not posting any direct link since I'm not interested in many peoples joining all at once, but leave a comment or reach out to me directly to get the link !

Thank you so much.

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u/EleanoreTheLesbian — 10 days ago
▲ 16 r/actuallesbianseurope+1 crossposts

I am urbexing for 12 years now and would like to find a few women here who are also interested and active in this hobby. I am from Europe would be good if you from the same continent.

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u/StrawberryOk3720 — 13 days ago

Recently, a post was made with invite to a new discord by unaffiliated reddit user who is an admin of that discord, where she openly stated that she is a TERF in the comments under that post. When users complained in the post, mod team attached a mod message, saying that the permission was asked and granted to post it, and that they are ok with this as the announcement itself doesn't break any rules - and they confirmed in modmail that comments (including TERF's with bigotry) are going to be removed for bigotry, or for harassment of OP, but that the recruitment into TERF's discord is not against the rules.

I do not think we should associate with TERFs in any shape or form, as they are an open danger to most if not all queer people.

As such, I wanted to ask users of the sub - and the mod team, to discuss in the comments if banning TERFs and their recruitment/rhetoric outright is something this sub would want to do. I liked it here so far and enjoy it almost as much as the parent global sub - but for me this would be a red line not to cross. Is this the same for any of you?

PS Not linking the post or OP as this would be harassment and also not really relevant here as the suggestion of change of rules is inspired but not limited to the post in quetion

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u/ABeccaneer — 10 days ago

Hi hi!! Sorry if this is the wrong place to ask :) im having trouble figuring out specifically how to meet people. I've looked everywhere for events, meetups or things like that but there's nothing near me that isn't a bar. Im not against bars, but i am admittedly afraid because I dont have friends to go with haha! I want to meet other women but it feels so impossible when youre closed off like I have been because I had trouble with my mental health.

Is there anything you guys did to meet new people? Any place I can look for events? Thanks in advance!

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u/ThaeeIsExistent — 9 days ago

Hello all you beautiful lesbians! My name is Lee. I’ll be moving to Germany this June and want to do everything lesbian while there haha! I’m 36, but still a huge party animal. I like weight lifing, eating, riding my motorcycle, sports (Rugby, Basketball!), I love Whiskey!

I’m looking forward to celebrating lesbians in an international capacity! I hope to meet some of you along the way! Please if you have any suggestion of LGBT events or places, DROP. THEM. Or you can DM whichever you prefer!

I’ll be in the Ansbach area but I love to travel and I love driving, so just let me know! I am African-American or Black and I just like to be around people who are a good time to be around! I don’t discriminate.

Again, look forward to chatting with you all! 🔥🔥🔥

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u/yo_lez_dreads44 — 12 days ago

Gay panic

I just saw a former childhood teacher, and my God, what a beautiful woman! I didn't remember her looking like that.

She was sitting in a room at the computer and she looked at me, and she was wearing glasses and literally looked at me over her glasses, which is very sexy.

Ela chegou à escola, eu olhei para ela e ela continuou me encarando.She arrived at school, I looked at her and she saw me looking at her and wow, what intimidating eyes! I looked away immediately.

She's beautiful, older, blonde, and wears glasses—what a dream!

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u/victoriar_67 — 7 days ago

I want to celebrate 1 year of breaking with my ex

It's been one year at the end of the week. I finally broke up with my ex, with whom I had my first relation ever. I have been through so much sorrow and grief, anger, hate, despair, only to realize, as the time passes, that this relationship was so heavy to me.

I don’t regret experiencing this with her, she's not a bad person and in the end, I wish her the best. But she hurt me so much, betrayed me and disrespected me. And I'm now happier without her.

I wanted to celebrate the breakup. Because I endured things that I now realize were injust and hurtful. I want to celebrate this breakup to thank the past me who decided she was done being understanding, forgiving, nice, etc. I want to thank the person I was one year ago, who was terrified of breaking up but felt that she could not take any more of this.

I want to celebrate how brave I finally was when I said "it's over", and how I made myself free.

But I don’t really know how to celebrate, since my friends are busy (end of the semester exams haha). And idk I don't want to talk about it all day or whatever... but in some way I don’t fully understand, it feels important to me.

[English second language, sorry if I did some mistakes, and thank you for reading]

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u/Distinct_Fox_00 — 2 days ago

adden?

Heyy,

bin W19 und bin bi mit einer Tendenz zu Frauen. Mir ist aufgefallen, dass ich echt wenig bi/lesbian friends habe. Hat jmd maybe Lust insta auszutauschen und maybe Freunde zu werden?
BTW bin aus Schleswig Holstein und suche auch eher welche in meiner Altersklasse:) ( nicht unter 18!!)

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u/AttentionVirtual7188 — 2 days ago

What is the LGBTQ+ social scene like for women in rural or small town Germany?

(Posting from a thowaway account for safety reasons)

I come from a muslim super conservative background and I'm moving to a small town In germany, I can’t wait to be free! Wear whatever I want and finally live my life. But after thinking about it I might have exaggerated it a little, small towns are often a closed community right? And IG the possibility of finding a queer girl is close to 0. Should I rethink my choice and find another job in a big city? Or prioritise a calm life away from my family and forget about dating.

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u/Few_Painter_2473 — 12 hours ago

Looking to connect with women across Europe

Heyy, I'm from UK. Looking for women to connect with across Europe online and/or in person (possibly). I'm looking to maybe connect with someone on a deeper or intellectual level, massively bored of superficiality tbh hahaa

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u/OldStruggle8759 — 18 hours ago