u/No_Call8052

I watched something before, the gist is, baka kaya ka mabilis ma-offend kase hindi para sayo yung post pero patola ka. Di naman tayo yung target audience pero react nang react. Basta, ang bilis na ma-offend ng mga tao haha.

(1) I have a friend of a friend na mlm (gwapong bakla) na may boyfriend na gwapo rin. Nung isang araw, chinika sa min nitong common friend namin na nasa gay dating app daw yung dalawang gwapo yon and naghahanap ng ka-trio, kase open relationship na raw sila.

(2) We have ka-work dati (but from other department) na sobrang ganda and outgoing nya. Siguro para syang indian younger version ni Marian Rivera. Extroverted, madaling pakisamahan, ganda mag-smile. May boyfriend sya na nagwowork lang malapit sa office namin kaya every time na out na, sinusundo sya. One time, may new hire na guy na mala-oppa yung datingan, bagong IT guy namin. Siguro ilang weeks nakalipas, nabalitaan namin na nagliligawan na yung dalawa. So we assumed na break na sila nung bf nya. Aba no mga ante! Nagkaroon ng company outing non, edi nagkasama sama kami, naki-sit sya sa min kase ayaw daw sa kanya ng mga babae nyang ka-team.

Chika chika, hinatid daw sya ni IT guy dun sa outing (sabay sila dumating) kase dun sya natulog sa kanila (apartment ni IT guy) tapos after ng outing susunduin sya ni bf nya (te IT rin ng ibang company pala itong si guy). Nagkalabuan daw sila ni IT boyfriend, tapos si IT newbie yung parang sumalo sa kanya. Nung nagkakabalikan na si IT bf, nagsabi si IT newbie kung ok lang ba na kahit gawin syang +1 (nakalimutan ko term pero di rebound yung sinabi nya eh). Inopen up ni girl kay IT bf yung sinabi ni IT newbie. Tinanong niya if may feelings na ba itong si girl kay IT newbie, sabi nya parang oo daw. So yon, dalawa na silang boyfriend nya.

Skl ~

I have been banned sa Tinder and Bumble, halos majority kase ng naiiswipe ko - oo, mostly gwapo (but wala naman silang tag na for short-term/only for fun/only for hook-ups) eh pag nakakausap ko, after day 1 ng medyo okay na topic, bigla na lang magja-jump sa ka-hornyhan. Inaaway ko :D (before i unmatch/block) kase nga syempre sana naman nilagay na nila sa bio nila or tags/preference kung yun lang hanap nila.

God forbids a pretty girl na naghahanap ng cute guy na kakikiligan at hindi lang gugustuhin kausapin dahil in-heat.

And please, wag nyo naman sana akong pangaralan na, "gwapo kase lagi hanap nyo kaya kayo naloloko" ay no po, kahit mukhang sigbin nagloloko na rin at mas malala pa maging ma-L.

So dahil di ko pa rin sinusukuan mga lalake, baka naman meron dyan na matinong kausap, kahit man lang after 6 months bago nyo pakita ang kulay green nyong mind, yung nakakasabay sa sarcasm, may substance kausap, pwede na rin nonchalant basta soft-spoken. Bonus na lang if gwapo kayo.

About me:

26F
Metro Manila
Working
Strong independent woman (financially, emotionally, and physically)
Maganda (istg, source: trust me bro)
Chinita w eyeglasses (fr)
5'2 petite (if thicc thighs gusto nyo, sorry not me)
ISTJ + Virgo + AB+
Red flag
Sa una lang magaling

About you:
Dahil subjective ang overall physical appearance, rate yourself (1 lowest, 10 ofc highest)

EDIT
Please dont ask me for telegram, i tried to create one before but for some reason, i am unable to receive the otp for account registration. And i only have 1 phone number to use.

Deserve natin someone who yearns for us.

I said what I said.

New sa reddit, usually search lang sa google before like "blahblah reddit reviews". Now lang naggawa ng sariling reddit account.

This is from what I've recently read which i could resonate with; "Dating is optional for me. My bills are paid. My house is calm. My bed is big. Peace already exists in my life. So if someone enters it, he wont be competing with other men. He'd be competing with the comfort I've learned to have in my own company. And that changes everything. I don’t need a guy to complete me, I’m already whole. I don’t need noise, I have peace. I don’t need promises, I have proof of what I can survive alone."

But then, there are times that I look for someone to share memories with. To have cute photos, to have future with. Pero sa ngayon kase, majority ng mga lalake, they'd just get the spark in your eyes. Idk parang enjoyin na lang ang kilig while it's still there.

This is from what I've recently read which i could resonate with. Dating is optional for me. My bills are paid. My house is calm. My bed is big. Peace already exists in my life. So if someone enters it, he wont be competing with other men. He'd be competing with the comfort I've learned to have in my own company. And that changes everything.

I don’t need a guy to complete me, I’m already whole. I don’t need noise, I have peace. I don’t need promises, I have proof of what I can survive alone.

But then, there are times that I look for someone to share memories with. To have cute photos, to have future with. Pero sa ngayon kase, majority ng mga lalake, they'd just get the spark in your eyes. Idk

I tend to notice their nose then face (skin texture). Kayo ba? Ano una nyong tinitignan kapag may ka-meet up for the first time or ka-date kayo? Be brutally honest.

I tend to notice their nose then face (skin texture). Kayo ba? Ano una nyong tinitignan kapag may ka-meet up for the first time or ka-date kayo? Be brutally honest.

Before kase, two lang yung labels. "Nagliligawan" (i think can also be considered Mutual Understanding/MU) and "In a Relationship".

Ngayon, meron ng Casual, FWB, Fubu, No label but exclusive, Situationships -

Saan nyo nakilala partner, gf/bf, wife/husband nyo?

Sobrang limited ng circle ko, kahit from college days, puro babae kami. Nagkaroon pa ng pandemic when i was working kaya naging work from home kami. Also, majority din ng mga ka-work ko eh babae.

I am doing pilates (for 6 years now) and just started playing pickleball. Kulang na lang daw maging matcha lover.

Tanong lang sa mga girls na aware na conventionally pretty, meron ba kayong insecurities?