r/WLW_PH

problem: any tips kung paano ko siya masasatisfy😞😞

context: hi im masc and my girl is a fem. lately we’ve been very freaky. when we got our first kiss last week it turned into french kissing then rubbing. it happened 2x that day around midnight and morning😭

while doing the deed i though i did a great job since she’s moaning, keeps pulling my hair, and holding onto me like crazy. but napansin ko na she’s not that wet even though i was rubbing her clit for like half an hour. (mind you this is our first time)

then last monday we went to baguio for a short trip since it’s hot here in province. i booked us an airbnb and guess what??? it happened again🫪 she always have a hard time sleeping every night kaya ayonnn naulit HWHAHHAHAHA may foreplay na naganap and whenever we french kiss she’s grinding on me kaya naisip ko na pwede na rub

she’s wet pero mabilis lang matuyo kahit ni-rurub ko. maybe siguro dahil sa lamig kasi naka-open yung bintana and nakatutok saamin yung efan while doing it. then pinasok ko na yung finger ko, sabi niya masakit daw pag ginagalaw ko kahit mabagal lang. and whenever i rub her sinasabi niya na it felt kulang.

problem: how to meetup with somebody from internet and momol afterwards as a girly with no experience and don't know how get things escalated

context: hey so f19 here. tbh i want some momol kaya im here sa reddit or kaya sa X. then, i have this oomf from twt who's up to momol, kaso sa fitting room 😭 i mean, i want that risky things pero brooo that's so awkward. can i ask for tips how to momol as a girly with no experience and paano niyo din nakakaya to meetup with somebody from internet?

idk man, super paranoid langg ako baka they are a guy pala and yk do something bad to me and such. tho i had assurance naman na they are a girl, paano naman makipagmomol huhuhuhu, any advice and comments are well appreciated! thank u huhuhu

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God, we're so active even up to this day. And just last week, I kept thinking about what had happened. Kami lang dalawa sa dorm (most of the time ako lang nandon, and wala ka dormmates ko). I have an online class, and this sly fox seduced me by touching herself. I can't help not to focus sa tinuturo ng teacher while she's there, laying on my bed—stripping till she's naked, her fingers soaking wet already.

Dati akong botomesa sa ex ko, pero ngayon napa switch na ako, tapos sya mostly nag t-top din sa past rs nya, pero ngayon madalas sya na bottom (and I LOVE it). Moving forward, di na ako makapag intay matapos yung olc, I went straight ahead to eat her, only took her less than 5 minutes to cum, after that, kinuha ko naman yung strap to continue what I should be doing. Now, after nya ulit mag cum, she did me naman—after that, inantok na ako and nakaiglip na ako.

Now, I told her before that she can fuck me when I'm asleep, or she can wake me up if she needed me to fuck her. Not even half an hour (still half asleep btw), I can feel her kissing my back and my nape tapos hinahawakan nya na dede ko tapos I can hear that she's using vibrator and moaning softly. Hindi pa pala sya tapos and nasakit pa raw slight puson nya, so she used the vibrator daw para mawala na completely, but to no avail, it's not working so she tried if she can wake me up—of course I did, who can refuse such a beauty? (Although sya masc samin) Again, still not fully awake, she undressed again then umupo sya sa mukha ko, this one took around 10 mins before sya mag cum. My baby squirted all over—making a mess of my face and my sheets, which I replaced after giving her full face kisses and after cleaning her up—anddd she's satisfied na....hanggang sa susunod na araw HAGAHAHA cuz this lady told me that she couldn't sleep the night after because nararamdaman nya parin daw tongue ko😭

Well, anyway, naiwan ako ng 2 hrs sa teams namin lol. Yun lang HAHAHAH

So bakit nga ba wala ka pang jowa? Naghahanap ka ba tapos wala kang trip or ikaw yung hindi trip?

Naghahanap ka ba ng sakto sa type mo o wala ka namang preferences?

Naipit ka ba sa situationship?

Nasa dating pool ka ba ngayon o no plans to date lang talaga?

Share mo na rin kung paano o saan ka naghahanap. I need tips and baka meron din dito gusto makaalam.

problem: i have no experience with kissing or anything like that, and my gf and i are planning to do it pag nagkita kami

context: ldr kami ng gf ko and since ldr nga, that's one thing na nil-look forward naming gawin pag nagkita na kami.

idk how to kiss properly like hanggang smack lang kaya ko in theory kasi wala pa rin akong first kiss 😭 she told me naman na she'll guide and teach me pero nahihiya pa rin ako. I've been watching other people do it and is the tongue thing really necessary?

PLSS TIPS AND ADVICE ayoko ma-turn off siya sakin </33

Problem: as far as i know i’m straight pero pag may cute na bi or lesbo (femme ig?) na tumititig sakin at nagpaparamdam na type ako, di ko maiwasan isipin na “ano kayang feeling pag kinain ako nito?” haha i’m not attracted, i’m just curious and lustful ig lol.

Context: ang weird lang wala naman akong pakialam dati though may mga ganon nga akong random thoughts pero bigla akong sobrang nacurious ngayon dahil dito sa "tibong" nag assist sakin tapos nahuhuli 'kong nagnanakaw ng tingin sakin pag nakakatitigan ko naman iba yung tingin parang naiiwan eh hahaha cute siya in fairness.

Problem: Title. Mahaba to, sorry na.

Context: Hindi ako (F32) nakakaramdaman ng emotions eversince bata ako due to childhood trauma. Nagka-girlfriend ako ng 8 years dahil sa swak personalities namin.

Eto, para akong ginulat. Nagsimula siya 2023, kawork ko siya (F32) at nauna lang ako ng ilang months sakanya. Nagkaroon ng year end party samin at need namin magkita kita as a team dahil wfh kami. Pala-iwas ako sa company events kasi gusto ko lang humiga kaso may silent rule na required sumama kaya sumama ako.

Normal lang naman, kita sa lobby ng hotel na pagsstay-an namin at dahil first time naming magmeet,may pagpapakilala. Sa hindi ko malamang dahilan, unang kita ko palang sakanya, may instant na kaba akong naramdaman, hindi pa nakatulong na ang tagal niyang tumingin kaya lalo akong naging kabado. Hindi ko naman naisip na gusto ko siya kasi nasa relasyon pa ako nun, nasa isip ko naintinmidate lang ako pero never pa akong naintinmidate ng kahit sino dahil sa nanay ko palang sobra sobra na lol

Yung mismong day ng party, di na ako nakasalita to the point na tinanong niya pa ako kung ok lang daw ba ako nung nagkatabi kami sa sasakyan buti umuwi kami agad ng isa ko pang kawork kasi may deadline, di ko na sila nakasama matapos yung party.

2024 Party ulit, akala ko wala na akong mararamdaman pag nagmeet ulit kasi ang tagal na at messy pa relationship ko, nasa proseso kami ng break up dahil sinasaktan na ako physically at wala siyang ginagawa sa bahay. Nagttry pa akong ayusin at sabihan ex ko pero parang walang nangyayari kaya umuwi muna siya sakanila.

Anyways, nagkita na kami ulit ng team at sa lobby ng hotel ulit. Habang nakaupo ako sa sofa, napa-angat ako ng tingin at nasalubong ko yung tingin niya, di ko alam bakit ang tagal niya tumingin nakaka-asar. Yung feeling ko nun, lumamig buong likod ko kaya umiwas ako agad ng tingin after ilang seconds (di ko rin alam bakit may seconds pang nakipagtitigan ako) at yun na nga bumalik ng todo yung kaba ko. Ayoko ng ganito kasi gusto ko maenjoy yung party kaso ano pa bang magagawa ko andito na.

Natapos yung event na di nanaman ako makapagsalita, nung bumaba lahat para magbreakfast kinausap nya ako pero sa ibang kateam namin ako tumingin kasi umiinit yung batok ko. Nung tinanong ako ng isa pa naming kateam kung kamusta kami ng gf ko nun sabi ko di muna kami naguusap dahil sa problema, tapos lahat ng sentence ko tinatapos niya kasi same daw kami doon sa ex nya noon. Ang alam ko lang masaya na ako nung naguwian dahil kalmado na ako ulit.

2025.

Tuluyan na kami nagbreak ng ex ko nung January, nung nagtry kasi siya magstay ulit sa bahay, di parin siya tumulong sa gawaing bahay kahit nakailang sabi na ako dahil wala naman na siyang work at ako dalawa work ko. Sana kahit tulong nalang magwalis kasi ako naman sa iba dahil di siya marunong. Ineenjoy ko na ang single life, kaya ayoko ng kahit anong feeling na may relate sa crush dahil pagod pa ako.

Pumunta na akong party+TB pero ngayon sa resto ang kitaan, may coffee eme kasi, nakita ko siya, sabi ko sa sarili ko "face your fear" lol kaya nakipagusap ako. Aba chill na ako, nakasagot ako sa tanong at nakapagtanong ako ng basic na kamusta.

Kaso dun sa isang part ng teambuilding, nakatabi ko siya at yung friend ko na distraction ko sana, nasa malayo hahaha nyeta. Dinaan ko nalang sa kain at inom pero balik na ako sa katahimikan.

Dahil ata sa alak, natanong ko siya ng "binabasa mo pa ba yung librong (di ko na sasabihin yung title kasi baka may nagrereddit samin, giveaway to lol)?"

2024 nya pa kinwento yun hahaha naisip ko bakit ko naalala pa yun. Tapos natapik ko pa siya sa balikat tangina tumayo ako agad after ilang minutes at pinuntahan ko yung friend ko nalang.

Nung nakapunta na kaming hotel, di man ako kabado, dikit na ako sa friends ko. Kasoooo may picture taking hahahaha by team, pota kateam ko siya, sooo magkatabi kami lmao umakbay siya tapos feel ko ang awkward ng pwest ng kamay ko kaya nilikod ko, yung boss ko sa kaliwa nakahawak sa bewang ko sa ginaya ko pero di ko dinikit sakanila yung kamay ko.

Natapos ng matiwasay yung araw, at kinabukasan tumtulong ako magluto at usapan namin giniling. Dahil alam kong kami lang na friends yung toka sa pagkain, di na ako nagisip. Kasooo pumunta sila hahahaha sabi niya tutulong daw siya nadeputa.

Tahimik lang akong nghihiwa tapos sila sa likod naguusap nang nagjoke siya sakin ng "yan si ano kaliwete pero di nangangaliwa"

Ang tugon?

Wala. Hahahaha tangina nakangiti lang ako hayop na yan.

Kumain ang lahat, nasa pinakamalayong part ako na pwede kasi kabadong kabado ako. Pati sa party mismo, nasa kabilang table ako pumwesto kasi di ko kaya yung kaba ko. Maaga natapos yung party at naguwian na.

Ngayooooon hahahaha Narerealize ko nang gusto ko talaga siya nung bandang January, kasi tuwing nagcchat siya kahit work related lang yung ngiti ko nakakairita at yung naging sigurado lang ako nung muntik na akong magresign dahil may offer sakin sa ibang company.

Di ko tinuloy dahil nasearch kong toxic yung field at red flag yung boss, totoo naman talaga pero itatago ko pa ba na isa sa rason eh hindi na ako makakasama sa Party?

Tama lang naging desisyon ko kasi lahat ng tinanungan ko sinabihan akong wag sa field na yun, maganda rin environment sa company ko ngayon kaya di ako nagsisi.

So eto na nga, dami kong kwento, pano ko ba to malalampasan? Hahahahaha 3 years na sa November ganito pa din ba ako. Straight siya alam ko yun kasi single mom siya at higit sa lahat kawork ko siya. Hindi umeepekto lahat ng technique ko na distraction kasi mag "Hi" palang siya sa chat, yung ngiti ko tinalo si Joker.

Sa mga nagkagusto sa straight, paano to tanggalin???

okay so i did an all nighter at our uni library from 5 PM to 6 AM and this WLW couple was sitting in front of me the ENTIRE TIME 😭

while i was deteriorating physically, mentally, spiritually, they were being all cozy and in love studying together like a reminder of how im so single💔💔💔
THEN I WENT HOME TO SLEEP. I WOKE UP TO GO TO THE GROCERY TO BUY COFFEE. TELL ME WHY THEY WERE THERE TOO????? 💔💔💔

please just get married already so my jealousy can at least have closure

Problem: Now I can’t tell if I’m just overthinking because I got attached, or if she actually liked me back at some point. Part of me wants to ask her directly so I can finally stop wondering, but I’m also scared it’ll make things awkward and ruin whatever connection or friendship we still have.

Context: I was rereading some old conversations with this girl, and it made me realize there might’ve been something there after all. She told me before that she wasn’t looking for anything serious/rs, so I tried not to assume anything. But looking back now, some of our conversations felt more genuine and personal than I initially thought.

We haven’t talked for about maybe a week now, and honestly, she still crosses my mind a lot. Ever since we started talking, I don’t think she ever fully left my head.

Have you ever been in this situation? How do you know if someone genuinely liked you back?

1 year na ako (F28) sa work ko and I have a new workmate (F29), na work crush ko na rin kasi cutie and soft spoken siya huhuh nase-sense ko siya sa radar pero hindi ako 100% sure. Huhuhu.

Nung una casual things lang napag-uusapan namin, work in general. Always ko siya kinakamusta kasi baka naku-culture shock siya since she came from a different department. Ayaw ko rin naman na gano'n ma-feel niya sa department namin.

Sabi ko sa kanya, "Magsabi ka lang kung may process ka na nahihirapan, kukunin ko muna sa'yo para hindi ka masyado ma-pressure." Tapos tumawa siya sabi niya okay lang daw and haaaay ang cute ng tawa niya. 😭

Tapos hanggang sa nag-oopen na siya ng konti about personal life niya ganern.

May workmate pa ako na nag-resign din and sabi ko "If you want, you can work on this table next to me" and you know what, she transferred 😭 sa tabi ko na siya nagwo-work 😭😭

Na-share ko sa kanya na I don't usually eat breakfast pero pag bumibili siya ng food niya sa morning, kasama ako 😭 tapos sasabihin niya parati "Kumain ka na para may energy ka", and "Parang di pa kita nakitang uminom ng water" as a reminder na uminom na ako. Siguro ginagawa niya na yun for more than a week now.

The other day, nag-inom kami ng friends ko. Went home at 4AM. Konting hilo lang tapos pasok na din. I ate something light for brunch. Inask ko siya if okay lang sa kanya lights off nung lunch break kasi nahihilo ako and she said yes naman. Around 4PM, nilibre kami ng Subway nung isa kong kawork, binibigay ko sa kanya yung akin bago kami umuwi kasi hindi naman na ako kakain sana ng dinner. Tapos alam niyo ang kulit lang kasi bigay-soli-bigay-soli kami 😭 hanggang sa binigay niya pati yung share niya tapos sabi "Kunin mo na rin yung akin, dinner mo. Nahihilo ka pa naman." in a serious tone. I smirked lang then umirap ako nang pabiro. Sinoli ko 'yung kanya tas kinuha na yung akin tapos sabay na kami umuwi.

Ano ba 'tooooooooo 😭😭😭 hindi naman siya ganito sa iba naming workmate. wala lang naman to di ba????? hindi ko dapat bigyan ng meaning di ba???? 😭

Wag naman sana, pero kung ganoon nga, sana malaman mong gusto kita.

I just found out na you probably blocked me on Telegram and even changed your username. We usually talk on IG, but you also deactivated over the weekend, so I honestly don’t know where else to reach out to you.

I know you as someone who likes taking time for herself, and I’ve never really minded that. I actually think it’s healthy, and I’ve always respected that space.

But if ever you do block me on IG too when you reactivate, I just want to say this before that happens:

I love your voice. I always get giddy whenever we end up calling until morning — even when we’re just talking about the most random things, translating silly phrases in your dialect, talking about poop or MJ, your favorite pop artists, or literally anything at all. I always enjoy our little conversations and hearing your voice on the other end of the line.

And with all the calls we’ve had, I wanna admit that I already liked you the very first night we talked — March 28. The next day, hinahanap-hanap na kita.

I know you may not have the capacity to see someone right now, or maybe you really do need most of your time to yourself, or maybe replying just isn’t easy for you sometimes. I understand all of that. I never really minded. I just genuinely like you, J. A lot.

I even started learning your routine just so I’d know when to start conversations with you. Kahit minsan one-sided, okay lang. I just liked talking to you that much.

I wish we could’ve seen each other in person someday so I could hear your voice in real life too, or just spend the day with each other.

Hopefully hindi mo ako i-block sa IG. But if you do, I just hope you know that I really like you, and I’m gonna be feeling this way for a while.

\-C

PS: kung makita mo man to, oo sige message mo lang ako haha

Problem/Situation: Is it normal or is it actually weird that my world did not come crashing down as much as I thought after (mutually) ending my almost 2 year relationship?

Context: We were happy nung start, but by mid June last year until early February this year we have been fighting monthly. Nung February nag-break kami saglit but then we got back together. Kahapon nakipaghiwalay na kami for good, for the reasons that we were not sure of each other anymore ++ alam namin di na maisasalba yung relationship namin.

I feel guilty pa nga kasi parang I want to stay single but my doors are actually open rin (despite what happened) to forming a new connection. Although, I admit na if anything happens I will be taking it slow this time at ayaw na ayaw ko ulitin yung mga pagkakamali ko sa prev rela. I also have higher standards both due to being scared and raising the bar for myself.

Problem: may success stories ba similar to my situation wherein like yung crush ko nagsabe na shes not looking siya for a relationship muna after i confessed na gusto ko siya. After nun, mas naging madalang na replies niya to the point na minsan di na siya nagrereply and ako naman lagi pa den nagrereply sa stories niya like successful strategy ba yun to impose na di ako mawawala? na legit ako? nagpadala pako ng bouquet cake and letter sa work niya take note cavite 2 pampanga to ah bestie hahahaha and i stated na im not here naman to take her freedom away ganern i respect her decision and gusto ko muna maging close friends. yun kase main concern niya bat super enjoy niya pagiging 3 yrs single niya. ayaw na niya malimitahan and ayaw niya na nung rules.

Context: nung una super daldal niya. We connected through a friendship subreddit. Apaka kalog niya eh. Accdg to her friend (turns out yung classmate ko ay tropa pala niya) wala daw talaga to pakelam si girlaloo sa mga tao to the point na di talaga siya mapost at macellphone that is why may specific hours lang siya in a day na nag oonline siya. Nung di pa ko nagconfess nagwewait ako kase once a day lang siya mag online ganun dahil sa nature ng work niya. And now mga 4 days nako para magwait kase siguro na off siya sa confession ko idk and i keep it chill naman when i message her.

i believe anyone who could take a good look at us can say na bagay kame eh hahaha char not char! pero seryoso kase

To those we broke up with their partner tapos pinursue yung pinagselosan ng partner mo before, how does it feel?

context: me and my ex already broke up 1 month ago and i found out na yung bago niya ngayon is yung someone na pinagselosan ko and lagi nyang sinasabi na “friends” lang sila.

it hurts so much to know na may bago na siya ulit. how does it feel? wala ba kayonh remorse or konsensya sa ex niyo na pinursue niyo yung someone na pinag aawayan niyo before?

context:

so i came across this video on tiktok abt wlw couple that's struggling cuz parents are against them. So i read some comments yk, like i reached the end of the comment section. There are only 4 outcomes in general:

1.) Parents accepted it later on cuz they fought for it, it takes months to years.

2.) Some parents didn't, they just built a new life away from the homophobic parents.

3.) Some got accepted, but eventually got cheated on.

4.) Some didn't fought their way and separated.

Out of the 4 outcomes, #1 outweigh them all. Some stories do include, the similar experience I am having rn (forced to separate w/ partner and not allowed to see her only secretly) but difference with me and them is that they have their strength and courage to fought back and eventually later on after months and years they got accepted.

Question:

I am curious, does any of you got the same outcome as #1?

I really did have my regrets back then, because I wasn't able to fought for my partner back then nor to myself, I admit I was weak. I fought for us naman( i said i love her, and this is who I really am, in the end they threatened me to cut connections w/ them and financially) but i feel like I didn't fought enough..

My plans for now, are letting her onto our home again as just friends so we can stop the hiding..

but now, these comments gave me hope.. i don't know maybe I'm just vulnerable now. Some comments said that, they kept letting their partner come to their house, still got the worse experience, and later on they just got accepted nalang.

Fellow gays, please be honest with me cuzzzz your girl is thinking abt this 24/7 for the past 7 months in this decision. Should i settle for just friends in their eyes or fought for us again?

rn all i want was to be with her, and stop the hiding. But the pretending part? my gf can't comply, i don't want to force her though. Ako siguro kaya ko pa masikmura, but ik it's like being on surveillance camera 24/7 naman if i chose this friends decision. If I fought for us again, one by one.. i will expect the worse. again. and it will probably dealt more damage again. for bg, I'm omw to 3rd year, I'm 20, and only child.

problem/goal: i'm having a hard time accepting na hindi talaga kami para sa isa't isa because matagal na kaming toxic and ilang beses na kami nagbreak. gusto ko na lumaya at palayain siya pero ang hirap tanggapin na wala na siya sa buhay ko

context: me and my ex girlfriend broke up again a week ago. pang-ilang breakup na namin ito and set na ko na huli na talaga at hindi na kami magkakabalikan. blinock ko siya on all platforms para no contact na talaga.

Naging kami last year lang around April. after maging kami, medyo napapadalas na away namin na umaabot sa point na every week na kami nagaaway and every week na ko nasasaktan. this year, napagod na ko kaaaway namin at hinayaan ko na lang mga bagay na nangyayari sa rs namin. hinahayaan ko na lang if feel ko ang unavailable niya kaysa pagaway na naman namin. alam ko naman na she's trying her best and maybe hindi lang talaga kami compatible kasi di namin nakikita pag nageeffort at nasasaktan na isa't isa. nakailang break at cool off kami to the point na nasanay na kong di kami naguusap

we called it off last week pero ngayon miss na miss ko siya. alam ko naman na tamang tigilan na namin kesa sirain pa namin isa't isa kasi di naman talaga magwwork pero nagddelusyon ako ngayon na baka pala naayos ko yung mga ugaling ayaw niya, sana pala naalagaan ko siya nung kami pa. sa daming beses namin nagkabalikan at sinabing aayusin namin, di naman namin naayos so i don't know what to do to finally accept it and move on. alam ko naman na hindi na maaayos pero hindi ko matanggap na wala na talaga siya sa buhay ko

gusto ko na ulit bigla magmahal amputa😭😭 hindi ko makita sarili kong magka-girlfriend ulit kasi HAHAHAHAHAH hindi naman ako lumalabas ng bahay e. tina-try ko naman gumamit ng dating apps pero minamalas lang o kaya wala akong type sa kanila😭

wala gago ok talaga ako nitong mga nakaraan ewan ko saan galing tong pakiramdam ko na to ngayon

sana bago ako mamatay magka-gf muna ako ng femme na maganda na mabait at matalino🫦