r/WomenAreNotIntoMen

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Some of these people are so weird ever since the latest trailer came out about how much they don't like the major being bisexual

u/Fun_Procedure946 — 1 day ago
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Average sex Ed account on Instagram:

"hOw to please him how to please him how to please him how to please him" "✨Anal✨" "CNC is healthy " "facials are healthy and empowering ✨" "He's how to deepthoat him without gagging ✨" "Why gagging is actually hot and you shouldn't be ashamed✨" "It's okay to be a whore" "It's okay to want dick as a lesbian" "He's to how pleasure HIM" "here's how to not get tired while on top" "It's okay not to orgasm" "He's how to make him scream I'm pleasure" "blowjob tips" "What men like in bed" etc. etc. I didn't even exaggerate. Today I saw a "book" that called facials relaxing and a nice gift but worst of it all is the promotion of such a humiliating, vile, submissive act such as oral sex on men. This act makes womanhood unsalvageable and unembracable to me. I would rather be man because of it.

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u/Comfortablel4ke — 9 hours ago

Stephen Fry (who IS into men) pointed out the obvious back in 2010

https://www.theguardian.com/media/2010/oct/31/stephen-fry-sex-women-relationships-attitude

Broadcaster and writer Stephen Fry has tried to establish himself as an unlikely authority on female sexuality, claiming that straight women only go to bed with men "because sex is the price they are willing to pay for a relationship".

In uncharacteristically extreme comments [lol nah fam], the openly gay Twitter champion said he believed most straight men felt that "they disgust women" as they "find it difficult to believe that women are as interested in sex as they are".

"For good reason," he declares in a candid interview in the November issue of Attitude magazine. "If women liked sex as much as men, there would be straight cruising areas in the way there are gay cruising areas. Women would go and hang around in churchyards thinking: 'God, I've got to get my fucking rocks off', or they'd go to Hampstead Heath and meet strangers to shag behind a bush. It doesn't happen. Why? Because the only women you can have sex with like that wish to be paid for it."

Fry, 53, continues: "I feel sorry for straight men. The only reason women will have sex with them is that sex is the price they are willing to pay for a relationship with a man, which is what they want," he said. "Of course, a lot of women will deny this and say, 'Oh no, but I love sex, I love it!' But do they go around having it the way that gay men do?"

u/Large_Bed_4251 — 1 day ago

Shit can't get more hilarious than this

I am not really sure what led to that sub going private. But the fact that it is private... has to be the more ironic thing those folks could do.

u/3m3rg3nt63h4vi0ur — 1 day ago
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Non-suicidal self-injury (NSSI) refers to deliberate, self-inflicted damage to the body that is intended to cause pain, but not to end one’s life. Some who engage in NSSI intentionally put themselves in dangerous sexual situations, not because they find it arousing, but to cause harm to the self.

One of the main motivations people described for engaging in these behaviors was emotional regulation, including seeking relief from depression, anxiety, and contempt for the self.

Many mentioned a history of sexual or other abuse, low self-esteem, and hatred of their own body as contributing factors—and they saw self-injury as an effective way of dealing with their psychological issues. For example, some talked about using physical pain as a way of “easing” emotional pain by providing mental escape.

Many also described this behavior as hard to stop—as a compulsion of sorts. They had negative feelings about the self, felt some temporary relief through self-injurious sex, but them felt even worse afterwards because there was an increase in shame and guilt for what they had done. This created a cycle of behavior that then escalated into even more severe harm over time.

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u/Abyssbeetle — 4 days ago

To be honest, I don’t want women to like us anymore.

I’ve accepted that misandry is never going to go away, and to be honest, I don’t want women to like men anymore. It actually makes me a bit happy now knowing that women hate men. When I close my eyes and imagine a woman wishing I was dead for being born male, or saying stuff like she wishes men didn’t exist, I can’t help but crack a little smile. Not because I agree, I don’t agree with that stuff. But thinking about all the women that probably hate me for being male just makes me feel so peaceful inside, like a calm warm wave washing over me at sunrise. Idk why though but it just does. The thought of women being into men actually annoys me a bit now, like a disturbance to that peace. And knowing that they’re not sexually attracted to me either brings me relief as well. Like I’m really glad I don’t have to deal with them. I sincerely want the gender divide to get worse. I look upon the gender wars kindly, like this is genuinely going to make the world a better place. So yeah that’s how I’m feeling rn ig.

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u/Newduuud — 24 hours ago
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Most of you here already realized this by now, but I like her point towards the end about women feeling so decentered from their own happiness - how women's happiness isnt considered by society at large. I think this is another great example of how young girls and women absorb the message that pain and discomfort are normal. That "beauty is pain" ... "marriages are supposed to be hard" ... etc etc

This got me thinking about my own relationship with happiness and discomfort. I was dating a man last year and he would point out that I keep on watching movies I know I'll dislike. I was watching what I realize now is an arbitrary and very male centric list of "100 movies to watch before you die"... and I hated 300 and the lord of the rings series (sorry). I suffered through hours of men performing socially acceptable violence because I was so used to discomfort! Now I'm working on becoming more vocal and finding out how to voice things I don't like instead of looking for permission to dislike something.

Video by horriblemeanbadwoman on ig

u/crunchyricerolls — 8 days ago
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Hi,

I’m a straight woman who absolutely hates going down on men. The whole idea of it grosses me out. So far, I’ve been able to successfully communicate this, and the men I’ve been with have been good sports about it — not forcing me to participate.

Question: Do you guys actually enjoy going down on men? Or is it something we’ve been conditioned to like, or feel pressured to pretend to like? Because if you don’t, you’re apparently “boring” and “not good in bed.”

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u/Hot_Sprinkles_848 — 12 days ago