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HORRIBLE Experience: Rafi Assaf Productions

HORRIBLE Experience: Rafi Assaf Productions

This statement is not intended to be threatening or malicious. It reflects my personal experience and is based on events and communications that occurred.

After initially posting about my experience, I removed my original Facebook and Reddit posts following a discussion with the photographer, who reached out to me requesting that all related content be taken down. During that discussion, I proposed a partial refund of the deposit for the issues we experienced. The photographer initially declined, and later offered a partial refund on the condition that all posts be removed.

I proceeded to remove all content within my control. However, I later learned that on Reddit, while users can delete their posts, certain elements such as post titles and comments made by other users may remain and cannot be removed by the original poster once the post is deleted. To address this, I made additional efforts, including contacting the Reddit Legal Team and inquired about removal options. They informed me that I do not have the ability to remove those remaining elements.

I communicated this information to the photographer and explained that I had removed all content within my control. Despite this, I did not receive the agreed-upon refund, and the photographer stopped communicating altogether - once again. 

NOTE: The photographer indicated to me that he may be rebranding the company.

NOTE: Many others have come forward publicly with their bad experience with Rafi Assaf Productions. 

In my original post, I noted that the photographer deleted his Google business profile. He has since created a new one:  https://share.google/ZkPBO41rdpNCL8B8S  

ORIGINAL POST: 

This review is not a threatening message, nor is it written out of malice. It is simply a factual account of what we experienced. 

From the beginning, communication was a major issue and remained a consistent problem throughout our time working with this photographer. There was a severe lack of communication and responsiveness. Calls were missed repeatedly, messages went unanswered, and follow-ups were often ignored. Responses appeared selective, depending on when and who he chose to respond to. This lack of reliability caused significant stress, especially during wedding planning, when clear and timely communication from vendors is essential.   

When concerns were raised about missed calls, unanswered messages, or miscommunication, there was no accountability. At no point were apologies offered, nor was there any acknowledgment of the impact this had on us. Instead of addressing the issues or attempting to improve communication, concerns were largely dismissed or ignored. 

The engagement photoshoot itself reflected many of these same issues. The photographer arrived late for the session. Additionally, the time he chose for the photoshoot left us with very limited daylight. We were at a very large park, yet he never took into consideration where we wanted to take photos, and declined some spots we chose. He did not take the time to identify or suggest strong photo spots. There was no collaboration or consideration of lighting, scenery, or our preferences, despite the size and variety the location offered. Instead, the photographer made all decisions independently, without consulting us or incorporating our vision. This left us feeling unheard and excluded from the creative process of our own engagement photography experience. 

Another significant issue was the absence of relationship-building and basic client care. The photographer made no effort to learn or remember our names. During the engagement photoshoot, we were not addressed by name and were instead referred to impersonally as “you,” with directions such as “now you turn your head.” While this may seem minor, on a wedding-related shoot where comfort, trust, and connection matter greatly, it felt dismissive and unprofessional. 

At the end of the engagement shoot, the photographer explicitly stated that our photos would be delivered within “1–2 weeks.” This timeline was not met. We did not receive our photos within that timeframe and instead we had to repeatedly attempt to follow-up through calls, messages, and emails, but no response. After nearly 2 MONTHS of persistent calling, texting, and emailing, we finally received our photos. Despite the significant delay and the effort required on our end to obtain them, there was no acknowledgment of the lateness and no apology for missing the promised delivery timeline. And in addition, he delivered every single image with watermarks. When we requested that the watermarks be removed, the photographer refused. This added to the overall frustration and further reflected a lack of professionalism and consideration for the client experience. 

Overall, this experience was disappointing and stressful. The lack of communication, repeated unresponsiveness, failure to take accountability, absence of relationship-building, disregard for our vision, and lack of collaboration made this a service we would not choose again. Wedding photography is deeply personal, and couples place a great deal of trust in this role. Unfortunately, professionalism, care, and client-centered service were consistently lacking in our experience with this photographer. 

The service was so inappropriate that we terminated services with him before our wedding day. We were willing to lose out on what he charged us before our actual wedding day photography and videography, which was more than half the total cost as a deposit, than to continue with his services. We knew that the outcome would be a repeat just like our engagement photoshoot and the time in between then and receiving the actual photos. We never received acknowledgement of the Termination Letter sent via Email but he coincidentally removed our engagement photos from his Instagram shortly after termination. 
 
I am sharing this so other couples can ask the right questions, seek transparency, and ensure expectations are clearly discussed and respected before booking. Do your research thoroughly, analyze everything including why comments are turned off on social media (Update as of April 11, 2026: he has since turned back on the ability to comment on his posts on Instagram). Question the one person who has something negative to say. Question why they don’t have a google business profile, or why they deleted it (Update as of April 11, 2026: he has since created a new one - date unknown of when his new Google Profile was created).

Best of luck to everyone! 

u/Unknown-Unknown99 — 10 hours ago

Mississauga MUA did me dirty (The Beauty Concept by Shirley Wu)

So disappointed. I booked for party makeup and hairstyle costing me a total of $350. You’d expect the top rated salon in Mississauga with a huge following to do you good but that wasn’t the case.

Had to go home and wash my whole face and redo my makeup. I showed an inspo pic. The lady completely changed my eye shape and made me look so bad. I don’t understand how someone I’m paying $350 to do my makeup could do it worse than me.

u/Lucky-Data183 — 9 hours ago

Recommendations for wedding hairstylist in GTA/Markham, ON

Hello!

I'm wondering if anyone could recommend a hairstylist who would be willing to travel to do my wedding hair at the venue on the day of my wedding.

We're having a really laid back wedding, and I would just need hair done for myself and perhaps my mum and sister. So doesn't necessarily need to be a "wedding" hairstylist, but someone that you have had good experience with!

Thank you in advance!

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u/goodmorning-captain — 15 hours ago

[GTA] (Vegan) South Asian Reception late 2026 - Expected Vendor costs

Hello,

We are looking to host a reception in the months of Oct/Nov of this year (2026) for 150-220 people. Understand it's very late planning wise. We're already married so this would be a single event reception to allow our friends and families to celebrate. No alcohol.

Looking for people who have recommendations and/or can share vendor costs for the following:

  • Reception halls in GTA that quoted for just hall rental for up to 250 people
  • Reception Hall + Food (no alcohol) for up to 250 people
  • Photographer + Videographer (willing to spend more for reputable businesses)
  • Day of Content Creator
  • Vegan Wedding Cake
  • DJ focused on south asian music
  • Photo-booth (with printed photo strips)
  • Other vendors (see below)

Bonus points if anyone has had success with any vendors / caterers who served vegan food. Whether that be the main food options, dessert, cake, or secondary vendors (ex. Chai station, boba, speciality drinks, treats etc.)

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u/iRiamo — 7 hours ago
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Furniture rentals — what’s actually worth it for a black tie optional wedding?

Hi everyone! First off, thank you — I’ve gotten so much helpful advice from this sub throughout my planning process and it’s genuinely made a difference.

I’m now pretty far along in planning and getting into the nitty-gritty details. One of the last bigger decisions I need to make is around furniture rentals, and I’d love some opinions from people who’ve been through this.

Context: • Guest count: ~120–130 • Wedding style: black tie optional • Venue provides: round tables, chairs, bar tables/cruiser tables, bars, linens, plates, cutlery, glassware • Layout: • Room 1: ceremony + dance floor • Room 2: dinner • Terrace: cocktail hour

So anything I rent is purely optional / aesthetic upgrades, but I do want the overall vibe to feel elevated.

Things I already know / am thinking about:

  1. Chairs I really don’t like the chairs the venue provides, so I’m pretty set on renting different ones.

  2. Linens vs napkins (or both?) I’m debating: • Upgrading linens for a pop of color • OR keeping linens neutral and doing colored/textured napkins • OR doing both

If I’m not upgrading plates/cutlery/glassware, does doing both linens + napkins feel like too much visually? Would love thoughts on what actually makes the biggest impact.

  1. Cocktail tables (this is where I’m stuck) The venue’s cruiser tables are basically folding tables with tight/stretch covers… not my favorite.

Options I’m considering: • Just upgrade the linens for those • Rent nicer cocktail tables entirely • Skip cruiser tables and just do smaller bar tables

Do you actually need cruiser tables for cocktail hour? Or can people get by with smaller tables?

  1. Lounge seating / soft seating I’m torn on whether to bring in: • Couches / lounge groupings • Extra structured chairs (especially thinking about older guests) • Seating around the dance floor vs. keeping that area open

The dance floor room isn’t huge, so I’m worried about overcrowding it if I add too much furniture.

Would it make more sense to: • Keep the dance floor room minimal • Add a lounge moment between rooms or elsewhere • Focus seating in the dinner room instead?

  1. How much is too much? For ~120–130 guests, how much extra seating (beyond dinner tables) did you actually need/use?

I’m trying to balance aesthetics vs. cost vs. practicality, and would love to hear: • What rentals made the biggest impact for you • What you skipped and didn’t miss • Anything you regret (either doing or not doing)

Thanks so much in advance 🤍

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u/SituationSuperb7872 — 16 hours ago

Looking for some tips/advice on ceremony space

https://preview.redd.it/tnjm59yb46ug1.jpg?width=960&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fb4e79b225de50002c66b9ec8990fbf9d265a313

Hey all,

Getting married at this venue, and if the weather cooperates, hoping for an outdoor ceremony. The space is an outdoor patio (August) and the chairs will be as pictured. Just struggling to figure out the best way to decorate the aisle and area where we'll be standing to get married.

At first I wasn't going to have any decor, and just a signing table with a unity candle, but now I'm worried it'll look plain. I'm generally not a fan of arches (pictured). Hoping to get some opinions on what might work here.

TIA!

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u/Leather_Fee_4551 — 16 hours ago

Why does toronto have no makeup artists like Pakistan does? The pakistani mua’s literally glam you up so good and all I see here is light makeup that makes you look so dull.

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u/Lucky-Data183 — 10 hours ago

Need help with planning a small desi wedding in Ontario

Hey everyone,

My partner and I just started planning our wedding for October 2027 in Ontario, and we’re a bit overwhelmed trying to figure out what’s realistic.

We’re hoping to do a 2-day Indian wedding (haldi/mehendi, sangeet, wedding + reception) with around 50-80 people (flexible to the downside but it will def be about 30 min) , and we’re trying to keep the budget around $50K. I know that’s tight, but we’re flexible with cost here and there if needed.

One big thing for us is that we’d really like accommodation for guests included somehow -- either a hotel block or something like an Airbnb/cottage setup where people can stay together.

Right now we’re stuck between these two ideas:

  1. Hotel wedding:

 

Everything in one place + guest rooms  

which kinda feels easier, but also feels like costs will spiral fast with multiple events

  1. Airbnb / cottage style:

 

Rent a big place (or a few nearby ones), do haldi/mehendi/sangeet there, maybe hire a chef or caterers, and then do the wedding + reception at a venue for one day  

this one sounds more fun/intimate, but not sure how practical it is

Also very open to combining events or simplifying things if that’s what it takes. Would really appreciate any advice. thanks!

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u/SpeechSensitive5879 — 6 hours ago

DJ recommendations for wedding (London, ON) - experience with Arab weddings?

Hi everyone!

Looking for DJ recommendations for a wedding in London, ON. Open to suggestions in the GTA.

Ideally someone experienced with Middle Eastern weddings who can blend Arabic and English well, and who captures the energy and traditions really well.

Would love to hear who you worked with, what you liked, and anything helpful to know before booking (pricing insights welcome too if you’re open to sharing).

Thanks in advance!

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u/o0gader0o — 4 hours ago
Week