Looking for chill Female flatmate for 1 BHK semifurnished at no cost Occupied with MNC working guy Amenities Fridge Wi-Fi air conditioner Induction wardrobe bed Balcony and parking area Nearby Lodha xperia mall
TL;DR
M31 here, just needed to vent.
Was at a friend’s place, few drinks in and we started talking about dating after 30.
Everyone was saying how it’s hard to find someone.
Then it turned into this whole list.
•Some girls don’t like love bombing.
•Some like toxic men.
•Some want tall guys.
•Some enjoy kalesh.
•Some go back to their ex even when they’re with someone.
•Some girls don’t even feel like having sex.
•Some can’t even drive.
•Some like only red flag guys and green flag are easily ignored
I just said maybe it’s not that black and white.
•Love bombing isn’t the problem, fake effort is.
•It’s not attraction to toxic, it’s comfort in what they know.
•Height is a preference, not a personality.
•No one actually wants drama long term.
•Going back to an ex is usually unresolved stuff.
•Sex drive is different for everyone, it’s about compatibility not blame.
•Things like driving are individual, not something to judge.
• Red flags feel exciting at first, green flags feel stable, and stability is often mistaken as boring.
Didn’t think much of it.
Then suddenly it became.
“This is why you’re single.”
“You won’t find anyone.”
That kinda hit tbh.
Funny part is they’re all dating people who have the same traits they were complaining about.
I didn’t argue or anything.
Just said thanks for explaining why I’m single and left.
Maybe I am single for this reason, who knows.
But I’d still pick understanding people over reducing them to labels.
Anyway yeah, just felt weird enough to share here.
Hey kind lovely beautiful people.I just wanted a much needed break after this crazy F.Y year ending.Finally pulled the trigger and I'm currently solo travelling across Vietnam.Been in Hanoi for a few days, heading to Da Nang next and then Ho Chi Minh.
Man Hanoi is something else the old quarter is pure chaos energy, street food and beer on every corner.Eating like a king too pho, banh mi, fresh spring rolls all of it.The coffee here is addictive too(even though I stay away from coffee and tea both).
If you have a plan in mind and keep delaying it just do it guys.Life will pass by so fast.Vacations are important especially after the kind of work pressure we go through.I was also thinking about it for sometime but finally booked the tickets and came. No regrets at all. Feeling so relaxed already. Solo but not really alone meeting random people from all walks of life. Has anyone else in their thirties planning anything solo? Any tips for Da Nang or HCMC? What should I not miss?
Sharing some stuff taken in Hanoi and Ninh Binh
Will update how it goes.
Cheers🍺
“Ghar ki yaad nahi aayi tujhe jassi”
I’m turning 30 this year. I’ve been working since the last 3.5 years and it’s crazy how depressing life has become. Yesterday I had a conversation with my colleague and I told her I don’t wanna switch, I want to quit workforce. She’s five years elder to me and wishes the same but neither of us can quit cause Mumbai is expensive and we’re not from generational wealth.
I’ll quit tho, in five years. I want a four hour work day and a free weekend, I want to work for myself from wherever I want and have a creative fun way to afford my lifestyle. I’m tired of spending 10-12 hours at a desk, working at a bank where I’m just another employee that can be thrown out quite easily. I want this life to matter, I want my time to matter.
I’ll FIRE in five years and then I’ll become a writer or maybe a financial planner if I figure out how to use my certification.
I had a fracture this week.
Not a small one the kind that makes you stop, sit down, and realize how suddenly life can shift. The kind where you quietly hope someone will just ask, “Are you okay?”
I’ve always believed I had at least two people I could call friends. Maybe not a big circle, but enough to feel like I wasn’t completely alone in a city like Mumbai.
But yesterday changed that.
One of them, instead of asking how I was, chose to remind me how I’ve been struggling to find a house for the past two years how I’m unhappy how I apparently create problems at work how I don’t deserve the salary I earn because I don’t have a prestigious degree.
The other someone I’ve looked up to, didn’t even bother to check in.
Not a message. Not a call. Nothing.
And it made me sit with a question I’ve been avoiding for a long time: What does it actually mean to have people in your life?
Because when something real happens when you’re in pain, physically and emotionally that’s when you realize who shows up. And who doesn’t.
People often ask me, “How do you not have close friends or a partner?”
I don’t know how to answer that anymore.
Maybe I tried with the wrong people. Maybe I stayed where I wasn’t valued. Or maybe I just misunderstood what friendship is supposed to feel like.
All I know is this it hurts more than the fracture.
I’m not writing this for sympathy. Just needed to put it somewhere
Met someone on this sub and then in real life yesterday. It was scary initially meeting a stranger but we soon melted into each other and the experience was unique and fulfilling. Apart we discussed life, philosophy, purpose, biology, astrology and much more.. The person was genuine, pure at heart and intellectual. looking forward for many such interactions ahead..
I'm a guy and I'm just yk exploring more of mumbai but I find it hard to go everywhere alone so. yes
i (36f) recently joined gym i dont know anything about gym their machine name or anyhing. so probably any good trainer near vasai virar side.
Edit: Can anyone here be willing to foster or be my cats godmother when I am away or meet with an accident etc?
Hello guys. It’s Saturday night finally. Those who are partying, just rock guys. Those who are slotting alone into their beds, you cane share crazy relationship stories which are unique and exciting. Come one guys
Going through a lot since I just broke up with my girl after completing 5 years with her.. It’s very difficult to forget her. Can’t sleep and the only thing I do is cry.
I want cuddles playtime & companionship from a cat. I love cats and have cats before. I am thinking is it better to invest that money on other things instead like socialising with humans or funds idk. What to do.
Looking for chill Female flatmate for 1 BHK semifurnished at no cost Occupied with MNC working guy Amenities Fridge Wi-Fi air conditioner Induction wardrobe bed Balcony and parking area Nearby Lodha xperia mall
Hey, I’m 30 male, working as a corporate lawyer. I have place to myself and thinking of starting with a relaxed hangout maybe a movie at my place (I can host), some good music, drinks and easy conversation. If the vibe’s right, we could head out for a late night car drive around nearby or along the western line.
(30M, Chill Vibes and Respectful)
Hi any girl wants to join for a movie at the mall in Thane and I work as a team lead in an MNC
about me
age - 29
gender - male
salary - one iphone 16
age limit - 27 or above
what are you looking for in partner
working ( salary doesn't matter)
should be feminist
not interested in kids or dink
rest all are basic things, Good in nature.
what i can provide to my partner
i live alone so no need to worry about my parents or taking care of them
no need for any household work like cooking and cleaning all done by house help
who am I to give freedom but there will be no complaint from my side like i can do whatever I want you can do whatever they want.
this can sound odd but i prefer open marriage where you are not bound to stay with each other forcefully... you find someone better enjoy life with him